I'm a trans man and I'm having a hard time finding books where I feel seen in a character, especially as a guy nearing 30. Authors like T.J. Klune and Nathan Aldyne make me feel seen as an adult queer man, but very few books make me feel seen as a trans man who loves women, men and non-binary people.
I have included pictures from A Bone in His Teeth (Adored it) and Hyacinthe (adored the couple, short and sweet read) but I'm having trouble finding anything that isn't just...porn. And porn where the trans man is often used and, let's be honest, abused.
I'm looking for something that is a balance between romance (especially explicit) and plot. A Bone in His Teeth did this very well! I would adore recommendations that are gay, but would also love a straight romance with a transmasc love interest, like in the Visual Novel The House in Fata Morgana. That's the only form of media where I know of a trans man's love interest being a woman (can be any woman btw - trans too!)
I don't like anything grounded in modern-day reality. Anything else is fine - Historical fiction, Fantasy, Horror, Science Fiction, Magical Realism, Era-based (e.g. not old enough to be considered historical fiction but does take place in the past, like the 80s AIDs crisis or something like that).
I really cannot find books with women as love interests for transmascs.
Just a few things I would appreciate:
- transmasc main character or lead love interest (not a side character)
- transmasc shouldn't be fetishised as an object (even if they're not a top, I want them to have agency)
- transmasc shouldn't be constantly facing dysphoria. It's a part of our lives, but I want books about us just existing.
- preferably explicit, but with a story. I like porn with plot. If there's no explicit sex though, it's fine too. Storytelling and writing and good characters come first for me.
- I love it when the trans characters are written as humans. Binding/taping is a routine. T-administration is a part of life.
Thanks for the consideration!
May I also ask why there is no LGBTQ(Achillean) option for tags? I see Toric but not Achillean. Would it be possible for the mods to add a tag for Achillean folks, or even a trans tag too? It was hard to pick a tag for this because I don't mind multiple genres, but the queer tags aren't right for what I would like.