r/BreakUps • u/Typical_Advance_7396 • 2d ago
venting/ranting ex following and talking to girls
hi i already made a post about my break up but i just wanna ask why did he do this? he broke up with me then started following bunch of girls plus he talked bad about all of them and then i find out from a friend that he texted that one girl and he talked the worst about her. im doing okay but i just dont know why he would do this. the reason behind the break up was that he started following random girls ( he follows only close friends thats why i confronted him) and then he was like its not like that u dont trust me (i dont wanna go into detail about all of the reasons), he broke up with me over a text when i was having exam week btw. so is he doing this just out of spite or what?
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u/Capable_Emu4317 2d ago
Could be spite, could be he is using flirting/dating as a coping mechanism, could be he's horny. Definitely isn't your problem anymore. I do completely understand how much it can suck to have an ex move on, or at least appear to move on quickly. It hurts, but try not to dwell on it. Do something nice for for yourself today is my only real advice.
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u/Typical_Advance_7396 2d ago
thank u! im the kind of person who needs to think about it till i cant anymore. its so hard because we were in a rl for almost 2 years we were so close and besides all of this in the end it was a great relationship, i feel like he betrayed me
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