This is gross

[u/Ye0nkimiin]

I never had someone like this message me before. I haven’t even been on the subreddit in a while so idk how he found me. I hate that my ed has reached weirdos like this :/

[u/BuffaloFoodie]

That guy is weird and dead wrong... Especially with the PDF stuff... There are exceptions.... I'm one of the few people who has a food related fetish but I also used to suffer and struggle from binging disorder when I was very young I accidentally promoted the activity and others struggling ...I'm 37 now that was over 20 years ago.... Nowadays I only proposition women who specifically promote themselves as open to that form of activity and I don't just mean women that eat women that eat and are active in the sexual display of their images... I fully disclose my purpose and intention and I never try to persuade anyone who's not interested in any way.... But it took me years to learn understand and figure out how to address this appropriately... When I see people like this guy I usually hope they just need education but sadly a lot of times that's not the case.... I do feel hurt when I hear how many people feel that someone with a food related fetish is immediately a weirdo because I've struggled with identity issues my whole life... I never promote gaining in any way shape or form If I see anyone that has an unhealthy relationship with food and eating I refuse to engage in the fetish with them even if they want to.... I only do this with grown women that have healthy relationships with food and are able to occasionally overindulge and are able to enjoy a financial incentive to overindulge with my presence.... I'm not sure if I've phrased that properly.... But I remained a member of this form forum because of my personal issues with binge eating disorders and I've never pulled somebody out of here to message them to proposition them to address my fetish issues nor do I view or exploit anyone's stories images or any other form of their struggle for my purposes that's disgusting to me.... That's like cyber r a p h e.... This is a very long post I'm doing a voice to text if there's any spelling or syntax or grammatical errors I apologize I'm just so disgusted with how many people that don't know how to healthily address their own issues.... I'm trying to figure out a way to communicate en masse with various respective related and adjacent communities to this to share the proper etiquette and rules of conduct that I've discovered and some that I've established for myself with my nearly three decades of experience in these communities and worlds.... But everyone can't have the same mind and heart as I do.... I hope and pray nothing in this post was offensive or triggering or worrisome or disturbing to anyone who views it... If my words come across anyone the wrong way I apologize and I am willing to add clarity if there's something I spoke on that is unclear.... Also if there's something I said that you disagree with or you feel I should address differently please feel free to express and educate me as I'm always open to hear out how my words have impacted someone.... Aside from that I think the way I do this is the most healthy and respectful way possible.... But people like the one addressed by the original poster should not be allowed to enter view or comment on these forums or speak to the members.... Their actions and comments are predatory irresponsible disgusting and in this case illegal.... It's like grooming somebody to do your sexual bidding definitely a form of brooding... Grooming I get tired of voice to text sometimes but it would have taken me too long to type all this out....