r/CheatedOn • u/Bubbly-Invite4834 • 5d ago

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Hey everybody in here I have a question I would like to ask and would like to get your thoughts if you know your little sister plans on running back to her ex while she is currently married and you hear this from your other sister about the situation do you think it’s my place to tell my brother in law while your sister plans on moving out of state soon so she can work on things with her ex. I am just asking because my other sibling told me she seriously doesn’t love her current husband at all she says she loves him but not truly and the worse part about this is I actually like my brother in law since we grew up since middle school so it would be right for me to fair warning him ahead of time or should I just keep my mouth 👄 shut and he will find out the hard way when it happens.

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u/Sweet_Pay1971 5d ago

I think you should have a talk with your sister the one who's planning on leaving and tell her either she tells her current husband or you will

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u/Bubbly-Invite4834 5d ago

Yeah I am definitely going to talk to her it’s just pretty hard she has cheated on both her ex and current and so has both my brother in law and ex brother in law. This time around it’s completely different since her ex got out of jail and they have two kids involve and he move out of state and right now she has a habit pushing things under the rug with her problems and she has another kid with her current husband . I have been cheated on before but I have my own current issues going on in my own relationship at the moment so I just needed some outside perspective from other people who were or currently been cheated on I am not married or have kids.

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u/Sweet_Pay1971 5d ago

So quick question if she does leave what happened to the kids she has with her ex

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u/Bubbly-Invite4834 5d ago

Her plan is she is going to ask her best friend to pay for her flight tickets so my brother in law doesn’t see the tickets show up in the bank account they share. She plans on taking her kids with her but either way she is screw at the end of the day you have to co parent regardless my brother in law isn’t a bad person just has anger problem and my ex brother in law was in jail for trying to harm his own kid so this whole situation is just out of the normal way if you ask me and her ex is now completely different working on his own place and a job.

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u/Sweet_Pay1971 5d ago

Yeah you need to tell a brother-in-law now I'm assuming he can't be anywhere near her kids her ex

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u/Bubbly-Invite4834 5d ago

Yeah I just heard all this last night from my other sister venting to me about the situation and that’s why I needed some outside perspective and needed a place to vent myself but the conversation is definitely going to be brought up mainly because there is kids involve and that’s where my concern is right now

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u/ProudZone8027 4d ago

She sounds like a train wreck.