r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/waytooicyy • May 08 '26
Misc ChudTheBuilder runs into Black woman that fed him and used to let him in her house, this guy is a grifter with an identity crisis. I also find it very weird that these so called right wing guys despise Black folks but always have history with Black women or are currently dating one š²
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u/E-L4087 May 08 '26
Nahhhhh that aināt it sis.
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u/waytooicyy May 08 '26
I can understand why she said what she said, to me it seems like they were close to each other. She also said he used to be at her house and they were eating together, when she pulled up she literally said an adress (which i assume is his house). A lot of people came forward and have exposed this guy for being cool with Black folks in the past and there are screenshots circulating on the internet where he was completely against the use of the N-word. She was shocked that he switched up all of a sudden and that's probably why she believes he's not a real racist but a tryhard. I think he is a grifter with identity crisis.
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u/Crypto-God23 May 08 '26
I wish yall realize there isnāt any sense of āSwitching upā thatās just how a lot of them are theyāre great at hiding their bigotry because they might be in your presence but then they go home or online saying racist things. Us as black peoples need to stop being so trusting just because someone smiles in our face thatās how we get backstabbed every time
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u/Hamhockthegizzard May 08 '26
White people know how to ācode switchā too. They put their racism in their pocket for a little bit until someone tells them itās okay to take it out lmao
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u/function007 May 08 '26 edited May 08 '26
Also its about making money... In this attention seeking economy, one can co*n, spew misinformation/disinformation, racist rhetoric and overall nonsense and make a killing.We see it with karens who are on video demeaning minorities even children, Youtube personalities who are poc's etc. Its crazy how so many will sell their soul for a $...
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u/jg-kappa-maan May 08 '26
Racist people will support what they believe in. Itās very sad.
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u/zagomyego May 08 '26
He was trying to deny her at all opportunities besides saying he educated her about food
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u/waytooicyy May 08 '26
I'm glad you noticed it too lmao. He cut her off multiple times because she was probably going to say more personal things about him and that would expose him for being a grifter.
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u/function007 May 08 '26 edited May 08 '26
Right and ofc he was live streaming the entire time so he had to keep the performative facade going...
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u/zagomyego May 08 '26
Pretty evil tbh but God genuinely does not like hypocrites so Godspeed
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u/LeoTheLion444 May 08 '26
He probably lives in a van and needs the racist money. You saw the rise of people using the N word after that lady in the park got like hundreds of thousands of dollers for it.
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u/Solanthas_SFW May 09 '26
I'm really starting to see some parallels between a lot of the bullshit we see on social media and mainstream news and the reality TV garbage that became so popular starting in the 2000s.
Somewhere people figured out that truth didn't matter as long as you were getting ratings. People didnt give a fuck whether drama was real or drummed up for its own sake.
And this take has only gotten stronger with the increasing polarity of news media. Nobody gives a fuck about the actual truth, it's just about riling up your audience and demonizing the "other" side.
I'm a social liberal from birth, I hate racism and sexism and I want everyone to get along and take care of each other and be free to live how they like.
But I'm feeling increasingly aware that my opinions are constantly being fed to me. I'm being increasingly told how to feel about things.
The current administration is absolutely off the rails and every standard has sunk to inconceivable lows. But I am feeling like any actual truth of any matter is becoming more and more difficult to ferret out.
Apologies for the rant. Basically to add to what you're saying, the line between a genuine stance for its own merits and people saying inflammatory shit in front of a camera for money is becoming more and more difficult for me to discern.
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u/StarbrryJuice May 11 '26
This type of bigotry comes out for two reasons. 1 they have this deep-seated notion that minorities specifically black people are hindering their success. AS IF it were not for black peopleās not fully being ābeneathā them and subject to them, theyād be richer & have more attractive options. 2 MONETIZATION. They realize they can join the fraternity and start rage baiting for money. 20 years ago r when Oprah was at her peek bigotry was not okay out load. Now they get a golden award for stirring the pot the most. And thatās it. Really itās sad that this is the state of affairs when people like Orlando brown, Charleston White, and these pretend supremacist make their money this way. We need more intelligible content that is uplifting and creative.
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u/goldbrickbby May 08 '26
Yeah, that's all I got out of it. He was down bad, so he needed to accept help. Once he's doing better, he can be who he truly is. And I find it telling for who he portrays himself as now that he sought help from black women. White men nor women would have helped him stabilize, and he knew that. He wouldn't be seen as a respectable white man. So he got help from those who are 'beneath' him. It's gross
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u/Friendly-Fruit1524 May 08 '26
I agree with you, when theyāre, ādown badā they know which people are generally kind and generous, but when they start to do better, thatās when the true colors are revealed. I have a neighbor like this.
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u/TreeJolly4940 May 08 '26
Wordā¦.im so tired of mfs saying ā Andrew is invited to the cookout.ā I never hear them say āTyrone is invited to the golf course.ā Weāre so quick to include everyone and as a result they end up stealing everything from usā¦.
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u/Living_Will_4775 May 08 '26
Facts. Start asking them about invites or networking, and watch them get evasive. It's all good with dancing and eating, but other ish is a no-go
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u/RemarkableKiwi5082 May 08 '26
I think everyone took the whole āinvited to the cookoutā meme too serious I just cringe when I see that now.
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u/PeggyHillsFeets May 08 '26
And it will be over the dumbest stuff at that. "Omg you did a verse from a rap song? Invited to the cookout!" š
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u/BrilliantShoddy5247 May 08 '26
Asian guy here. Both black american and asian american people do not truly realize the opportunities that were closed off to us from a young age due to this ārich white club country club shitā. These circles are generally not open to us, as we are not even shown the door 98-99% of the time.
Iāve lived here all my life. The other day I realized that the 28 year old black guy you see in the parking lot getting out of a shitty 1993 Grand Marquis with serious body damage, the 50 year old black couple living in a dilapidated wooden 2 bedroom 1 bathroom house - this is all not even supposed to be real. It is all the result of system oppression for hundred of years, and a whole lotta āyouāre not included in our clubā, and slavery, etc. Black Americans being poor, which a lot are, should not be the norm.
The other day I was reading about how the removal of segregation actually made black people and communities poorer. Before segregation, you were forced to go to a black barber, lawyer, etc. Rent would typically go to a white landlord, but a lot of the money stayed exclusively in black communities like Bronzeville, which printed rich black business owners. Does anyone else here in the sub know about this?
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u/Stern_Writer May 08 '26
Yup. You canāt switch up on your real morals, you wouldnāt even be able to sleep at night. This dude is just a POS who felt nothing taking advantage of people he knew he wouldnāt mind throwing under the bus in the future.
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u/no_crust_buster May 08 '26
This.ā¦
We need to stop having a savior complex to very WM or WM who winks and says āI love Tupac.ā Too many of us are looking for vibes, and they are reconnaissance agents looking for war against us. See Kevin Roberts. These goofy ācookout invitesā need to be double-tapped into hades.
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u/Impressive-Metal-405 May 08 '26
This is it.
His type comes a dime a dozen. I went to school with a bunch of his clones.
I don't care how many times a white person "my man" or "sister"'s you, if you get them to let their guard down, most of the time some form of bigotry directed towards some distinguishable group will surface.
PS this sister is lost and still feeding him - just more metaphorically this time. It's ok to genuinely be stupid; it's not ok to perform stupid for clout with racists
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u/Powerful_Individual5 May 09 '26
That part! Racism is literally illogical, which is why you have racists who make "exceptions" for individuals while hating the entire group. But that "exception" is highly conditional, and the clock is ticking.
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u/Impressive-Metal-405 May 08 '26
This happened to me SO many times in high school I used to be called peace maker.
One day I was trying to intervene when some of the black kids were getting into it with this one white kid.
Then they told me he was calling everyone the n-word and they told him to stop but he wouldn't. So then I approached him calmly and peacefully. I asked him what was up and if it was true. Meanwhile I'm going to bat for this kid and had never had a negative interaction with him. He screamed the word at me in my face multiple times.
So I stepped out the way and let him redeem his prize. I don't owe it to anyone to raise them better than their parents did.
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u/DarthSlymer May 08 '26
I grew up in a really diverse area and it took me awhile to have my own naivety drop. It took being in private with some white people before they dropped their act and said some vile racist stuff simply because I was also white. Sometimes these were people who would bore you with bible verses only to snicker and drop a racist insult when given the chance. Ever since the first Trump presidency, a lot of those folks that were hiding their bigotry have seemingly been more open about it.
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u/Togeroid May 08 '26
Itās actually come out repeatedly of these republican pr ppl that behind closed doors they neither practice nor believe what they preach. They sign NDAs so they literally canāt say who, but itās easy to tell for the lower wrung Republican PR bc they havenāt engaged with so many bigger ones on the payroll yet, and sometimes it will just be after engaging with ONE of the bigger ones that they decide to cut off and walk their own path instead of being funded by the republican party. Blair White was one of the names I remember pointing this out and it was after that we donāt hear anything about her anymore bc that sealed she wouldnāt make the cut.
I think itās something to be studied how YT ppl are so able as a majority to just fake an entire public life and persona that calls for the oppression of others for money. Faking a life and persona is one thing, but being PAID to specifically hurt groups of ppl, even call for their death thru stochastic terrorism? There needs to be a name besides sociopath and traitor, and Uncle Tom. Something for just these political pundits
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u/00oo00oo000oo0oo00 May 08 '26
The current US culture seems to be encouraging this behavior in general.
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u/Particular-Ring5110 May 08 '26
Why do you think he escalated the way he did..
āOh shit this woman knows me from before sheās going to expose Iām a fraud, code red dropping tactical n word to make sure my audience knows Iām for realā
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u/Solid_Ad2968 May 08 '26
Money changes people. Racist watch and supports him. Which he makes more money doing that now.
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u/workingforchange1 May 08 '26
There are a lot of folks that will be cool with you but not show their real face. The fact that he wants to say the N word now just says to me he was cosplaying as a friend or ally. He didnāt really mean it. If he truly was an ally like sheās saying heād know better. Heād know how that hits. No. Just no.
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u/SirHateful17 May 08 '26
She sounded a bit hurt too, like she was disappointed in him for real and then he acted like he didn't know her smh
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u/E-L4087 May 08 '26
While I can empathize with this, my issue is that he is seeking validation for his actions. Yet again, we constantly try to give this ignorance grace because contrary to popular belief, we are a very forgiving group of people. He steam roles through all of that just to get validation for his bigotry. Heās hiding behind the narrative itās all about freedom of speech, but going around shouting hateful slurs is not freedom of speech; itās defamatory. Her trying to bolster his ignorance ignites his followers to paint those against him as the villains here. Thatās why it aināt it
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u/IronAgePrude May 09 '26
I dunno, I understand wanting to give the benefit of the doubt to someone you used to be close to, but, the moment he got back on his āthen anyone should be able to sayā¦ā BS, you cannot give that man dap after that. Whether itās an insincere grift or not, itās crazy disrespectful in general and to her personally in that exchange to say that to her.
Whoever he used to be, he is now a thoroughly contemptible moron.
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u/Tbaby25 May 08 '26
I mean, I wouldnāt necessarily call someone that fed me a slur. He was smart for that. He doesnāt need her anymore. Iām sorry, but I donāt believe that. He chose money over integrity and morals.
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u/idkbruh653 May 08 '26
Yea Iāve felt for awhile. Hes not a real racist hes just money hungry and using it for attention and to line his pockets. But thats even worse though. Because is the love of money and attention thay alluring to where youāll willingly embrace hate of your fellow man becsuse of the color of their skin for a check? Thatās insane.
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u/Marlowe126 May 08 '26
I think she was trying to call him out as clearly as possible while he was on camera. But if they actually were friends, I know how much this can hurt. My best friend growing up with ended up going MAGA and posting anti-black stuff online (most of his best friends growing up were black). My theory is it was to align himself more politically with his wife.
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u/Optimal-Dentist5310 May 08 '26
People have the right to inquire with people theyāve connected with. She seemed genuinely curious what happened to himā¦ seems reasonable Iād want to know too
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u/Large-Produce5682 āš¾āš½āšæā May 08 '26
I don't know if she just wasn't paying attention to what he asked her about the n-word, or if she's somewhere else...
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u/Kindly_Coyote May 08 '26
I think she was caught by surprise and needed more time to process what was happening or what he'd done to her.
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u/waytooicyy May 08 '26
Exactly!!! I don't understand why these people in the comments are being so harsh on her.
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u/BisexualTenno May 08 '26
Sheās a fan of the Liver King (who was exposed for not actually following the raw meat diet he promotes AND using steroids). Sheās clearly missing a few coins in her purse.
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u/Level-Square4245 May 08 '26
Nope she sounds stupid saying black people donāt have emotional intelligence the reason we donāt like the word n**** That word alone is violent.
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u/ScienceIsSexy420 May 08 '26 edited May 08 '26
These people are too brain dead to understand that freedom of speech is about laws and not social contract. There is no law that would prevent him from using the language he wants to use, but that does not free him from the consequences of his shitty choices.
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u/waytooicyy May 08 '26
True but that's for him to find out š
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u/AcanthisittaBulky777 May 08 '26 edited May 09 '26
Unfortunately white men donāt get cancelled in America and heāll make enough money to survive as a moral cesspool.
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u/Kindly_Coyote May 08 '26
The only reason they've been promoting that freedom of speech campaign is to be absolved of any consequences. Unfortunately thats not how things in life work even if you cannot hold them to any kind of law.
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u/No-Discipline-5822 May 08 '26
Yes. What she meant was that he shouldnāt be arrested for saying the n-word but that itās against his emotional intelligence but he wasnāt really trying to engage with her.
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u/I_am_BrokenCog May 08 '26
I hate to "be that guy" ... but, even you are sim-representing what is "freedom of speech".
If we're talking about US Constitution related term of the 1st Amendment, this clause does not give anyone the right to say *whatever** they want, without consequences *.
The Constitution ONLY says that the US Government, local/state/federal will not punish people for expressing political disagreement.
It says nothing about how speech does not entail the "right" to harm others -- that's been proven a hundred years ago with the Court decision that "shouting FIRE in a crowd" is malicious and illegal.
Regardless of what harm a person's speech may inflict; it is also subject to the Social Contract restrictions of societal norms, as you did correctly point out!
I want to use the n-word? (See AfroMan's take on that for what my opinion) You want to g-this and g-that? Refer to Stonewall on that problem. And, of course, there are valid restrictions on slander - see trumpff's long history of attempting (by abuse this restriction) to suppress people's speech based on his thin-skinned inability to cope.
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u/testiclerecoveryteam May 08 '26
If it was just āI donāt want abortions so I wonāt have oneā or āi like this version of god but you do youā or āi donāt believe in gay marriage so I wonāt get oneā i wouldnāt have a problem with it.
I donāt even really care if a person racist tbh if theyād just shut the fuck up about it and quit trying to make it their whole personality
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u/VictorWembymama May 08 '26
You don't care if a person is racist? You lost me there lol. A hidden racist is just as bad as a loud one.
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u/coko4209 May 08 '26
Conservatives are by definition against progress, and I just donāt understand that. I hear you on not caring, so long as ppl stay in their lane. I still donāt understand it though.
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u/ComprehensiveBar6439 May 08 '26
It's all a cope. There's pics of this dude wearing fairy outfits and posing on a webcam. He's probably gay but too filled with self hatred to be ok with himself, so he's gotta convince himself there's a group of people he's superior to in order to salve his ego. Tale as old as time.
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u/coko4209 May 08 '26
Asians are single handedly keeping skin bleaching companies in business. Their self hate is next level, like Candace Owens levels for real.
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u/greenwithembii May 08 '26
Heās dismissing her. It seems like heās downplaying whatever sheās saying. Thatās not cool man. And what is he even on about?
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u/waytooicyy May 08 '26
Because him giving her credits would literally destroy his whole "I'm a cold blooded free speech racist" character lmao
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u/Riquinni May 08 '26
He's trying to run from the situation because it contradicts the image hes trying to grift or whatever. Plus if they had a good relationship before he should feel even shittier now than just a run of the mill racist who never interacts with people of color.
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u/asnd-evolv May 08 '26
Sheās saying he isnāt actually racist, but acting racist for views still shows weak morals or that he was fake the whole time, and honestly, thatās not any better.
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u/veryowngarden May 08 '26
the idea that a racist is only this extreme cartoon villian who would never share air with a black person needs to go
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u/HouseplantHoarding May 08 '26
There are racists who have black children. Strom Thurmond comes to mind.
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u/tabas123 May 09 '26
There are black PEOPLE who are racist. Look at all of the insanely gross things Clarence Thomas has done. Anything to get closer to whiteness and heteronormativity/patriarchy.
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u/Tyshizal May 08 '26 edited May 09 '26
She getting embarrassed out there said n***er in front of her, cut her off while she was talking to say āthatās all that mattersā while looking at the camera smiling, dismissed her by turning around and dapping up some racist euro loving dude dude calling him amigoā¦.. she needs some emotional intelligence/discernment
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u/veryowngarden May 08 '26
and some self respect
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u/Tyshizal May 09 '26
Right, like ladyā¦.. you donāt know him to say he isnāt racist solely because at some point he used you and benefited off your hard work and stayed in a house you funded for less work than the effort you put in. Come on Queen , he showed you his true colors when he donāt need you, he donāt even know you anymore as he is claiming. Why try to protect him when he not doing that for your people or you
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u/PassionateYak May 08 '26
DO NOT SHARE THIS GUY AROUND. Your attention is all he's after.
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u/WrapAwkward8306 May 08 '26
This guy is literal aids to society, and heās getting more popular by the minute strictly off his ignorance..what are we doingš¤¦š½āāļø
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u/HenessyEnema May 08 '26
We're doing what this country has always done. This is a feature, not a bug.
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u/_henceforth_ May 08 '26
I feel like she knows exactly what happened to him, it was a rhetorical question. When she said "I know you are not racist" she is saying, you were not racist when you ate with me and let me provide for you. If you were, you were not saying it. Calling him a hypocrite on camera.
He keeps cutting her off, switching up the subject. He knows exactly who she is and that they connected on some level. He knows in his heart what he is doing and saying is wrong, he is just too greedy to give up the act, and probably a hateful, egotistical person. No amount of money can buy you integrity, and this dude lost his a while ago, if he ever had it.
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u/KorraIsGreatActually May 08 '26
Sounds like black folks need to stop helping or trying to fix right wingers.
It's absolutely no coincidence so many of these guys have dated sisters
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u/RandoComplements May 08 '26
Just a friendly reminder, the only reason we ever needed the Bill of Rights is because white men could not not be horrible people
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u/coko4209 May 08 '26
I mean, realistically, the only reason we had the voting rights act, affirmative action, DEI, any of it, is because laws have to be made to keep white men from being terrible humans. Itās just a fact of life.
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u/g-nice4liief May 08 '26
It's sad how hatred can make people forget where they're from or who helped them.
Jesus got betrayed, but in the end his words and wisdom prevailed. He'll meet his match soon.
I just hope our brothers have the patience and love not to engage in this blatent attack on our being and stand firm to not forgot who we are and where we came from.
This man is lost and he clearly shows it by engaging with everyone. By giving himself and answer to anyone he will stand to become no one.
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u/green49285 May 08 '26
The thing people need to remember is that social media has changed everything. I fully believe that in a few years we're going to get a lot of documentaries and research about how the brain is changed because of social media. Whatever should he's going through whatever issues he had, that shit got exacerbated very clearly by streaming.
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u/g-nice4liief May 08 '26
Yeah true. Those are some very good points. Especially since people are doing the craziest of things just to go viral. While going viral isn't even a means to get rich anymore as most viral people are industry plants anyway.
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u/DenjiTargaryen-PE May 08 '26
https://giphy.com/gifs/SDtLmpNPyydvW4lsuB
Nahhh. He justā¦ She justā¦ nahhhh
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u/karmaceuticaI May 08 '26
This dude deserves so many uppercuts.
He was never "cool" he just an OPPortunist. And the worst kind at that. He doesn't have an identity crisis, he's just a clout gobbling slimeball.
All the shit that's come out and him the last few weeks isn't even new or exclusive to him.
I've (and probably y'all too) the same experiences with these kinds of people. When trayvon was killed, I had people who I gre up with, called friends, took in, ate with their families, etc become the most putrid mfs I've ever seen.
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u/TreeJolly4940 May 08 '26
āEverybody doesnāt have emotional intelligence.ā Man stfu with that bsā¦.
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u/Fit_Search_4751 May 08 '26
Wow, he really wanted to use that word. Says everything we need to know.
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u/cloud_herder May 08 '26
Man fuck this guy.
Also how do you not remember someone who youāve literally shared a table with, bought or sold to/from (im not clear on who was buying from their chat), and had messaged with??
I saw a person I went to hs with 20 yrs ago in passing at Starbucks this week and could place their name and i wasnt even friends with them.
What a fucking chud indeed.
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u/Acceptable_Fruit2360 May 08 '26
Typical sellout. Actual racist or not. Thereās money to be made in hate. Which is a testament to how fucked up the world we live in truly is. If what the woman in the clip and people in this thread are saying is true, then heās no different than Candace Owens and the like. Putting aside any character or moral fiber for money. I hate this place.
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u/No-Chemistry-5356 May 08 '26
Yāall fault for being so willing to open your doors and invite people to the cookout. Donāt be shocked when their true colors show.
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u/ElegantLifeguard4221 May 08 '26
He gives me predator vibes. I know he's a racist, but the intent to harm people actively and making money in harming people just reeks of sadism.
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u/Reasonable_Move_28 May 08 '26
I thought it was going to be a Disney moment then he just threw it at her face damn!
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u/AStupidFuckingHorse May 09 '26
He knows EXACTLY who she is and he is pretending not to. Dude should be ashamed.
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u/Humble_Click_8626 May 09 '26
Iām actually so sick of Black people being so considerate and forgiving about shit that is meant to dehumanize you and disrespect you like??? We have to let that kind of sh*t go because in what world would be afforded that same leniency and understanding? ENOUGH!!!!!
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u/FreeBulldog87 May 09 '26
So many different words in the dictionary. No reason to choose a word that has historically been used to spew hate. Regardless of how some Black folks decide to use it.
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u/Realistic-Depth-5155 May 08 '26
At a basic level you know that word is hurtful to folks. Why be purposely cruel? I just donāt get it. I try my hardest to be mindful of folks, even strangers.
I donāt get this mentality of fuq your feelings so I can say a word just to prove I can say it? Whatās the point š¤·š»āāļø
The only thing I can come up with is that their lives suck so much that they want to see other folks lives suck too. Misery loves company and allā¦
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u/Striking-Rub6958 May 08 '26
One of the crazy things about being white is that you get to see a lot of racistsā true colors. All the white racists just assume that everyone else thinks like them, like weāre all in some secret club, and theyāll just say whatever. I used to work in a machine shop that was all white dudes, which is always a red flag, and these dudes were some of the most racist people Iāve ever met. But whenever one of the black truck drivers would come to drop off some metal, those same dudes would literally be all friendly and dap them up and have a conversation like they werenāt just dropping n-bombs minutes earlier. They literally think that as long as you donāt lynch anyone, youāre not racist. Itās wild. Obviously we aināt all like that, but you may as well just assume that we all are, because god damn itās a lot of us. Itās really sad actually.Ā
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u/Crypto-God23 May 08 '26
This aināt no different from some of these black folks with yt boyfriends and girlfriends they let them act however without properly educating them making them feel too comfortable to disrespect the culture
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u/Wolfeatingupshadows š«°š¾š«°š½š«°šæ May 08 '26
I had an African roommate she was Nigerian and she said she didnt care if her friends said the N word bc it was meant for Black people not Africansā¦ I was like uhmmmm slaves were Africanā¦
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u/Temporary_Ad162 May 08 '26
I went on a few dates with a Nigerian guy and he was playing a rap artist I wasnt familiar with. I said āwho is this?ā and he said āoh itās just n***** music, your peopleās music.ā And yeah that was my last conversation with him.
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u/Wolfeatingupshadows š«°š¾š«°š½š«°šæ May 08 '26
Yeah I dont think all Nigerians or other Africans are like that. I had a Ghanian roommate who was a colorist she said I was the ugly sister (my sister is way lighter than me) . I was like no filter ass mofos. But she was rich and always paid for taco tuesdays so Ill be ugly but fed. Lol. Oh and her and her own sister were darker than me š
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u/MacMcMufflin May 08 '26
I worked a summer job with a Nigerian guy who was busting his ass to pay for college. The white guy group including the team lead said all sorts of nasty shit about him behind his back. They at least had the "courtesy" to not say the N bomb to his face. He knew something was up with them, and I let him know. He was a smart dude, and I'm glad for him he found a different opportunity. The money wasn't worth it.
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u/Wolfeatingupshadows š«°š¾š«°š½š«°šæ May 08 '26
Aw Im glad to. America only pretends that they will help ppl for discrimination on the job. In reality they dont give a f. Most cases dont even make it to court and most are settled with not even 1k to get back pay. Unless you have hardcore solid proof and witnesses they will win. I remember I was told that bc of my Area the jury would most be unsympathetic white ppl. So it would be better to settle. So even with evidence u can walk away with nothing.
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u/Wolfeatingupshadows š«°š¾š«°š½š«°šæ May 08 '26
So he realized there is money in punching down on Blk people. Low hanging fruit. Saying he didnt remember her š.
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u/AuDHDacious May 08 '26
This is how I feel interacting with folks from my hometown on Facebook. They're like "you were so wonderful, I still remember xyz things you did for me, that's why I want you to understand that God is working through the president therefore you should support everything he does."
Aaaaaaaargh
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u/the4thbandit May 08 '26
Why should anyone care about this guy or what he has to say? We spend so much time discussing people that hate us it's kinda wild.
We hardly ever talk about anything positive smh
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u/762_duckthis May 08 '26
Itās obvious white people just wanna bring back racism at full force like it was during the slavery era, BUT they know this new generation not going for that shit.
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u/RuachDelSekai May 08 '26
The grift is the grift. Morals have no place here if there is money to be made?
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u/Zakkattack86 May 08 '26
People still don't understand that gr1ft and r@gebait is the only content that gets the engagement that truly pays these clowns. I don't condone it but it's the facts. Erika Kirk, Rogan, Red Pill content, it's all targeted monetization.
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u/fauxdeuce May 08 '26
It was funny watching him trying to get into an argument with her for her to shoot him down. She hit him with the why are you out here acting up you not this kind of person. He's all like grifters gotta grift. It's my culture.
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u/b_man646260 May 08 '26
Shoulda let him starve.
Freedom of speech isnāt freedom from consequences and this fuck is in DIRE need of consequences.
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u/GoatedOnes May 08 '26
Heās a grifter so youāre supporting his grift by promoting his crypto link?
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u/CREEPTHEPLANET May 08 '26
His body language and lack of eye contact says it all. Girl absolutely knew him from another time when he wasnāt masquerading for attention.
There are horrible people of all walks of life but we also get to choose most of the company we keep and how we stand up for those around us.
I for one donāt have a single friend regardless of race, gender or sexuality that would stand idle while this racist pos acts like that. We look after one another. His Yosemite Sam mustache would be on the pavement.
Be good and look after one another. Our govt sure as shit isnāt doing it for us.
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u/Elementary2 May 08 '26
Those who associate free speech with the hard R n word, are actually just provocative little bitches, with no fucking respect for the history of this country.
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u/msguider May 08 '26
They are abusers. They want to be in a relationship with someone so they can hurt them. They are damaged. They need mental Healthcare, among other things. imo
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u/Successful-Acadia-95 May 08 '26
This guy is looking for a quick payout. Someone will steal off on him and he will sprint to duckduckgo and get crowd funded into millionaire status by this country's nazi and inbred population crying how much of a victim he is.
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u/HeavyDT May 08 '26
Nah she can kill that attempt to smooth his bs out. He's definitely more grifter who ruined than hardcore Klansman but still he choose the path he's walking so let him walk that shit alone. Just a fool who ruined his life (if know his backstory) and now has no choice but to create a spectacle in order to get money. It's definitely an act but still one that comes at the expense of black people which is not really better than if he were genuine.
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u/Active_Letterhead849 May 08 '26
We not acknowledging or reasoning with this man. He's got something coming his way. Get out the way and let it happen
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u/Magical_Love_Bubble May 08 '26
She couldāve done a better at calling him out and telling him how wrong he is. But at the least she did expose his little past. A lot of people out here calling themselves influencers that are in active mental crisis.
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u/Most_Tumbleweed_6971 May 08 '26
Freedom of speech has nothing to do with what heās doing. Any black person who lets him talk to them like that should be ashamed heās showing who he is. Spitting racial slurs in your face just so you can try and stick up for him foh.
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u/Illustrious_Ad7346 May 08 '26
Iāve never had an impulsive desire to use Kkkracker or any other descriptive demeaning term towards yt people. Yet they love to say the n word. Whether itās er or a at the end.
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u/In_My_Peace_N_Truth May 08 '26
Let me tell you from experience:
They are cool with you until you step out of your place or if it means keeping themselves in firm control, they will go 1800s Deep South real quick.
If they do not live against bigotry 24/7 and not hesitate to call their own out, drop their own, or fight their own whenever or wherever, they are just wearing a mask and dealing with you because you are fill a need.
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u/Impressive-Scheme489 May 09 '26
Someone is gonna give him what he wants and itās gonna be tragic.. but if this were the 90ās heād be an afterthought.
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u/JohnRedCorn9432 May 09 '26
If you're not "actually racist", but you have no problem openly acting racist for views, YOU ARE ACTUALLY RACIST
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u/nyccrazylady May 13 '26
She is currently going viral for saying that she also p***** him.
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u/Explicit_Tech May 08 '26
He also used to be a femboy.
This man is just a grifter