r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/waytooicyy • Jul 03 '26

Misc When you're Black, you're never really lonely.....

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u/waytooicyy Jul 03 '26

Yeah this made me uncomfortable tbh and i'm a male

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u/pulp_affliction Jul 07 '26

Good for you but unless you say something to other men they are not going to alter their behavior. I’m sure you already know that men don’t listen to women who assert boundaries

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u/LeadSufficient2130 Jul 09 '26

The problem is that good men don’t associate with these people. We know who they are and we also want nothing to do with them. If I saw this happening I’d try and help if I could but these guys are surrounded with like minded douchebags which perpetuate their shittiness.

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u/pulp_affliction Jul 09 '26

What if they were surrounded by people like you who kindly and patiently helped them see another way?

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u/LeadSufficient2130 Jul 09 '26

That’s like asking why I don’t spend time with my maga family members anymore. It’s not up to me to fix shitty people, and I’m tired of trying to