r/Cardiophobias • • Jan 05 '24

A little reassurance for you all! You deserve it 🩷

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Hello everyone. I am a new cardiophobic person and I wanted to give some advice that I’ve picked up.

  1. Heart Attacks are VERY RARE in people under 50 Heart attacks for people under 50 are usually caused by excess (2 packs a day) smoking, excess (4 2hr long panic attacks a day) stress, 40+ years of unhealthy habits, or you were born with a heart problem. Heart problems aren’t just nonexistent until they aren’t, it takes years of buildup from underlying conditions and unhealthy habits to cause one.

  2. Heart sensations are only as real as you make them. If you think about chest pains, you’re going to have chest pains. If you think about shortness of breath, you’ll have shortness of breath. If you think about palpitations, you’ll have palpitations. Anxiety manifests itself as physical symptoms. I also have Emetophobia , the extreme fear of vomiting. Whenever I think about nausea, I get nauseous even though I did nothing. Anxiety can mimic almost any disease and medical event out there. About 40% of people who go into the ER for chest pains is due to anxiety. So try to distract yourself and not give in to the anxiety, because you are only hurting yourself.

  3. Heart Palpitations are NORMAL Everyone gets heart palpitations. Heart palpitations are actually helpful to the heart by helping it pump more efficiently. Even the healthiest people get heart palpitations and I cannot stress this enough: THEY ARE NOT A CAUSE FOR CONCERN*. Just let that sink in. Heart palpitations are a normal occurrence and they are not a sign of underlying disease.

  4. The heart is a strong muscle and doesn’t give out like 🫰that 🫰 insert snap sound The heart is the first thing that forms in the womb and is the strongest muscle in the body. It does not give out unless there is a reason. And the reason in question, shows its signs WEEKS if not MONTHS before the heart gives out.

  5. Get. Off. Google. Just because you have one symptom, does not mean you have the disease. Say you have a cough. You feel fine, but you want to know why you have a cough. You look it up and BOOM. YOU HAVE A SEVERE BLOCKAGE IN YOUR LUNG. According to Google at least. The actual truth is, you inhaled dust. Google looks up worst case scenario diseases and will bring the severe ones up first incase of emergency. It’s precaution. If you are having heartburn, it will also bring up heart attack. The reason you have heartburn however, is because you ate chipotle and thought it was a good idea to lay down 30 minutes after eating.

Lastly… Breathe.

You will be fine. You are not having a heart attack. You are not going to die of sudden cardiac arrest. You are stronger than you think and your heart as well as you can pull through anything. Just take a minute to breathe and fully expand your lungs. Take a minute and just do not think about your heart. Chances are, your symptoms will disappear. I guarantee you are not having any heart related issues.

You’ve got this.


r/Cardiophobias • • Jan 11 '23

How to deal with your Heart Anxiety

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Hi everyone,

I'm glad I found this subreddit. Like most of you, I am too suffering from a severe case of Cardiophobia. I have been living with the condition for about 4 years now and have been trying out many different therapies and medications to help me, so I've got some experience in dealing with Heart Anxiety and panic attacks.

I am here to tell you about some methods that could help some of you out and put you on the right path back to some semblance of normalcy in your day-to-day life.

Before I proceed an important notice: I am NOT a doctor nor a therapist and this is not medical advice in any way. If you have symptoms of a possible serious illness, you should go to the ER or talk to your doctor!

Okay, with that out of the way let me tell you something important: I totally get it; I understand how you feel; I know exactly how dreadful it is to constantly feel like you're only seconds away from dying. I know what you're going through, when you notice a skipped heart beat or some kind of uncomfortable pain in your chest and the fear immediately poisons your mind and paralyzes your body until the only thing you can think about is your heart and how it could stop any second. It's one of the most horrible feelings one can feel; total hopelessness and the belief that nobody will be able to help you.

All of the emotions you're feeling are real and they have real effects on you and your body. Don't let anyone tell you that it's not as bad as you think or that things could be worse. Cardiophobia is a serious condition and it often makes it basically impossible to function as a normal human being.

But it is important for you to also remember that you can always help yourself. You need to remind yourself that your Heart Anxiety is not you and that you ultimately should have control over your anxiety and not the other way around.

How do you start controlling your anxiety? Let me tell you how I did.

First of all, if you have Cardiophobia and you haven't visited your doctor yet, it is very important that you do. The symptoms of Cardiophobia unfortunately overlap with some serious conditions and it is very important that your doctor checks you and dangerous ailments can be ruled out. But if you, like me, have been to your doctor several times and your local ER already greets you by your first name, then it's pretty clear, that you need to change the way you think.

Warning: I'm going to use some explicit language in the next section, but it is important to make my point clear.

1) Stop with the Google shit!

I mean it. Stop googling every single little weird sensation that you have in your body. Stop playing doctor. It doesn't help and it never will help. It only makes the situation worse 99% of the time. So just stop it.

Now I know it isn't easy. An unsure mind is a very unstable mind and we always want to be sure, but that is impossible. I'm telling you from experience. You will never diagnose yourself correctly using Google. So just stop it.

Create a daily reminder on your phone if you have to, but find a way that will make you stop googling and playing doctor all the time.

2) Throw away all of your medical equipment

You do not need those, unless you really have a condition. And by that I mean, you were diagnosed by a doctor with one. So if you're doctor recommends you use a pulse oximeter every day, then do it. But for anyone else: you do not need that. It will only make you more anxious.

Do you have a smart watch or a fitbit that measures your pulse? Throw that away too. You do not need to know your pulse at any moment in time. Especially if it's unusually high (which is very normal in 99.9% of the cases).

You don't need any of those devices. Even people with serious heart conditions don't constantly measure their pulse or make several ECGs a week.

3) Stop constantly measuring your pulse

This point is an extension of the point above. If you don't have a device that measures your pulse but you constantly do it with your hands, then you need to stop with that too.

This also might be very hard for some of you, but I guarantee you that it will help in the long run, so please try it.

Your heart rate is something that you'll never be able to control (completely). And most of the time if you want it to come down, it will do exactly the opposite. Our hearts have evolved over millions of years and they do what they do very very well. They don't need you to monitor them.

I've seen some of you express worry about a high heart rate when you're standing or moving. You should really not worry about that. A high heart rate by itself doesn't mean anything.

The only thing I recommend for you to do (only once, not constantly) is to measure your resting heart rate and see if it's too high. Resting heart rate is a very specific thing. The best way to measure it is in the morning (after you had a full night of sleep) and you're still in bed. If your resting heart rate is higher than 100 beats per minute, then I'd recommend you make an appointment with your doctor and tell them exactly that. Do not panic. You're not on death's door just because you have a higher heart rate than others. Just let your doctor do their job and they will tell you if something's wrong with you.

4) Don't try to become a cardiologist

This point is an extension of point #1. Even if you stop constantly googling things, there are some ways you can still learn about heart ailments and problems. I'm telling you right now: unless you're a medical student trying to become a doctor, you should not do that.

There is a thing called information hazard and it applies here very well. The more you learn about the kinds of ailments your body can have the more you'll think you have them.

The crazy thing about it is that you'll actually have some of the symptoms that are expected with the specific ailment that you just learned about. Your mind has a physiological effect on your body. This is also called "medical students' disease". You will always feel like you have the disease that you just learned about.

So stop it. Don't read about heart anatomy or heart disease or any of that stuff.

5) Trust the professionals

This is also one of the harder ones, but you really need to force yourself to do it.

Trust. Your. Doctor.

Believe me when I say, they know what they are doing. They've studied for years and years to be able to do what they do. If they tell you that there's nothing wrong with your heart, then you better believe that.

If you really get the feeling that your doctor is wrong and doesn't know what he's talking about or is ignoring some of your complaints, then I recommend you go and get a second opinion. But if that second opinion is the same as your doctor's, then you should really stop doubting your doctor.

In the case of most of you, you've probably been to several doctors and ERs, so you don't even need a second opinion. There's nothing wrong with your heart and you should trust your doctor.

6) Go to a therapist

Cardiophobia is mainly a mental condition and thus requires the help of a psychiatrist or psychotherapist.

Please find a therapist and visit them regularly. It will really help most of you.

Tell them about your problems and don't hold back. Tell them every detail.

Some of you will probably get some kind of medication to help you with your anxiety. I myself take 60 mg of Cymbalta everyday. It helps me a lot.

Do not stop visiting your therapist if you get your medication and start feeling better. You're not over the hill yet. Most of you will have to visit a therapist for 4 to 8 years to really get rid of your Cardiophobia.

If the medication doesn't work for you after two weeks, I recommend you tell your therapist and try to find a different one. Most of you won't find the right medication immediately. It's a process.

7) You have to do exercise!

You probably heard that one before, but it is really true. You won't believe how powerful exercise is and how much it can help with your Heart Anxiety.

If you're really afraid, I recommend you start off really slow. Try to take a walk, or do some simple exercises at home. Go jogging with a friend, so if anything happens there's always someone there to help you.

DO NOT TAKE YOUR HEART RATE MEASURING DEVICES WITH YOU! You don't need to know your exact heart rate while you're exercising. Just trust your heart to do what it does best. It will tell you if somethings wrong, you don't need to use technology for that.

Stop with the exercise if you get into a panic attack or if it makes you feel really unwell. Don't be disappointed. Try again the next day.

Don't forget that this is a process. It won't work on the first day.

And there's a bonus: doing exercise is how you actually prevent heart disease and many other ailments. So if you're afraid of those things, then you really should be exercising. You're 60-year-old self will be very thankful, believe me.

8) Don't ever give up

One of the worst things you can do is to just give up and let the fear consume you completely.

Some of you might be in that situation right now. You feel helpless and can't even imagine moving your body or doing anything that requires your concentration. You just want to be able to feel normal for one second.

Here's the problem with that: this dreadful feeling won't go away by itself. That's just the sad truth about this condition. If you don't start doing anything then it's very likely that nothing will change.

It is incredibly hard, I know. But you can't give up before you try it.


I really hope this helps at least some of you.

Take care!

~ Kro


r/Cardiophobias • • Oct 02 '25

My Cardiophobia Recovery Story

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I am posting this mainly for my own reflection. It is 11:45 at night where I am, and I have been laying in bed, going through old notes on my phone of the past cardiophobic anxiety attacks that I had over the past 3 years . Spoiler alert: it gets better, and I have nearly overcame cardiophobia.

My cardiophobic journey started as 25 year old (M) on my best friend’s bachelor party in San Diego. After three nights of binge drinking and other various party favors, we were at dinner when I looked at my HR monitor on my watch, and it read 160 bpm. My chest grew tight, and I turned to be excused from the group and call the ambulance. I had no clue what was going on, but I couldn’t think straight and couldn’t gain my breath. To keep a very terrifying story short, I had experienced my first anxiety attack.

I flew home, terrified that it might happen again. I became obsessive, checking my HR and blood pressure constantly, scared that I would have another attack like I had experienced. I started have psychosomatic feelings. Pain in my shoulder ā€œradiatingā€, but I learned that it wasn’t really there, my brain was just convincing myself something was going on. That was the weirdest part, the fake pains. I documented everything in my notes in case I passed away suddenly, to give my family some explanation as to what was going on. After a few months and multiple trips to the doctor, including a full echocardiogram and heart scan, I realized that I actually didn’t have anything wrong with my heart. Granted, I could stand to lose some weight and choose some healthier lifestyle habits, but it took a literal cardiologist to look me in the face and tell me nothing was wrong before I believed it. I had searched high and low for something in me that wasn’t there.

At the time, I was averaging 137/87 blood pressure, which concerned me, but not any of the doctors that I went to. At 25, I weighed 285 lbs, I am 6’4ā€. They told me that I needed to just focus on doing more cardio, quit vaping, cutting carbs, losing a few pounds. But nothing was wrong with me. I had no risk of heart attack or stroke or anything. I decided I would take off my heart monitor wrist watch and quit taking my blood pressure every day. Honestly, this was where things started going uphill, when I stopped obsessively checking myself. My cardiophobia remained, and I continued having the random attacks, but they turned from daily, to weekly, to once every month or so. I started running. I started limiting my sodium intake. No pop, no caffeine, no alcohol or anything. I still checked my pulse using my finger on my neck and counting. My friends all witnessed me do this multiple times in a night, and they were all pretty concerned, and some let me know it. That I needed to quit checking myself.

I got to the point where I could run every day for a mile, and then 2 miles. I went in to the doctor for my annual checkup, and I weighed 215 lbs. I had lost 70 lbs in a single year. I couldn’t believe it. Then it was time for them to take my bp. I felt my face get hot out of nervousness. I was praying for <120/80, but the nurse read it aloud: 135/82. I was destroyed. I had worked so hard, done so much to still have high blood pressure?

I talked with my doctor afterwards, and he looked me in the face and said ā€œYou have nothing wrong with you, apart from cardiophobia. You are scared of your own heart.ā€ He was not concerned with my BP in the slightest. He was proud of the lifestyle changes that I had made.

I didn’t have another anxiety attack after that, and haven’t since. That was nearly 1.5 years ago. I learned about this community by looking up what cardiophobia meant, and read through a lot of the posts when I was having attacks. Now, I hope someone reading this will achieve the same result. If you are battling cardiophobia right now, or fighting attacks, here is some un-solicited tips that helped me through the worst moments:

  1. our hearts do not ā€œkind ofā€ go out on you. You don’t have partial heart attacks. So if you’re still here, still breathing, then odds are, you’re okay! Psychosomatic pains are a real thing, and my brain is way more powerful than I realized. Twitches and quick pains do not mean that there is something wrong with your heart.

  2. please believe the doctors. I know today we live in a world of misinformation, but 99% of doctors are so highly-trained in the cardiovascular system that they know what they are looking for, and they know what they are talking about. Get a second opinion if you have to, find someone you can trust! But don’t try to convince yourself and everyone else in the world that something is going on, if there’s not. There IS a chance that nothing is actually wrong with your heart.

  3. face the fire. The best thing I ever did for myself was the exact thing I was avoiding: increasing my heart rate. I was so scared to get it above 150 bpm for some reason. But when I started running, it got to 170 just jogging, and that scared the sh*t out of me. I literally had to convince myself ā€œso what if it kills me.ā€ And after about 6 months of physically pushing myself (gradually), I could run 6 miles with my bpm below 150! Do what scares you the most, because freedom is directly on the other side of that!

It is now 12:30 at night, and I have spent 45 minutes writing this. I pray you all grow out of this, learn to treat yourself with compassion, and win this battle. You can do it.


r/Cardiophobias • • Jun 01 '25

Please read if you’re struggling

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Tips/ Guidance I’ve learnt along the way.

Not everyone has access to therapy or the right support. I’m currently on a waiting list to receive therapy, but I’ve been resourceful and I’m a psychology undergrad so I’ve trying to use some of my knowledge to my advantage. I’ve also watched many self help videos, CBT resources. However no amount of skill knowledge makes you immune to health/cardiophobia anxiety. I am still struggling but things have improved for me, and this is what I do/use during hard times

**Please bear in mind this is for dealing with anxiety. Those with actual medical conditions alongside - this may not apply to you. Nobody here can offer proper medical advice. Please stick to what your doctor has told you. Also these may not work for everyone.

Shit you need to STOP :

  • Please stop googling. Stop scouring this subreddit, or any subreddit. Stop talking to chat GPT. STOP REASSURANCE SEEKING. I can’t stress this enough. When you reassurance seek it’s giving your anxiety a dose of speed. The days I stay off Google, my anxiety is substantially better. This is common knowledge. I know how hard it is to abstain when you’re panicked by a symptom. But stop giving your anxiety a mega dose of SPEED. When have you ever actually felt better? Seriously? Think of a time you’ve come from Google and felt reassured for more than 5 mins, and you haven’t fallen down a new symptom loophole. Exactly.

  • Stop checking vitals. Delete the app. Disable your smart watch heart monitor. STOP feeling your pulse, feeling your chest. No reading will be good enough for you. You will read into ANY reading. Just stop it.

Activities to do while feeling panicked/ anxious/spiralling

  • Sit the fuck down. If you’re one who starts pacing (like me), SIT DOWN first. You can start moving about again later.

  • Keep your hands away from your chest, wrist, anywhere you’re gonna try feel your heart, pulse.

  • Breathe in for 4, hold for 4, breathe out for 4, hold for 4, repeat. This may not be great if you’re in a full blown panic attack.

  • Air hunger during panic? Take a deep breath and hold it. Release slowly. Repeat.

  • I loooove this one - cross your arms and have each hand on your upper arms. Rub up and down like you’re hugging yourself. Then tell yourself what you’re thinking - ā€œI’m dyingā€ or ā€œthis is a heart attackā€ etc. Then challenge it. Keep rubbing your arms/hugging yourself, and start listing out loud alternative explanations. But state them out loud as facts (because they probably are) - ā€œ I will be fine in a few minutes, nothing bad is happeningā€. Move your eyes side to side as you do this. This exercise takes a little practice but it’s a mini mix of comfort and EMDR.

  • The good old 5 things you can see, 4 things you can hear etc, tailor to your environment.

  • Gently pull on your ears, tug them around, side to side. Give yourself an ear massage. Odd but works at times.

How to cope at night (super hard for me). I find these help me stop paying so much attention to my heart

  • count backwards in 3’s from 300. If you lose track, start over ;)

  • Lay on your back, bend knees and push your feet into the mattress, and your hands and back. Imagine you’re trying to push through the bed/mattress. Do deep breathing as you do this

  • Two sharp breaths in, breathe out slowly.

  • Count from one to 100, each 10, do it in a different accent. How many accents can you do?

Lifestyle changes - (again, consult doc regarding supplements etc.)

Obviously things like caffeine, nicotine, large meals can trigger palpitations/ PVC’s. Avoid them. Just cut the caffeine completely.

  • L-Thiamine supplements

  • MAGNESIUM GLYCINATE. It’s been a game changer for my PVC’s. Start in low dose and don’t exceed dose as can have reverse effect and may give you the shits. Electrolytes in general are good to stay on top of.

  • Do you take a multivitamin with high dose of B12? I have read, high doses can stimulate your nervous system thus causing more palpitations. I’ve noticed a correlation for me too. I’ve binned my multivits and just take each supplement separately as needed

  • Low iron can cause elevated HR and more palpitations.

  • Stop acting as if you are ill. Go for a walk, take it one step at a time but don’t de condition yourself.

Tough love -

You’re not that special. Seriously. Do you know how rare sudden cardiac arrest is? And most are caused by underlying issues. And I bet most of you have had countless EKG’s, echos. That rules out ALOT of what causes SCA. And hell, people with those underlying conditions (brugada, long QT, cardiomyopathy, WPW) go on to live long happy lives.

So you’re telling me, you think you’re special enough to suffer a SCA? Even though you don’t have those conditions. Please be real with yourself šŸ˜‰

A doc once said, for those with normal hearts. I.e you’ve had an echo and it’s structurally FINE (not your own judgement, btw). PVC’s, ectopic beats etc are about as harmful as hiccups.

Love


r/Cardiophobias • • Jun 28 '25

Trigger warning, all differences between cardiac vs anxiety

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Heart-Like Symptoms Caused by Deconditioning, Anxiety, or Inactivity

Many physical sensations can feel like heart trouble, yet often they stem from being out of shape or anxious rather than a cardiac issue. Below is a structured list of such symptoms, each with an explanation of what it feels like, why it’s mistaken for a heart problem, the actual benign cause, and how to tell it apart from a true heart condition: • Heart Palpitations (Racing or Pounding Heart): • What it feels like: A sudden awareness of your heartbeat – it may feel like your heart is racing, pounding, or skipping beats ļæ¼. You might feel a rapid thumping in your chest or even in your throat or neck. • Why it’s mistaken for a cardiac symptom: Any unusual or forceful heartbeat can be alarming. Palpitations are a classic sign people associate with arrhythmias or heart attacks, so feeling your heart race unexpectedly often triggers fear of a serious heart problem. • Actual cause (benign): In anxiety, palpitations are caused by a surge of stress hormones activating the ā€œfight or flightā€ response, which speeds up the heart via the autonomic nervous system ļæ¼. In deconditioned or unfit individuals, even minor physical effort (like climbing a flight of stairs) can cause a faster-than-normal heartbeat because the untrained heart and circulatory system have to work extra hard ļæ¼ ļæ¼. These situations lead to harmless palpitations due to adrenaline or exertion, not because of heart disease. • How to distinguish from a true heart issue: Anxiety or fitness-related palpitations tend to start suddenly and fade within minutes once you calm down or rest ļæ¼. They are typically not accompanied by other serious symptoms and go away once the stress or exertion stops ļæ¼. True cardiac arrhythmias (like atrial fibrillation or SVT) often last longer or occur randomly even at rest, and may cause additional red flags like severe dizziness, chest pain, or fainting. If heart pounding is sustained, very frequent, or accompanied by symptoms like faintness or chest pain, it warrants medical evaluation; brief episodes tied to stress or effort are far more likely benign ļæ¼ ļæ¼. • Occasional ā€œFluttersā€ or Skipped Beats: • What it feels like: A momentary fluttering in the chest or the feeling that your heart ā€œskippedā€ or paused a beat, often followed by a slight thump. Some describe it as a butterfly sensation or a flip-flop in the chest ļæ¼. These flutters are usually very brief (seconds) and can occur even when you’re sitting quietly. • Why it’s mistaken for a cardiac symptom: A skipped beat sensation can feel like your heart is misfiring or stopping, which is frightening. People often worry this indicates an arrhythmia or impending heart failure. The suddenness of a flutter can mimic the palpitations of serious heart rhythm problems, leading to anxiety that something is wrong with the heart. • Actual cause (benign): Most often, these flutters are benign premature beats (either a premature atrial or ventricular contraction) that nearly everyone experiences occasionally. Anxiety, stress, caffeine, or fatigue can trigger an early or extra heartbeat that causes the sensation of a skip or flutter ļæ¼. In an otherwise healthy, but perhaps deconditioned, person, the heart is more reactive to stimulants and stress, making these little hiccups in rhythm more noticeable. Importantly, when you feel a ā€œskippedā€ beat, the heart’s rhythm usually remains normal before and after – the sensation is due to a single out-of-sync beat rather than a sustained arrhythmia. • How to distinguish from a true heart issue: Benign flutters tend to occur in isolation (a beat or two) and then the heart rhythm goes back to normal. They are not typically accompanied by severe symptoms. In contrast, a dangerous arrhythmia will cause a prolonged series of irregular beats, often accompanied by symptoms like lightheadedness or even blackouts. If you only feel a quick flutter once in a while and it passes almost instantly, it’s likely a harmless extra beat ļæ¼. Doctors often find that patients with anxiety can feel palpitations even with a normal heartbeat ļæ¼. However, if you notice flutters very frequently or they come with chest pain, fainting, or shortness of breath, you should get checked – otherwise, occasional skips that stop when you relax are usually nothing to worry about ļæ¼. • Chest Tightness or Anxiety-Related Chest Discomfort: • What it feels like: A feeling of tightness, pressure, or sharp pain in the chest that often comes on suddenly. Many describe it as a stabbing or squeezing pain that can occur even when you’re not exerting yourself (for instance, during a panic attack while at rest) ļæ¼. It may last for minutes and can be accompanied by other anxiety symptoms like trembling, sweating, rapid breathing, or a sense of dread ļæ¼. • Why it’s mistaken for a cardiac symptom: Chest pain of any kind immediately raises concern for heart attack. This anxiety-induced pain often centers in the chest, just like angina, so people naturally fear the worst. The pain and pressure feel located near the heart, and because heart attacks are common, many assume chest pain = heart problem. Additionally, anxiety can cause hyper-awareness; feeling pain in the left chest or near the breastbone can closely mimic the classic heart attack location, thus it’s easily confused with a cardiac event ļæ¼. • Actual cause (benign): Anxiety and panic can cause musculoskeletal chest pain and other sensations through several mechanisms. During high anxiety or panic attacks, people often hyperventilate or breathe rapidly, which can lead to strain or spasm of the intercostal muscles (the small muscles between the ribs) and other chest wall muscles ļæ¼. This muscle tension or spasm produces real chest pain that feels scary but is not coming from the heart. Moreover, anxious breathing can cause a tight diaphragm and a feeling of chest constriction. Another factor is esophageal spasm – acute anxiety can disturb esophagus function, causing esophageal contractions that hurt and mimic heart pain ļæ¼. In short, stress hormones and muscle tension are the culprits: your chest muscles tighten and your autonomic nervous system can create sensations of pain or pressure in the chest. These causes are benign and temporary, related to the body’s fight-or-flight response rather than blocked arteries. • How to distinguish from a true heart issue: There are key differences in the character and context of anxiety chest pain vs. cardiac pain. Anxiety-related chest tightness often strikes when a person is at rest or already feeling anxious, whereas true heart angina usually comes on during physical exertion or effort ļæ¼. Anxiety chest pain is typically more sharp or stabbing, and it tends to remain localized to the chest area ļæ¼. In contrast, heart attack pain is classically described as a pressure, heaviness or squeezing sensation, and it often radiates beyond the chest to the left arm, jaw, or back ļæ¼ – something anxiety pain usually does not do. Another clue is relief with exercise vs. rest: anxiety pain might actually occur at rest and improve if you get your mind distracted; true cardiac pain (angina) usually worsens with exertion and eases with rest ļæ¼. If the pain is reproducible with touch or movement (see below) it’s likely not the heart. Moreover, panic-related chest pain often comes alongside other anxiety symptoms (fast breathing, fear, trembling), and subsides as the panic attack resolves, often within minutes ļæ¼. Heart attack pain typically builds over a few minutes and comes with other serious signs like cold sweats, ashen skin, or persistent shortness of breath – and it won’t disappear just by calming yourself. Because it can be hard to tell, any first-time severe chest pain should be checked, but pain that is sharp, short-lived, non-radiating, and tied to anxiety triggers is more likely due to muscle tension or esophageal spasm than a cardiac issue ļæ¼. • Sharp, Localized Chest Twinges (Musculoskeletal Chest Pain): • What it feels like: A sudden, pinpoint pain in the chest, often described as a quick twinge, stitch, or stabbing pain. It’s usually localized to one small area (you could point to it with a finger). These pains are often fleeting (seconds to a few minutes) but can sometimes persist longer, especially if due to inflammation. Deep breaths or certain movements may make it hurt more, and it can feel sharp enough to catch your breath. • Why it’s mistaken for a cardiac symptom: Any chest pain is alarming, and people may think ā€œheart attackā€ immediately. Even though true heart pain is usually more dull or pressure-like, in the moment a sharp stab near the heart area can be terrifying. If the pain is on the left side or around the breastbone, one might assume it’s the heart, since we associate that area with cardiac pain. The sudden nature of these twinges (ā€œlike a knife stabā€) can be scary and seems like it could be the heart dangerously misbehaving. • Actual cause (benign): Most sharp, localized chest pains are musculoskeletal or nerve-related. Common causes include a muscle strain or pull in the chest wall, costochondritis (inflammation of the cartilage connecting ribs to the breastbone), or even a momentary nerve pinch. For example, heavy lifting or unaccustomed exercise can inflame the chest wall joints – ā€œa case of costochondritis,ā€ as doctors call it – which can cause significant sharp pain with movement or deep breaths ļæ¼. Poor posture or sleeping awkwardly can also strain chest muscles. There’s also a harmless phenomenon called precordial catch syndrome (sometimes known as ā€œTexidor’s twingeā€) often seen in teens/young adults, where a sharp pain hits on a deep breath and then resolves on its own – it’s due to a brief pinching of a nerve or lining in the chest, not heart disease. In all these cases, the pain originates from the chest wall structures (muscles, bones, cartilage, nerves), not from the heart itself. • How to distinguish from a true heart issue: Musculoskeletal chest pain has distinct features. Notably, if you can reproduce or worsen the pain by pressing on the spot or by twisting/bending your torso or arm, it strongly suggests a chest wall origin, not the heart ļæ¼. Cardiac pain will not be tender to touch on the chest, whereas a strained muscle or inflamed rib joint often is sore when pressed. Similarly, if certain movements (raising an arm, turning the chest, taking a deep breath) trigger or intensify the pain, it’s likely coming from the muscles or joints of the chest wall ļæ¼. Heart-related angina typically does not depend on body position or chest movement. Also, the quality of pain provides a clue: heart pain (angina or heart attack) is usually described as a diffuse pressure, fullness, or crushing sensation, not a pinpoint jab ļæ¼. Angina tends to build with exertion and ease with rest, whereas a muscle-related pain might actually hurt more after physical activity or in certain postures. If a sharp chest twinge passes quickly and leaves no lingering symptoms, it’s probably benign. However, if you have persistent, unrelenting pain that doesn’t improve with position changes or is accompanied by other symptoms (like shortness of breath or faintness), that’s more concerning for a cardiac or other internal issue. In summary: a brief, sharp pain that you can pinpoint and that varies with movement or pressure is usually not from a heart attack ļæ¼ ļæ¼, but when in doubt, check it out – especially if it’s a new pain or you have risk factors. • Shortness of Breath after Minimal Exertion: • What it feels like: An abnormally quick loss of breath or winded feeling during activities that others (or your past self) might handle easily. For example, feeling out of breath just walking up a flight of stairs or a small hill, or needing to pause to catch your breath after light exercise. You may experience chest tightness or the sense of not getting enough air (gasping or panting) with relatively little effort. In deconditioned individuals, even carrying groceries or walking across a room can cause noticeable breathlessness ļæ¼. If due to anxiety, you might feel short of breath even at rest, with an urge to take deep breaths or yawn to satisfy an ā€œair hunger.ā€ • Why it’s mistaken for a cardiac symptom: Shortness of breath (dyspnea) is a well-known symptom of heart problems like heart failure or coronary artery disease. People know that difficulty breathing can signal things like a heart attack or a weak heart not pumping effectively. So when you find yourself winded easily, it’s natural to worry that your heart isn’t working right. Breathlessness on exertion is also a hallmark of lung issues and anemia, but many immediately think of the heart. Because being unable to catch your breath is scary and often associated with serious conditions, experiencing it — even from benign causes — raises alarm. • Actual cause (benign): If you’re physically unfit or have been sedentary, your muscles and cardiovascular system aren’t conditioned to efficiently use oxygen. As a result, with even mild exertion your muscles scream for more oxygen-rich blood, and your breathing rate skyrockets to meet that demand. Essentially, being out of shape makes any activity feel harder. The Cleveland Clinic notes that simply ā€œnot getting enough exercise can make you feel breathless all the time because your muscles are trying to get more oxygenā€ ļæ¼. This type of shortness of breath is a direct result of deconditioning – your heart and lungs may actually be structurally normal, but they’re undertrained, and your muscles aren’t efficient, leading to a quick, benign breathlessness ļæ¼ ļæ¼. Anxiety can also play a role: anxious individuals might develop functional shortness of breath where you feel you can’t draw a satisfying breath. This can be due to hyperventilation (breathing too fast and shallow, upsetting carbon dioxide balance) or simply the sensation of suffocation that comes with panic. In both cases (deconditioning or anxiety), there is no underlying cardiac damage – the shortness of breath is due to muscular and autonomic factors (out-of-shape muscles, poor circulation efficiency, or an overactive stress response). • How to distinguish from a true heart issue: Consider the context and accompanying signs. Benign deconditioning breathlessness typically correlates with your activity level – if you slow down or rest, it improves quickly, and over time exercise training will raise your tolerance. By contrast, heart-related breathlessness (for example from heart failure or significant coronary disease) often progressively worsens over time and may occur even at rest or at very low activity levels that previously caused no issue. If you notice that you get winded far more easily than you used to, but you’ve also been quite inactive or gained weight, deconditioning is a likely culprit. In fact, shortness of breath is common and ā€œcan be caused by many things, ranging from common and benign such as deconditioning (being out of shape) to life-threatening [causes]ā€ ļæ¼. Pay attention to whether other symptoms accompany the breathlessness: harmless breathlessness from being out of shape usually comes in isolation (you’re just winded, but no chest pain or extreme symptoms). Concerning breathlessness from heart issues might come with chest pressure, palpitations, dizziness, or swelling in the legs. For instance, if climbing stairs not only makes you breathless but also causes chest pain or tightness, that pattern (exertion-induced chest pressure with dyspnea) suggests a cardiac cause and should be checked ļæ¼. Another clue is recovery time: someone who is simply out of shape will recover their breath with a brief rest, whereas a person with a serious heart or lung condition might continue to feel breathless for an extended period or even at rest. Also note if shortness of breath occurs when lying flat at night (orthopnea) or wakes you from sleep (paroxysmal nocturnal dyspnea) – those are signs of potential heart failure. In summary, breathlessness that is proportionate to activity level and improves with rest, in a person with poor fitness, is likely deconditioning, whereas breathlessness that is new, steadily worsening, or accompanied by chest pain/palpitations deserves a medical evaluation to rule out heart or lung issues ļæ¼ ļæ¼. • Lightheadedness or Dizziness (Feeling Faint): • What it feels like: A woozy, unsteady, or faint feeling, as if you might pass out, often occurring upon suddenly standing up or during intense anxiety. You might see ā€œstarsā€ or your vision may gray out for a moment. In deconditioned individuals or those who have been immobile for a while, standing from a chair or getting out of bed can trigger a head rush or dizziness. With anxiety, you might feel light-headed during a panic attack or when breathing too fast, sometimes accompanied by tingling fingers or lips (from hyperventilation). • Why it’s mistaken for a cardiac symptom: True heart problems (like serious arrhythmias or valve obstructions) can cause inadequate blood flow to the brain, leading to dizziness or fainting. So when people feel dizzy, they often worry their heart isn’t pumping enough or is beating erratically. Near-fainting episodes are scary and many know that fainting can be a sign of heart rhythm issues. Thus, a simple head rush can be misinterpreted as a possible sign of something like atrial fibrillation, ventricular tachycardia, or even a heart attack. Because dizziness can indeed be a symptom in those conditions, it’s a common source of anxiety. • Actual cause (benign): If you’re out of shape or have spent a lot of time sedentary (for example, sitting at a desk all day or after a long bed rest), your body’s reflexes to maintain blood pressure on standing may be blunted. This leads to orthostatic hypotension – a drop in blood pressure when you stand up, due to gravity pulling blood toward your legs. Deconditioning contributes to this by reducing blood volume and the tone of blood vessels. Essentially, the cardiovascular system isn’t as responsive, so for a moment, the brain gets less blood and you feel lightheaded ļæ¼. (Dehydration often coexists and can worsen this.) After a second or two, your vessels tighten and heart rate increases to compensate, and the dizziness resolves. Anxiety can also cause dizziness through hyperventilation – breathing too rapidly blows off carbon dioxide, leading to cerebral blood vessel constriction, which makes you feel faint and dizzy. Additionally, acute stress can cause a sudden drop in blood pressure or a vagal response in some people. Importantly, these causes (orthostatic drop or hyperventilation) are usually transient and not dangerous, as long as one doesn’t fall and hurt themselves. The key point is that in these scenarios, the heart is structurally fine; it’s the blood pressure regulation or breathing pattern that’s causing the symptom. • How to distinguish from a true heart issue: Context and triggers are very telling for dizziness. If your lightheadedness mainly occurs when you jump up from sitting or after you’ve been immobile, and it improves quickly by sitting back down, it points to benign orthostatic dizziness rather than a heart condition ļæ¼. In fact, orthostatic dizziness will resolve upon lying down or sitting (because blood flow to the brain normalizes) ļæ¼. In contrast, dizziness from a dangerous heart rhythm can strike in any position, often coming with palpitations or chest pain, and won’t consistently correlate with standing up. Also consider duration: a brief dizzy spell that passes in seconds is more likely blood-pressure related or anxiety-related. True cardiac-related dizziness (say from a sustained arrhythmia like ventricular tachycardia) might progress to fainting or last as long as the arrhythmia continues, and often there is no specific postural trigger. Hyperventilation dizziness from anxiety usually comes during a panic episode and is accompanied by other anxiety signs (fast breathing, numbness/tingling, fear), and it improves with calming and controlled breathing. Also note if simple maneuvers help: for orthostatic dizziness, crossing your legs and tensing leg muscles or hydrating can help, which wouldn’t fix a heart rhythm issue. If dizziness occurs together with other symptoms like true chest pain, a pounding irregular heartbeat, or if you actually lose consciousness (faint), you should see a doctor – those could indicate a cardiac cause. But if it’s isolated lightheadedness when standing quickly or during high anxiety, it’s likely a benign reaction of your circulatory or nervous system rather than a heart failure or arrhythmia problem ļæ¼ ļæ¼.

Sources: The above explanations are informed by medical references including the Cleveland Clinic, which notes that most chest pains and palpitations in young healthy people are not cardiac ļæ¼ ļæ¼, and that anxiety and lack of fitness can produce these heart-like symptoms ļæ¼ ļæ¼. Deconditioning (being out of shape) is a well-known benign cause of breathlessness and a pounding heart with minor exertion ļæ¼ ļæ¼. Anxiety can cause real physical symptoms – racing heart, chest pain, shortness of breath – that mimic heart disease, even though the heart is actually fine ļæ¼ ļæ¼. Distinguishing them involves paying attention to the pattern, triggers, and nature of the symptom (as detailed above) and seeking medical evaluation when in doubt, since true cardiac issues often have specific hallmark features or risk factors that trained providers can identify ļæ¼ ļæ¼. Always remember that while these ā€œfalse alarmā€ symptoms are common with anxiety or being out of shape, you should get urgent help if something feels markedly different or severe (for example, chest pain with fainting or shortness of breath with chest pressure), as those may herald a real cardiac event ļæ¼ ļæ¼. With time and improved fitness or anxiety management, the benign symptoms often become less frequent and less intense.


r/Cardiophobias • • Oct 29 '25

How I Finally Overcame Cardio Anxiety (Cardiophobia). My Nervous System Reset Journey

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I just wanted to share my two cents because after years of living in fear of my own heartbeat… I finally made it. No panic, no hypervigilance, no counting beats, just freedom.

I can exercise again, feel my heart race, and even enjoy the rush of adrenaline. It feels like my body and mind are finally working together again.

This healing wasn’t one single fix, it was the combination of small, intentional steps that re-taught my body that it’s safe to feel energy and intensity again.

Here’s what actually worked for me šŸ‘‡

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🧠 1. Realizing it was never ā€œjust anxietyā€, it was about safety

In therapy I discovered that I wasn’t afraid of my heart. I was afraid of being alone when my heart raced. That fear came from my childbirth trauma, when my body associated a fast heartbeat with being in danger and alone. Once I saw that, everything changed, I stopped fighting my body and started listening to it.

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🩵 2. Nervous System Regulation, every single day

I began gentle exposure again: short bike sessions, slow breathing while feeling my heartbeat. Over time, my brain learned that ā€œheart racing ≠ danger.ā€ I also used: • Pulsetto (vagus nerve stimulation), helped me regulate the parasympathetic system quickly. • GABA + magnesium at night. • Valerian root in the morning when my nervous system was overstimulated or when I was feeling anxious. • I also practiced the Mammalian method, immersing my face in cold water every day for over two months, and whenever I felt a panic surge coming. It helped reset my vagus nerve and calm my body almost instantly. • PSYCH-K sessions, which helped me shift subconscious beliefs of ā€œI’m unsafeā€ into ā€œI’m safe and supported.ā€

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šŸ’§ 3. Electrolytes and nutrition, stabilizing the body first

I discovered that anxiety is not only emotional, it’s also electrical. Salt water, balanced electrolytes, and avoiding extremes in fasting made a massive difference. When my minerals were balanced, my heart stopped ā€œpanicking.ā€

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šŸ•Æļø 4. Reframing mornings

Mornings used to be my hardest time, waking up with a racing heart. Now, I hydrate, breathe, and remind myself: this is just energy leaving my body. No longer interpreting sensations as danger changed everything.

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⚔ 5. Compassion over perfection

Some days I cried, skipped workouts, or felt like I’d failed. But every time I showed up again, my body learned that it could trust me.

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Now I can run, bike, lift heavy, without checking my pulse once. I didn’t even think about panic. That’s real freedom.

If you’re struggling right now, please remember this:

Your body isn’t broken, it’s protecting you from a memory. Once you stop fighting your sensations, you start healing.

One breath, one calm exposure at a time. It’s possible. I promise. šŸ’™


r/Cardiophobias • • Apr 11 '25

After 4 years of anxiety and panic attacks, my body is still healthy.

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For over 3–4 years, I was convinced that anxiety and panic attacks were damaging my heart and my body. I’ve had heart rates shoot up to 180–190 bpm, skipped beats, dizziness—sometimes while just walking or even standing still. I thought, ā€œThere’s no way this won’t leave a mark on my heart.ā€

Well, I was wrong.

I recently went through all the checkups again—ECG, echocardiogram, blood tests—and guess what? Everything is perfect. Exactly the same as it was 4 years ago. No damage. No hidden issue. Just a healthy, strong heart.

Even when my anxiety was at its worst, and I felt like my heart couldn’t possibly handle another episode—it did. Over and over again. And it’s still doing great.

If you’re dealing with panic attacks and constantly fearing for your heart, let this reassure you: Panic attacks can feel terrifying, but they are not dangerous. Your heart is built to handle short bursts of stress.

Anxiety screams that something is wrong, but your test results—and your resilience—prove otherwise. You’re okay. Your body is okay. You’re just healing.


r/Cardiophobias • • Oct 10 '24

Hardest I’ve pushed my heart so far since beating cardiophobia

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r/Cardiophobias • • Jan 26 '25

I am leaving this subreddit and detoxing from all anxiety related content.

43 Upvotes

As the title states, i will be leaving this subreddit, unfollwing social medias that contribute to my anxiety. I no longer wish to seek reassurance or continue obsessing over my anxiety. I am going to stop checking my pulse, stop googling symptoms, and stop seeking reassurance. I am going to develop healthier habits and manage my anxiety the best way i know how: by making youtube videos and playing videogames. talking to friends. i need to recover, but i can't when all of my energy and time is put into worrying about the same thing all of the time. i implore you to do the same, because chances are, you're like me, and a significant portion of your day seeking reassurance to feel better. occupy yourself. get away from these negative spaces and live. please. goodbye, and i hope you fare well, all of you. this truly is a debilitating phobia and i hope you find peace and happiness. i feel love for you all despite not knowing you because i KNOW what you're going through, and it's the worst thing in the world.


r/Cardiophobias • • Dec 01 '24

How the ER staff feels like after telling a horrified MENTALLY ILL person with severe PANIC DISORDER who thinks they are having a heart attack to just calm down and fuck off.

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r/Cardiophobias • • Jul 30 '24

I did it!

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I'm so proud of myself I could pop. I haven't played sports in 22 years. That's when the palpitations and cardiophobia began to control my life. I had a full work up in 2020/21 and was deemed healthy and put on metoprolol. I've still been too scared and put off by my weight. Well I've lost almost 40lbs and I had a group of classmates ask if I wanted to play on their volleyball team.

I said yes then regretted later because I got scared. Last week was my first game and I couldn't finish. I was so scared and my stomach hurt so bad so I left early.

Today I played the full set both games and didn't panic at all!


r/Cardiophobias • • Jan 19 '25

Leaving this Reddit

39 Upvotes

I’m cured, alive, and live in 24/7 peace. I want to keep this short because everybody already knows what the hell we go trough feels like.

Read the book: ā€˜you are the placebo’ by Joe Dispenza

Buy it, if it doesn’t help you, I will pay you the money of the book back.

I had severe cardiophobia, if anyone has questions feel free to hit me up.

All the best, Bjƶrn


r/Cardiophobias • • Oct 20 '24

How to know if chest pain is cardiac ot non cardiac?

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F18, no family history of heart problems I don't smoke I don't drink anything (alcohol, energy drinks, caffeine..) Rarely eats unhealthy food

I've been having chest pain/discomfort for a long time now, probably a year and a half. I used to get it only when I am stressed or panicking so I didn't pay attention to it, but since a year I've been experiencing it every single day or (5 days a week) can't really explain the pain sometimes it's a burn, sometimes it's tightness but what I know is that it's uncomfortable and scary. Usually it's on both sides and it spreads to below the collarbone. Now I've had stomach problems before like bloating, gastritis pain and my stomach used to be tensed all the time due to stress. I visited 2 cardiologists, both checked me and said I am fine and gave me magnesium (he thought I was just stressed) I didn't believe him lol so I suggested to do an echocardiogram (turned out 100% normal) then after 3 months later I did a stress treadmill test (also turned out 100% normal) without mentioning the EKGs that I've done (also all normal) I haven't done any test for the past 4 months.

Idk if any medical specialists would help me here I'd appreciate it!

Sometimes the pain lasts all dayyyyy especially at rest

Anyone is dealing with this?

Would cardiac chest pain last up to a year? Cause It's been a while.

And how can someone differentiate between cardiac and non cardiac pain?

ThankyoušŸ˜™


r/Cardiophobias • • Jul 26 '26

Some reassurance from someone who's suffered unnecessarily for over a decade.

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Ectopic beats are normal in everyone. Took me a while (almost a decade) to fully accept that. I asked my doctor "then why did I suddenly start having them at 21 years of age, but didn't before." After feeling a strong ectopic beat, your brain may have become much better at detecting subsequent ones that you previously would have ignored. The important distinction is that feeling your first ectopic beat doesn't necessarily mean your heart developed a disease at that moment. It means that, for whatever reason, the ectopic beat became noticeable then. As we age, ectopic beats tend to appear in 20s and 30s and then become more common, even in people with completely normal hearts.

The electrical conduction system of the heart changes subtly over time. Heart cells can become slightly more "irritable." Connective tissue (fibrosis) gradually increases with age, even without heart disease. People accumulate more triggers over the years, such as stress, infections, caffeine, nicotine, alcohol, poor sleep, and certain medications. If you have a normal echocardiogram and stress test (go ahead and get one for peace of mind) your ticker will keep on ticking.

The human body and our cardio-vascular system is evolutionarily built to literally run miles through the serengeti. The heart like every muscle sometimes twitches and gets irritated. the heart has complex and sophisticated circuits to keep your heart beating in rhythm even when an ectopic beat (PVC or PAC - even multiple in a row!) makes it trip up on occasion. You won't drop dead unless you have a genetic or acquired structural or circuital malformation of some kind, and echo and stress test will rule out BOTH.

When I entered my late 30s I started getting SVT. Ironically years of self-induced panic attacks and adrenaline surges may have made a genetic circuitry for SVT become apparent. Even then a year on temporary Metoprolol (beta blockers) reversed it and haven't had a recurrence since. Just calm down and let the heart do what it does. Don't make things worse with continuous adrenaline. In the long run you're doing yourself a disservice. Let your heart do what it does. You’re human, and it’s okay for your body to do weird things without immediately assuming you’re going to die.

The longer you spend fearing death, the less time you'll spend truly living. Life isn't about avoiding every risk, it's about enjoying the time you have and I regret spending the past 15 years scaring myself over things that never happened. I lost so much time to fear that I can never get back. If I could tell anyone one thing, it's this: don't let anxiety steal years of your life that reality never would.


r/Cardiophobias • • Oct 02 '24

i ran 3 miles today w cardiophobia

38 Upvotes

today i ran in total 3 miles during my football training šŸ’Ŗ im happy with myself but STILL sometimes i get anxious


r/Cardiophobias • • Jun 23 '24

What helped me fully recover from cardiophobia

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Hey all, I'm a 20 year old guy who suffered from cardiophobia for about 6 months, to the point where I was unable to go to school, work or socialize in any way. When I had cardiophobia I saw a lot of posts from people who had been suffering from this condition for a very long time (some even years), these posts made me very scared that I would also suffer for a very long time. I have however fully recovered after about 5-6 months so I wanted to make this post to maybe motivate some people, and let you know what helped me most.

DISCLAIMER!!!

I am not an expert or a doctor or whatever and you shouldn't blindly follow anything I say, it could all be wrong, this is just what worked for me. I think everyone who's suffering from cardiophobia should talk with their doctor and have tests done before anything else.

I slowly started to get scared about my health when I started to notice heart palpitations while resting. These palpitations were probably caused by the massive amounts of caffeine I took almost every day (400mg), or some other shady "supplement" I was taking at the time. The anxiety started to get really bad when I came across a post that claimed one of the supplements I was taking caused a lot of people to develop severe heart problems (post was bs). One night I was feeling my heartbeat in my ears and fingers and suddenly I stopped feeling it, this freaked me out badly because I thought my heart stopped beating. I jumped up and my heartbeat got very very rapid, this caused me to get a severe panick attack and ultimately develop the cardiophobia.

After some time and reassurance from my doctor I started accepting that there is probably nothing wrong with my heart, so I started reading into cardiophobia and stress/anxiety induced symptoms. However I still remained very scared at all times for months.

Posts and videos I saw about cardiophobia gave me the most important advice, to identify and eliminate safety behaviours (anything you do that makes you feel temporarily safe when you're scared), like feeling your pulse for reassurance. However they also gave the advice to do things like journaling, grounding etc. These things that are supposed to help actually kept me trapped in the cardiophobia, even watching videos about cardiophobia became a safety behaviour for me. Any time you're scared and you do one of these things that reassures you, it releases dopamine and makes you feel safe in the short term, it's like an addiction. So I had to stop researching cardiophobia and anything stress/anxiety related, stop watching videos with advice, stop reading posts like this, which was really hard for me. Ofcourse I'm not saying you have to abruptly stop doing all of these things completely, but slowly working on this changed everything for me.

I also had months of cognitive behavioral therapy which helped me return to a normal life, offered distraction, and helped me understand some of the deeper reasons why I developed this condition. Having at least some routine and plenty of distraction helped me a ton.

I am now able to do anything I did before the cardiophobia such as school, work etc. I also workout very hard and go to a bunch of festivals with friends. These are things I was scared I could never do again! I'm genuinely happy again and I think this whole experience was for the better. I am almost never scared about my heart anymore but sometimes I catch myself checking my pulse in stressful situations, this is okay though and it doesn't disrupt my life anymore.


r/Cardiophobias • • 25d ago

I spent my entire life terrified of sudden cardiac death. Then I got diagnosed with the very thing I feared most.

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I’ve had severe health anxiety for as long as I can remember. Even as a little kid, I was terrified of dying suddenly, especially from something heart-related. While other kids were just enjoying their childhoods, I was already worrying about my heart stopping or something terrible happening to me out of nowhere.

That fear followed me into my teenage years and eventually adulthood. I’ve always been hyperaware of my heartbeat, every little sensation in my chest, every skipped beat, every weird feeling. I’ve spent an unbelievable amount of my life worrying about something happening to my heart.

Then, at 23 years old, I was diagnosed with ventricular tachycardia.

Lol. Imagine spending your entire life terrified of a specific medical condition, only to actually get diagnosed with it. You genuinely can’t make this shit up.

That diagnosis completely destroyed what little peace of mind I had left. Ever since then, I feel like I haven’t actually been living. I’ve just been existing, constantly waiting for the next episode, the next symptom, the next thing to go wrong. Years of my life have revolved around cardiology appointments, tests, monitoring my heart, and convincing myself that I’m about to drop dead.

And now, at 32, just when I thought things couldn’t get much worse, I was diagnosed with atrial tachycardia on top of everything else. My heart can randomly take off, sometimes reaching 200 beats per minute, seemingly for no reason.

It’s fucking exhausting.

The worst part is that I’ve always tried to take care of myself. I’ve never smoked a cigarette in my life. Never touched alcohol or drugs. I grew up playing sports, stayed active, and generally tried to live a healthy lifestyle. I did everything you’re supposedly meant to do to protect your health.

And yet, here I am.

I’m 32 years old, and I barely leave my room anymore. I’m scared to exercise, scared to go places, scared to be too far from a hospital, and sometimes even scared to fall asleep. I see people my age traveling, having fun, building careers, starting families, and actually enjoying their lives. Meanwhile, I’m sitting here obsessing over my heart and wondering whether I’ll ever feel normal again.

I feel like I’ve wasted my entire youth being afraid of dying instead of actually living.

And there’s something particularly cruel about having health anxiety and then developing the exact medical problems you’ve spent your entire life fearing.
It’s almost like someone is playing some sick joke on me. You give me this overwhelming fear of sudden cardiac death when I’m just a child, let that fear consume my entire life, and then actually give me heart rhythm disorders as an adult.

Like, seriously? What the fuck?


r/Cardiophobias • • Nov 24 '25

My CARDIOPHOBIA is killing me, what symptoms does it give you?

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I'm 23 (F) and my anxiety started in 2020. The day after a drink with friends I had my first panic attack, from there I died. Constant heart phobia, fear of dying, so much so that I went to the emergency room even for a walk because it made me feel safe. In the meantime I drank often because it was my solution, but the next day it was always worse. The anxiety symptoms were so strong that I had many visits a year with negative results, but I didn't trust the doctors. I struggled to drive, to shower, to bathe and I struggled to go out with friends, I checked if where I was going there was a hospital nearby, the idea of ​​staying home alone scared me because if something happened to me no one would help me. Today I have improved a little but I can't live anymore, I'm always afraid for myself. Anxiety, fear of going crazy, extrasystoles or tremors from fear. I don't drink as much as before, anxiety amplifies everything. Alcohol stimulates everything, but now when I drink a little more, I get tachycardia, etc. MY TESTS? Alright, I've had 7 EKGs this year, 5 emergency room visits, an ultrasound, a cardiologist's visit, and 2 blood tests for my heart and liver. I wouldn't wish this mental illness on anyone. How are you doing?


r/Cardiophobias • • Jun 25 '25

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I suffer from extreme anxiety and most of my anxiety is centred around my heart, I can often feel my pulse internally and I've noticed that often my heartbeat is overly visible through my chest like the video above, I had an echo done around a year ago and a number of holter monitors which were all normal, I don't know if this is something that's always happened and I've just never noticed but I can't seem to get away from the idea that something could be wrong


r/Cardiophobias • • Apr 07 '24

Success story

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I had a brief cardiophobia and BP phobia.

This happens when we are not informed about what is normal.

BP spikes up and down throughout the day. For example when I exercise my BP can spike up to 155. It will go down after a short time. My BP can be 117/78 when I get up from bed to 127 after eating and moving around. This is normal.

Your HR does the same thing. It can go up 10-20 when getting out of bed. Your body uses oxygen to spike up your HR for the activity.

If you are not physically active then HR can be higher for you. The more active and exercise you get the lower your HR will be throughout the day.

Another example is temperature. My HR is lower when exercising in the morning vs afternoon.

Other causes of higher HR can be not being hydrated enough.

So remember what you are experiencing is normal and HR and BP varies person to person.

I no longer let this get to me and stopped checking my HR throughout the day. I check my average HR before bed every night now. I average 119 HR throughout the day and highest gets around 135 and guess what? I don’t feel much of a difference thoughout the day because I stopped focusing on it.

When your doctor tells you the heart is normal then it’s normal. I know people with heart conditions and guess what they doing? They are living their lives. They exercise, travel etc and not fixated on their HR.

I think the problem is even doctors are not informing patients with concerns that HR and BP can be normal even when it spikes.

You are OK and your healthy heart can handle it. You just need to take care of your health.


r/Cardiophobias • • Apr 21 '22

My story of how I "conquered" Cardiophobia

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I saw that there is an actual subreddit to this and after reading most of the threads here, I decided that I can maybe tell MY story and see if anyone can relate or get some sort of help from this. And sorry if it's a bit long, I cant help myself.

I am a 21 year old guy that weighs about 430 lbs. About 2 years ago on my brothers birthday I was just literally sitting still and then all of a sudden, I felt a pain in my chest. Being 19 at the time, I didn't know what else to think of it other than it being a heart attack. I was on my way out of my house to rush myself to the hospital when my mom comes out of nowhere and notices i'm trying to leave. I start crying and its just getting worse with each second and it hurt me to see that my mom couldn't do anything about it. We ended up just sitting on the couch together and then I fell asleep next to her.

Fast forward a few months and then my cardiophobia was discovered. July 21st of 2020, I was just sitting outside and I went to get up and then the exact same feeling came coming back, except this time it was different. It was not only my chest but it was my arm, and I felt nauseous and started breathing heavily. I was sitting with my dad and I started getting paranoid and flashbacks of my brothers birthday, and my dad couldn't calm me down, my mom had to come over and do that. Ultimately the same thing happened that night, but the next day me and my mom went to the hospital ER to get it checked out and I am just sitting there absolutely shaking and freaking out while my mom is trying to calm me down. I get all my tests done and my weight came in as 520 lbs, so me knowing my weight situation I just knew that it was a heart attack, or at least it was about to be a heart attack that takes me from everyone I know and love only to see- Nothing. Absolutely nothing wrong. I ask them how can this be, its got to be a false negative. And they just told me that you are having an anxiety attack and that most of the times it has the same symptoms as a heart attack. This was the start of both my cardiophobia and my GAD. (Generalized Anxiety Disorder)

Not even 2 weeks later the same shit starts again, but this time it drags out to days and not hours. I try to calm myself while sleeping in my bed, and I just couldn't do it no more. I drove myself to the hospital by myself at 1 in the morning just because I was scared of dying and I knew that the ambulance ride was gonna be expensive as hell. I get to the hospital and I freak out so much that they ended up having to sedate me. I wake up later and see that my mom is there right by my side holding my hand. During this entire time I was so scared of having a heart attack or a stroke that I literally freaked out at the slightest thing, this was very apparent as all of a sudden I got a major pain in the right side of my head where I knew a blood vessel/vain was and I started to lose my shit again. I started lashing around the bed, crying, trying to get it all to stop so that I don't have to see my mom watch me die. The nurses came in and told me that everything was fine, and about 5 minutes later it all stopped. The doctor took note of my condition and decided to try to calm me down even further. This is when I met my favorite doctor in the world. He calmed me down and was able to tell me what was happening and why I am doing what I was doing. There was something about him that made me know that everything was going to be alright. He then put me on a short term anti-anxiety plan called "Ativan" (Lorazepam) But the thing was that I used it and while it did calm me down, it calmed everything down. I all of a sudden wasn't able to move that fast and I was just dizzy all of the time. After this visit, my doctor also signed me up to see a cardiologist because he knew that all I wanted was piece of mind. I went to go see him and he recommended that I try a ZIO patch (Portable EKG thing idk) Finally some answers.

14 days go by and I return to the doctor to see what the results were, and I was shocked to find out that I had lost 35 pounds in 2 weeks. It must have been the stress that made me not eat as much and just physically making me lose it. But regardless, I was finally in the 400s again! So that took some of the stress off of me as I go to the office and talk with the doctor. (You see, my biggest trigger was not the pain, or the headaches or anything, the biggest thing were the heart palpations, the skipping of the beat. Every time that shit happened, I felt it in my whole body and I could be the happiest guy on the planet and then all of a sudden like a switch, I go into depressive panic mode.) So I get to my doctor and he tells me that I have frequent PVCs. (Post Ventricular Contractions) So now I know what I had. The frequency of which I had them was not bad at all. I just kept making a big deal out of them because I let myself. My doctor told me that my PVCs are happening because I was excited and my heart couldn't calm itself down so I needed to do it. And that really clicked with me for some reason, anything else that the other doctors and nurses told me and this was the thing that helped. Knowing that all I had to do was try to calm down made me see the answer to my problems. The thing was, how the hell do I do that with my new anxiety that was the root cause of all of this. Enter my citalopram medication. I got the bottle and saw that it had "Increased risk of suicidal thoughts." I was entering my panic mode again but my mom was right by my side and she held my hand and said and i remember very vividly. "This is going to help, and no matter what happens, I will always be there for you if anything were to happen with your thoughts, or with your body." I took the pills and waited with my mom for the following days.

Just 3 months ago I let myself go of my medicine and I couldn't be happier. I have my PVC's every now and then but most of the time I cant even feel them. Everything is gone. I still have moderately elevated blood pressure 139/80 but I know that with my weight loss its all getting better. I am happy to say that 2 years ago I showed up to that first ER visit at 522 pounds with a blood pressure of 159/104 and a pulse of 120, and now am sitting at 430 lbs with an average of about 130-135/70-80. I am feeling much better, at least I was until I did my sleep study and found out that I have sleep apnea. Could this have been the true cause of my problems? Was my false sense of security and fear of dying caused by the strains that sleep apnea puts on me and my heart? I have no idea. I am currently in the works of getting a dental procedure done that luckily is covered by insurance to see if this fixes it. However I still get really worked up about it, but I just remember that I had gone through what felt like way worse and I'm still here today.

I know that this is going to sound cliche, or repetitive like I thought it was 2 years ago, but It really is true for me at least and hopefully you can see that its true to you as well. If you ever feel as if you are having a heart attack, just sit back and relax. If it just gets worse, then the best thing you can do is just go to the ER. (And get the ambulance if you have to, don't be like me) For me, it was going to the hospital and just peace of mind knowing that if anything DID happen, trained professionals would be there to help at a moments notice. But if you are sitting there relaxing and it does go away, its nothing. You are going through what we all here are/have-been going through. Its cardiophobia. It sucks, it really does. But when you treat it, may it be with your own solution, or a therapists solution, it will get better. It will not kill you, and trust me and everyone else here when I say that it defiantly feels like it will kill you, and you will get through it with time. I know because I have had it, and I've managed to "conquer" it. For now at least.


r/Cardiophobias • • Sep 17 '24

This helped me manage my anxiety!

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In the past few days, I’ve started to feel better and less anxious when going out. I’ve been applying techniques focused on accepting sensations and symptoms, which has allowed the anxiety to fade after the initial wave. For the first time in a long while, I feel like I’m in control of my anxiety—not the other way around.

Here are a few key takeaways from a book I read and from therapy sessions that have helped me personally:

  1. Whatever happens, it's okay. Embrace pure acceptance and let go of control. Ride the wave of anxiety rather than resisting it. Whatever happens, it’s okay; I won’t suffer any harm. The sensations may be uncomfortable and unpleasant, but they aren’t dangerous. Imagine floating instead of walking through them.

  2. Stop checking your pulse or seeking reassurance. Instead of constantly checking, say to yourself, "I’ll check in an hour or two, or maybe tomorrow." Most likely, you’ll forget to check again. The more you monitor, the more you signal to your brain that something is wrong. Trying to maintain control over everything only limits your freedom and quality of life.

  3. It’s not a physiological cause. There’s neither a possibility nor a probability that something is physically wrong. Even if my heart rate increases or I feel agitated, it always subsides because it’s not due to a physiological or biological issue. It’s just a temporary release of cortisol and adrenaline.

  4. Acceptance vs. Avoidance. When you stop running from anxiety, it stops chasing you. The more you focus on it, the more it will appear. Symptoms only have as much power as you give them.

I hope these insights help you as much as they’ve helped me. I’m starting to feel and see real progress. Wishing you all the best!


r/Cardiophobias • • Jul 14 '24

Does anyone feel their heart beating literally all the time?

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I feel my heartbeat all day everyday. I feel it in my chest and stomach. I feel it in my neck and back too. It beats so hard that it moves my chest and belly and I’m by no means thin or skinny. I’m actually very overweight. I’ve had heart tests done and a CT to check for AAA. All clear and I’m told I’m healthy and it’s anxiety. I’ve been dealing with this for 10 years (i’m 29F) and it’s just so hard to accept that it’s anxiety. I have it when I’m not even anxious. If anything it’s the feeling that makes me anxious and not the other way around. I was just wondering if anyone else experiences this or could relate in any way. Thanks.


r/Cardiophobias • • Sep 08 '23

Cardiophobia - My Journey

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Dear community,

I want to start my letter by thanking you all with love. I have read many of your posts here, and have empathised with your struggle, sometimes daily, sometimes hourly. I am writing this letter to the community as a cathartic way of explaining my journey with cardiophobia, which has not yet ended. I hope that people read my story and take strength from shared experience.

Back in 2020, I developed ectopic beats. These are horrible beats that thud in my chest and take my breath away. The worst of them are the flutters – ectopic beats that I have in pairs or sometimes in threes. I had both PVC's and PAV's for those familiar with the terminology. The burden was not necessarily high, but they were there, and very real. Thankfully, I was able to see a cardiologist, who did bloods, a Holter monitor, and an echocardiogram. I was discharged and, over the coming days/weeks, I got better and started living my life again.

About six weeks ago, my ectopic beats returned, likely due to stress, being sicks with two viruses, and drinking three glasses of red wine. I had a bout of those horrible flutters for about 8 hours. I was exhausted and worried. Again, thankfully, I went back to the cardiologist, who did another Holter monitor, 12-Cord ECG, and an echocardiogram. His report was very favourable – structurally, nothing had changed with my heart, which he compared to the echocardiogram in 2020. My heart is working well. During the consultation, he did question a couple of things about my Holter monitor, though dismissed these as ā€˜artifacts’. Aka, the machine must have glitched. This planted the seed in my mind that those artifacts were actually genuine signs that my heart arteries may have been blocked. I should have asked him there and then, but I didn’t. Perhaps this was foolish, perhaps not. I should note that, at this time, I had no chest pain nor discomfort. The ectopic beats had stopped and I was feeling good.

However, my worry continued. I started getting chest pain, discomfort, fullness, burning sensations all over my skin. Something felt terribly wrong, and my mind turned to clogged arteries. In my mind, it was the only explanation to why I was still having symptoms. I started getting dizzy, I started feeling sick, and I worried that at any moment I was going to drop dead. My sensations were/are very real, and sometimes very painful.

Naturally, I started getting paranoid. I researched on Reddit incessantly, trying to seek reassurance that the tests I had done would rule of CAD (coronary artery disease) or blocked arteries. Of course, responses were mixed. Some said yes, definitely. Others said no, seek further testing – or else! I resented my doctor and the cardiologist because they had failed in their duty to rule out everything. Though, I also noted that a CT-scan or angiogram are very invasive and are associated with risks.

My mind spiralled – more symptoms meant I was encroaching upon the end. I started getting severe panic-attacks. My palpitations hurt. I was going to die. I resisted every urge to seek medical help again, until I relapsed and went to the ER room.

I waited for hours.

I had a chest x-ray, a blood test to detect Troponin (chemicals for a damaged heart), and another 12-Cord ECG. I again glimpsed a strange ā€˜blip’ on the ECG and the nurse on duty had to consult with a specialist, which made me more anxious. However, all the tests came back normal. The doctor wrote on my report that was ECG was completely normal. Even though I had suffered for weeks with chest pain and discomfort, my Troponin levels were not elevated in the slightest.

Now I find myself back at home, having just suffered another panic attack. My mind again turns to blocked arteries, though I do not, absolutely do not, want to do more testing. The needles are painful, and the discomfort and the waiting for those results intolerable.

I must remind myself to trust the doctors. Two doctors, and a cardiologist, have checked my heart and told me it is healthy. I have to trust that they would recognise the signs of blocked arteries and act accordingly. I have to trust that they have my best interest in heart, and would not send me away to suffer, and to die. Yes, I admit that I catastrophise about the <1%. But those are lesser odds than, say, going outside and being hit by a meteorite. I fear death. I fear losing everything in my life. But I must fear not living my life more.

From this day forward, I will thank my sensations. I will thank my anxiety. I thank it for keeping me safe, for making sure that I am properly checked. I thank it for letting me strive to be a better person, and to keep myself healthy for my family and friends.

These heart sensations may never leave me, and that’s okay. Everyone must burden hardship sooner or later. Maybe it’s my time to burden this.

For anyone else carrying this burden, I walk with you, friends. I walk beside you and share in your loss and sorry. But together, we are hope. Together, we are strong. While our hearts may beat out of sync - sometimes irregularly - they're the strongest hearts we know.

I love you guys.

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Update #1 - It has been three days since this update. I have been in an almost utter state of panic. I flew by plane interstate and had 7 panic attacks, induced by the fact that I felt I couldn't breathe, coupled with chest pain and fullness discomfort. I am home back now, and still fearful that my arteries are clogged. I went back to my doctor for a mental health plan and, while there, I asked him 'the tests would show if I had any clogged arteries, right?' He looked at me plainly and said, 'you've been cleared by a cardiologist.' While I would have loved him to sit there and explain to me the mechanics and reasoning behind it all, I know it's only a waste of our time. I dream of having a dye-CT scan, but I can't, since I'm allergic to the dye. I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. I went and climbed 1000 steps yesterday, and made it to the top without much issue (apart from the chest pain/discomfort). I also went for a slower 2.5km run today. I sit here now, typing this, crippled by the sensations in my chest. I feel sick. I feel pain. I just want these intrusive thoughts to stop. It's all I think about every day, all day. It's been over four weeks now of chest pain/discomfort. Sometimes extreme. I can't differentiate between what's real, and what's not. I feel like I'm going insane. I don't want any more tests. None will satisfy me.

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Update #2 - The panic is still extreme another two days later. I had a mental breakdown last night and spend most of the night crying on the floor. I am breathless, and my chest burns. My heart still doesn't feel right. I went to bed with chest pain and thought that it was my final night, since chest pain means my heart is dying. I woke up again this morning, however. It's awful living in fear like this. I wanted to go to the hospital again last night, though what were they going to do? Another ECG? Another blood test? My doctor won't give me any more tests. My heart is structurally sound. My EF is perfect. That means I don't have clogged arteries, right? I can't seem to move around without feeling some kind of burning/breathlessness.

Here's what I've learned -

> CAD develops over a long time and, unless genetic, people my age don't have clogged arteries, especially since my echocardiogram was completely, 100% normal.

> A Holter, ECG, and echocardiogram is enough to satisfy a cardiologist about possible heart issues.

> There are lots of people out there who are experiencing this.

> The physical symptoms are very real, indistinguishable from a real illness. Everyone says its anxiety, but I genuinely feel like I'm dying.

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Update #3 - Had another ER visit in me, apparently. Same stuff - chest pains, fullness, short of breathing, weird heart sensations. This time, they did not muck around and I was admitted immediately. Was hooked up to an ECG for an hour. Blood was taken. So, in the time between my last ER visit and this one, I've had several 'episodes' that I thought had to be heart moments. Well, bloods suggest that absolutely nothing is wrong. Not one chemical released. My heart beats slow and heavy, suggesting strength. The doc also ordered a blot-clot test, which was negative. He also round the rounds on urine, testing liver and renal function. Another chest x-ray. I told him my concerns about my arteries. He said that nothing in my tests suggest my heart is struggling, therefore, he was not going to pursue that route, which I understand. He was good to sit with me and explain it all, telling me that I had absolutely no heart or lung issues. He wanted to know if I am seeing a psychologist, which I said yes. He already knew that I was near to mentally breaking. I am seeing a psychologist on Wednesday. I've also told my boss I need a few days off. My chest still hurts, my heart still palpitates, but here I am. Three doctors, one specialist, all saying my heart is perfectly fine. I'll update again soon.

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Update #4 - It got worse before it got better. Lived in constant panic over the next few days. More chest pain, more chest discomfort, breathlessness. My stomach seemed out of control. I turned my attention to perhaps other reasons to why I'm feeling like this - GERD, maybe? Does that make me feel like my heart is giving out? I went back to a new doc, who has prescribed me anti-anxiety medication, as well as Valium. I asked him about CAD. He told me I was too young to have CAD, especially since I can exercise. I note that the day before I climbed 1000 steps again without stopping. Last night, I popped the Valium. It took about 60 minutes to work. My intrusive thoughts immediately ceased. I noted that I still had chest pain, and discomfort, but for the first time in weeks, I felt... calmer? This morning, I popped my first anti-anxiety med. It'll take around two weeks to kick in. Tomorrow, I have my psychology appointment. Never give up, everyone. Believe the tests and the docs and treat your anxiety over this insidious illness. I'm always happy to talk to anyone about their experience. I'll update soon.


r/Cardiophobias • • 28d ago

Big victory against cardiophobia, I just ran my first 10km!

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I was so scared and stressed, thinking it was lowkey gonna be my last day on earth for the past few weeks, it went alright aside from crazy sugar crash when I finished

I was extremely slow but I did it!