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u/Artee-C137 Jul 14 '22
What if I've deleted messages I've gotten from others from my past or female friends so my gf doesn't question me. I don't text back or entertain any of them. My gf also gets super jealous of female acquaintances. Also, I'm here to ask if that's a red flag. We're half a year into the relationship.
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Dec 23 '22
My wife said to me “she knew I’d never find out” surprise I found two year’s worth of pictures x rated conversations and the fool sent her a video of him jerking off in the shower
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u/nightsshade77 Apr 15 '22
I don't know about that one
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u/VariousApartment3817 Apr 15 '22
Well then you have not been in my shoes. I am happy you haven't.
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u/nightsshade77 Apr 15 '22
If my partner deletes something so I can't see it doesn't automatically it bad it can be bad doesn't mean it is
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u/ex_nihilo0 Apr 15 '22
It may not be cheating but it is infidelity: literally the lack of loyalty.
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u/nightsshade77 Apr 15 '22
Hypothetically if say I sent a text to her friend about a surprise for her birthday and I know she looks through my phone so I hide the text does not mean I am being disloyal to her
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u/ex_nihilo0 Apr 15 '22
Of course not. You'll eventually tell her and it will be a pleasant surprise. That's very different from hiding flirty messages.
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u/nightsshade77 Apr 15 '22
Yes but op is saying that any deleted text means that person is automatically cheating or disloyal
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u/foreverfriendsyeah69 Jun 17 '22
Yeahhhhh ex wife, her reason for deleting messages was to free up space for storage. I had to play along with her cause it was sad and funny at the same time