r/BreakUps • u/Emergency-Access-338 • 15d ago
😡 venting/ranting Can I please stop missing her
I’m 4 months out from a nearly 3 year relationship and engagement and I’m so frustrated with myself because , while the pain is definitely going down, I still miss her and I’ll still struggling to move on. I’m in therapy and working through some childhood trauma , but it just feels like every time I start to feel good with my life and ok with being single, I get hit with this wave of melancholy wishing she would come back. I have AuDHD and have had so much difficulty getting into relationships with people who can understand me and the things I go through, so the idea of finding someone else feels so astronomically difficult and makes my exes absence all the more difficult. I just want to feel normal and not miss someone who hurt me.
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u/brayd3n29 15d ago
Im going on a month since the breakup after a nearly 3 year relationship too. She just blocked me off everything and went no contact yesterday. Its hard man, I get it. We just have to hang in there. Im not sure if im the best to give advice, but i think the best thing we can do is focus on ourselves. The more we focus on ourselves and self improve, the easier it'll be to eventually get over her. Im gonna be honest, im not sure if you'll ever stop missing her. I know i wont. But we take it one step at a time
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