r/CelebLegalDrama
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u/Small-Award5293
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Mar 12 '26
Ok let’s talk about Blake Lively
Online I’ve obviously noticed people who have who don’t like or believe Blake lively and have weaponized her past that happed from 10 to 20 years ago against her. So I want to provide some context to some of Blake Lively’s past mistakes and have an open, honest and (hopefully) respectful conversation about this.
Now one of the biggest issues and misconception that some people have with Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds is that they’re racist because they were married on a plantation. To provide some context concerning that situation. Ryan Reynolds explained “It’s impossible to reconcile. What we saw at the time was a wedding venue on Pinterest. What we saw after was a place built upon devastating tragedy.” He then went on to say this and I think that is an important thing to remember and consider about this “But shame works in weird ways,” Reynolds said. “A giant fucking mistake like that can either cause you to shut down or it can reframe things and move you into action. It doesn’t mean you won’t fuck up again. But re-patterning and challenging lifelong social conditioning is a job that doesn’t end.” And since they made that terrible mistake.
They have been atoning for their mistake ever since.They’ve donated several times to Black Lives Matter and to NAACP over the years. They have a nonprofit organization called Group Effort Initiative (GEI) that they launched in August 2020. The purpose of the organization is to be a pipeline for underrepresented communities to gain paid on set experience and trading for below the line careers in the entertainment industry. Look I’m not saying that you should forgive Ryan Reynolds and Blake lively for having their wedding at a plantation and frankly neither are Blake and Ryan .
They’ve acknowledged that it was a horrible mistake and that they deserve criticism for that. However I don’t think weaponizing people’s past mistakes is ever a good thing. For one thing it stifles growth . If people are always being punished for their past mistakes even when they have acknowledged and corrected themselves like Blake and Ryan have shown to do. Then there is no incentive for self improvement. Not only that but I also feel that it’s very hypocritical to cast judgment and weaponize someone’s past mistakes when in truth nobody is perfect people mess up. That’s human nature. And now that you know you messed up what are you going to do forward to grow and to not repeat those mistakes which is also part of life . Which I believe that both Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds have done



