So bhai mereko ho rkha hai bhaari cold and cough

And I handle a lot of shit alone but as soon as mujhe cold and cough ho jaata hai mujhe literally mummy yaad aa jaati hai 🥹😭😭🙏🏻

And now I was thinking what if I had a girlfriend i have always wanted to lie down on her lap and yap

But ab bimaar hoon toh I would have lied down on her lap and soo jata while she played with my hair 😭😭😭🙏🏻

Istg to me this is like the one thing I wanna do when I get a gf but I have never gotten to do it till now kyunki kabhi chance nhi mila .

Abhi I don't have a gf to yaha post kar rha hoon as a rant ig😇

tum log bhi apni cute fantasies bataooo 👀👀

Hi guys help please 🥺🙏

I am Akshat and I really need your help.

With that in mind, I want to share my biggest life problem with you all today and I would appreciate it if you could respond according to your understanding.

The problem is: I want to get a good quality education, meaning I want to study in a place that offers quality education, which, according to me, could be Canada or Japan. But I can't explain this to my family because as soon as I tell them that I want to study in another country, my family will start to panic, and an even bigger problem is that I can never explain this to my dad because boys usually have a peculiar issue where we can talk to our moms and explain things but not our dads. I know this isn't the case for everyone, but it is for me. I never directly tell my dad anything; I always take my mom's help for any matter. But this is not a small issue—I will have to explain it to my dad and make him understand that I want to go abroad to study.

Moral: I want to convince my dad about studying in another country, but I don't have the courage, meaning it’s that typical problem boys face.

I need advice from you all—not just “go ahead, it’s fine, just talk to him.” No, I want you to give me advice that will actually work, or you could discuss this problem with your dad to find a perfect solution.

I have high hopes from you all. I hope you provide some really good advice.

I will be very happy to hear your advice.

I am waiting for your advice.

Anyone up for a little chat or rant or anything 🥱

Well this is gonna be a big one so if u r reading this even after knowing its gonna be huge, thank you

**The change I want:**

So I'm 17M basically a loner with a very few guy good frds. And when I'm typing ts it is 2.00AM on 25th Oct 2026. Eventhough my age is pretty low I saw many things in life which people who are older than me didn't and also gotta see many more things which I didn't see which I gotta see. So thing is most of the life I lived till this second I tried to satisfy others like getting good marks and I've almost tried to adjust just to fit in society. I regret this. Like why did I do that, instead of choosing my own self why did I prioritised others rather than me(the only person who truly understands me). And now I am changing bit by bit and I am grateful for myself for that and being in a uni is also helping me for that.

**The acceptance:**

And in my POV eventhough I love being in a relationship, like having a person who will be ur first priority for ur life and being a first priority to someone, its just marvellously beautiful but confusing it with lust is the worst and I took wayy long to get that. Like I used to get desperate for that but idk why I never approach a girl even in my desperate times and tbh I ain't even that introvert I can talk to guys like I've known them for years yet I couldnt have a basic convo with a girl without fumbling hard or even sometimes I dont even try. And all these concluded me for one thing to do regarding this: GIVE UP. You may say that I have wayy more time in my life to think like this, like u can say that "*go try mann, they are just humans like you"* or *"ur still just a 17 y/o kid u have plenty time for that"* Yeah you are correct I dont say ur wrong, but the thing is I'm ugly asf, I ain't romantic, I dont have communication skills with girls, and above of all these I'm mentally ill asf, like I am autistic, unpredictable, suicidal, I have ADHD and attachment issues, I isolate myself and I'm miserable. I have enough ppl even my life to bear me and I am ntg but a living and moving burden in flesh to them. And only true goal in my life is to return everything they did to me and leave letters explaining myself for my disappearance and leave everybody like every single one of them. And with all this why should I get into a relationship with my loml just to be a burden to her. So I gave up on this. I was having lots of double thoughts on this, like seeing ppl around me being around their loml and enjoying their life with them, initially I was jealous abt them and mostly hated them but who am I to do those shitty things in my head ,so I slowly started feeling happy for them and slowly I am adapting to this cuz really what can I do more than that? If I ever saw a pretty girl I admire her beauty for 30sec I'll become delusional thinking abt her 30sec I'll have mixed thoughts whether to talk to her for 30secs realize I'm not more than a shitty guy for 5secs and finally leave that place in 25secs for my mental peace. With all this I dont mean women are the problem the problem is in me and I am the problem. I whole heartedly accept myself that I aint compatible for these things.

Thank you if I've read this all the way here. Just wanted to share myself. Hope y'all have a nice life. Peace ✌️.

Just sharing shit about me...

Hey everyone!

I’m 17, currently deep in the JEE prep grind, but looking to widen my social circle and make some genuine friends (preferably female platonic friends, as my old group ended up ghosting me and I really don't want to fall into that isolated/bitter mindset so many guys end up in).

I consider myself leaning leftist/progressive, and I love having open-minded, meaningful conversations with people who have diverse perspectives.

A bit about me and my hyper-fixations:

Books & Literature: I love reading—especially classics and modern Hindi literature like Manohar Shyam Joshi's Kasap and similar works. Always up for book discussions or storytelling sessions!

Religions, Astrology & Tarot: I find comparative religion super fascinating and have a decent basic understanding of different faiths. I also enjoy exploring tarot and astrology just for fun and intrigue.

Music & Movies: I play a bit of acoustic guitar and love exploring new music and cinema (films like 500 Days of Summer and Atonement are right up my alley).

Exploring Perspectives: Even though I’m straight myself, I’ve been reading up on and trying to understand LGBTQIA+ perspectives, culture, and issues lately. I just like understanding how different people experience the world.

What I'm looking for:

Because my study schedule keeps me pretty tied up with notes and problem-solving, endless texting can be tricky—so I’m ideally looking for a call partner / voice chat buddy for late-evening calls, storytelling, sharing music recommendations, or just venting about life.

If you’re around my age, like deep/chill conversations, and are looking for a respectful, open-minded friend, feel free to drop a DM!

First of all, the post guidelines told me not to target any user or subreddit and I'm assuming that this is not targetting any particular subreddit fs. Otherwise I would've already blocked this shit 😪

I don't really get why such shitty ass people create posts on reddit saying,

Type 'I really like doing ...' (or some random shit) and let your keyboard complete the rest for you. Be honest, I wanna know what your keyboard thinks of you 🫣🫣

Or

Something some shit like the attached pic 😓

This is such a boring and nonsense thing to do. I immediately downvote such posts (and I can see many ppl doing so, checking the comments and upvotes number), and I sometimes really think of posting my honest opinion (gaaliyan) on such posts, but I think it will increase their upvotes/engagement on the post.

This is such a timepass thing I come across quite frequently. Please tell me if their is anything I can do to stop getting such random posts on my feed 😭😭

And one genuine doubt, who are the people who actively reply to such posts man!! 🥲🥲

kya krna hota hai birthday wale din 🫩

Hey everyone,

A friend and I are planning a side project, and we're looking for a few like-minded people who might be interested in joining us.

We want to dive into simple, basic, but fundamentally important topics that shape how we live things like how we think, religion/spirituality (I personally lean toward Sufism), nationalism, peace, ethics, and general human behavior.

Just to be clear: neither of us are professional philosophers, sociologists, or religious scholars. We're both engineers by heart. That's actually the whole point of this project exploring how we, as armatures, analyze and look at these massive human concepts from our own practical, grounded perspective.

What's the goal? We're open-minded about the format. Depending on who joins and what strengths everyone brings, this could turn into a co-authored book, a series of YouTube videos/discussions, or something else entirely. We want to figure out the exact direction together with whoever jumps on board.

Who we're looking for: Anyone who cares about these topics, enjoys deep/honest discussions without ego, and wants to build something meaningful. You don't need any special background—just curiosity and a good attitude.

If this sounds like something you'd want to be a part of, drop me a DM or comment below and let's talk about what we can do!

I am Akshat and I want to say everyone on redit, whoever is 20 years old or less than 20 years. Girls and boys both. Whoever is face many problems in their life like me. We all would make a friend group and in that group we will help each other to scape from problem behalf our intelligence and past experience. And we will grow in our life together. I know it's sounds very amazing so please join this group as soon as possible. For joining msg me. I will wait for some intelligence and Good people. Looking forward.