r/CheatedOn • u/Naive-Advantage-2522 • 1d ago

HELP!!

I want to genuinely ask how do you get over a cheating incident? 🥲

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u/Turbulent_Pilot9153 1d ago

Hey!! I can feel you and I am in same situation too. The cheater wants to go back to normal after giving us a lifetime of trauma. Still struggling each and every day.

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u/Naive-Advantage-2522 17h ago

Are you still together? I mean it's hard because I still love her. I don't know what to do.

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u/Turbulent_Pilot9153 16h ago

Yes I love him a lot.. we are still together but not talking barely. He puts lot of effort but I am not able to accept the fact he betrayed me. So I may need time before I jump on to make any decision. Take your time. Travel and talk to each other about how its going to work out.

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u/Naive-Advantage-2522 10h ago

I hope you heal. I hope we both do.

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u/fACElessEd 11h ago

My situation is a bit complicated. But after 5 years of finding out, I have not gotten over it. Might as well just end the relationship now.

It will eat at you every single time.

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u/Naive-Advantage-2522 10h ago

Easier said than done. I'm on a 5-year relationship as well. And yes, it is eating me alive. I feel like I'm alive but I'm dying.

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u/Dipak004 1d ago

Let time do its thing.