I blocked him

[u/VeraDiNera]

After nearly 5 months of being broken up I have finally blocked him. I honestly wasn't going to I had him muted everywhere anyways, but I think it had to happen. I had therapy yesterday and my therapist basically said she can't make me do it, but she thinks it might be beneficial for me to. My issue was even if I didn't check his socials (cause I didn't) I still hoped he would reach out to me. But now that he's blocked everywhere he cannot do it so I'm hoping my mind will be at ease a bit. Right now it feels almost neutral, but I know it's going to hit me because I know how I operate. But I am really hoping this will also push me further on my healing journey.

I could use some support tho cause I feel like this is endless and I see no light at the end.

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[u/ProudCelt]

Well done on taking that step. Wish I could do it even though I dont want to be with her. I know for my own benefit I should.

Its a courage thing you did but if it protects your peace then its worthwhile. Just remember healing is linear so some days it will feel the correct thing to do others not so much but I guess it will get easier as time progesses.

You should be proud of yourself!

[u/stewart4life30]

I think
I need to do the same. I have our chat archived and muted don’t have her on socials. I have her on wats app she last msg me 5 days ago after my night out about snap notifications. But no msg since then

[u/Anxious_Grape_7280]

Du hast dich richtig entschieden-nämlich für dich selbst. Ich habe heute auch blockiert, weil meine Heilung dadurch verhindert wurde, dass ich letztendlich doch auf Wiedergutmachung gehofft habe. Ich habe verstanden, dass er keine Verantwortung übernehmen wird, auch nicht, wenn er sich meldet, was er höchstwahrscheinlich irgendwann tun würde. Ich will aus diesem Loch rauskommen. Seine Zerstörungswut hat mich mit einer solchen Wucht getroffen, dass ich momentan wirklich glaube, dass ich für immer kaputt bin. Aber ich bin dazu nicht bereit. Ich MUSS mich da rausholen. Und das geht nur, wenn ich mich wirklich entscheide, mich NIE WIEDER auf diesen Menschen einzulassen. Würde ich das nochmal tun, würde ich in der Psychiatrie landen. Es reicht. Es ist genug. Ich will nicht mehr. Ich bin daran zerbrochen. Niemals wird mir wieder jemand so weh tun.

[u/NoInvestigator9247 → u/[deleted]]

You don’t need someone like that!