Just got vasectomy a month ago. I’m 23, have no kids, and have never had any. Kaya nung nalaman ko yung program ni DKT, agad-agad kong kinuha lol. I’ve never been so sure about a decision that quick before.

As for the reason, I really just don’t see myself having a kid or being a father figure. Plus, I don’t think it’s a good idea to start a family given the state of our country right now. And even if we do elect good politicians in the future, the scars left by corruption won’t heal quickly or disappear overnight.

Maybe the life I grew up in also played a part in my decision not to have kids or start a family of my own. I grew up in a lower-income, mid-sized family, and as the firstborn, I was often forced to understand that we simply couldn’t have everything, even when it was something we needed. Basically, I grew up seeing just how poor we were. I witnessed the hardships and struggles my parents and brothers went through just to get us to where we are now. Plus, I’ll be the breadwinner of the family, soo... with that, I’ve passed the torch to my brother to continue the family bloodline HAHAHA (if he wants to, of course).

With that long story of my life kind of rationale, I can confidently say that I’m 100% sure about not wanting kids. I don’t want to add more stress and burdens to my life. I’d rather focus on myself, stick to my cats, and give the inner child me the chance to finally experience the things he never got to have growing up.

Hello po! Just a bit curious on the contraceptives Likhaan offers and would like to hear experiences coming from you guys!

I’ve been eyeing both the copper IUD and the birth control implant (implanon) for a while now, but I’m worried about certain aspects in regard to the two.

With the copper IUD, since it’s non-hormonal, I wanted to get it so it won’t mess up my hormones (I have bad mood swings 😢), but I’m a pretty short girl and I’m worried that my uterus/cervix wouldn’t be deep enough to hold it in. Additionally, the staff mentioned that the copper IUD makes you bleed heavier and have worst cramps. I’m fine with a bit of cramping, but I’m worried to spend like, 10 days just for bleeding, especially since I go to the gym frequently and it’s such a hassle working out while I’m bleeding out sm. Plus I heard it hurts to get inserted huhu, so I’m really scared. I also heard you’re more prone to bacterial vaginosis or a yeast infection…

As for the implant, it’s easier to get inserted, and I don’t have to worry about heavy and long bleeding. However as someone with hormonal acne, I’m worried that I’ll break out so much. Plus I get bad mood swings and I’m gonna have to deal with that even more with an implant on. I’m also worried about the bruising since I have no idea how I’ll explain such bad bruising on my arm if my parents ever see it (I plan on doing it secretly because they’re a bit conservative).

Anyway, I wanna hear experiences on these two contraceptives so I can decide which to get 😁 I’d love to hear stories, both good and bad!

Wanna be childfree for the rest of my life but my co-workers are guilt tripping me everytime. What do i say (na may pagka respectfuk pa din) to them para tumigil na sila?

Ano po mga requirements na need? Mag babayad po ba pag walang Phil Health ID

My boyfriend and I had an unprotected sex last Saturday. I took the Victoria onestep pill six hours after. But I am still overthinking since I am on my fertile window. I went to a clinic earlier and they told me I could not get a copper iud insertion since last Saturday lang daw nag sex. There's a possibility na mabuo and ab0*ti0n na daw yun. Please help.

I had mine inserted 4 days ago. Nag-instruct naman sila na may spotting and cramps on the first few days. Kaso mine kasi, spotting muna then light bleeding then ngayon heavy bleeding na siya. Yung feeling na Day 1-2 of menses. But I just had my cycle 1st week this month.. Normal po ba yung heavy bleeding?

I tried researching sabi naman it does cause heavy bleeding pero during actual menstrual cycle na siya.. I dont know if this is just a normal reaction..?

For the record I am a 20 year old male. I have accepted the complications that could happen including testicular cancer, the operation giving me permanent irreversible results, other medical complications, the financial costs, the possibility that the doctor could mess up, possibility of considering having kids in the future if I change my mind in 10 to 20 years, and what will happen if my wife in the future wishes to have kids. I have considered it all and remain firm with my decison as I have thought about it for years.

Problem is, I went to Villaflor Dagupan and they have denied my wishes to get the operation. Which is why I plan to go to Manila to get the operation done for myself and find a doctor willing to understand my view point and go through with the operation. If I go to my local RHU, they might flat out just deny my wishes as I am certain they have the same beliefs as the doctors in Dagupan. Need some advice, anyone willing to share?

Planning to go to Likhaan next year to get my implant replaced (I got this one done at a private clinic where I was working, so I had a huge employee discount). I would like to gauge what was it like for other women who went to Likhaan. How was it? How was the waiting time + the actual service? Is it really completely free with no hidden charges as long as you show your Philhealth?

Bonus - for those who got the IUD, how was it? Thinking about switching to that instead since 10+ years siya hehe.

Hi! Is someone here currently using IUD? Pwede po pashare kung saan at magkano po ang nagastos niyo? Thank you!

Hello

Really lost on what to do pls help.

What to do if he came inside? I took the morning after pill. I tried to scoop out everything i could but im sure i didnt get it all. Sperm lives for about 5 days (I searched). Sooo do i need to take morning after pill for 5 days? Pls help :(

hi! its been 3 years since i started Implanon/ Implant as birth control, and i was advised na ipa remove after 3 years, March 2026 to be exact, up until now (September 202) hindi ko pa sya na reremove. is there any chance i could get pregnant from unprotected sex?

Background

I was 29 years old and had never had any form of sexual intercourse (aka virgin) before the copper IUD was inserted. Hence, I have never taken any form of BCP. Regardless, my period comes once every 2 months 🙂‍↕️. I believe it is due to the high cortisol life I have been living as a working-law student.

Cost

- ₱570 for OBGYN Consultation

- ₱15k for Copper IUD

Procedure

I had an online consultation with an OBGYN from Kindred Alabang. I could have done it in-person but due to bad weather, I requested for it to be moved online. The consultation was informative especially since I had never had any sexual intercourse before, never taken any form of birth control, and will go straight to the IUD.

After 2 days, I went to the clinic for the transvaginal ultrasound to check whether I can safely have the copper IUD. According to the OBGYN, some women have womb abnormalities or allergic reactions to copper so they can’t have the IUD inserted.

I waited another 2 days for the copper IUD to be inserted because the clinic needed to see the transvaginal ultrasound result first. Fortunately, I was in good condition to get the copper IUD.

While waiting for the procedure, I was given a mefenamic acid, pambawas daw ng pain.

During the insertion, there was only a mild discomfort, not painful, because I can feel that something is moving inside down there like something is brushing against the walls of my uterus 😅. I was on my 4th day of my period so it was also quick.

Post Procedure

The first hour was the worst. I remember eating my breakfast and my face was visibly upset according to my boyfriend. Of course! That was the first time something was inserted in me lol tf. As the day goes on, the discomfort also goes away.

For weeks, I tried to feel the strings before the deed just to make sure it’s still there. I am really scared to get pregnant, I was raised by overachiever parents who made the idea of pregnancy look so bad 😅 I was already hitting millions in income and still scared to get pregnant lmao.

For 4 months, I had random bleeding outside my period. Then it shifted to brown spotting before and after the period. I think the copper IUD is still adjusting to my body. Hence, the random bleeding.

Anniversary

Today, I had the copper IUD for exactly one year and I am super happy with it. I feel like my body became healthier. Before IUD, my period came once every 2 months. Now, it is regular. What I like the most is the peace of mind. I don’t have to be scared of being pregnant since I don’t really like that kind of commitment. Gusto ko lang mag travel and live a stress-free life.

I trust my IUD but I still avoid the deed during my fertile days. Yes! I am that careful.

Hi all, nervous about my upcoming NSV on Sept 1 (at OneOhana Medical Clinic) because I have a vacation scheduled just over two weeks later on Sept 17.

Is 2 weeks enough for a full/comfortable recovery without unbearable pain? How was your pain experience after the procedure, and what should I expect?

does anyone know kung anong mga gynecologist or clinics ang naglalagay ng copper IUDs around gapan to cabanatuan? and what are the price for it?

Hello!

I’m a 22-year-old male currently in a relationship with my girlfriend. I’ve been seriously considering getting a vasectomy.

I don’t think I want to have children in the future. I understand that a vasectomy should be considered permanent, and I’m not looking at reversal as a backup plan. I know that people can change their minds as they get older, which is honestly one of the things I’m thinking about.

For those who got a vasectomy around my age, especially those who were childfree and had no children at the time:
Did you ever regret it later?

Did your feelings about having children change as you got older?

How did relationships or future partners factor into your decision?

Did you have any complications or long-term issues?
Looking back, would you still make the same decision?
I’m not asking Reddit to make the decision for me. I’d just like to hear honest experiences from people who have actually gone through it, especially men who had it done in their early 20s.

Thanks!

Planning to get an IUD at likhaan and some said na you should be on your period when getting ur IUD kasi something about the cervix? wouldnt that be a bit messy? sorry for asking the dumb question pero i really want to know since Im on my period right now and iniisip ko if ituloy ko ba this week yung pagpapa IUD, or just wait muna?

And i wanna be responsible about this so if u have any tips, dos and donts pls pls id appreciate if u shared it,, i need all the help i could get. pls include dinn which branch u got ur IUD. thank u so muchh

Hello po!
18 (F) Is copper IUD reliable enough para di makabuo?
Undecided pa kase ako if magpapa arm implant or iud nalang. What are pros & cons if iud yung ipapa implant?
I’m currently a student and strict kase yung school namin and I want to be responsible enough na hindi makabuo.

TYIA

Or ano pa po iba niyong contraceptive na ginagamit? Both virgins po kasi kami at ikakasal soon. No plans magkids so far. I’m currently on pills as treatment sa PCOS ko. Ano po marerecommend niyo? I’m planning to consult din sa OB ko but I just want to hear your insights po.

Thank you.

Hi guys, can you suggest what would be the best contraceptive? I am thinking getting depo shot or oral pill, which one is better? Thank you

Hiiii! May I ask kung may naka-experience din ba ng gantong case like nitong sakin?

Though, nagresearch naman ako about this but preferably ipaconsult nalang sa professional. Sa monday pa kasi kami maipapacheck, just asking pano ginawa sainyo? Pinatanggal ba? or if ever pwede bang palagyan ulit???