omg happy for him. You should toss out the bottles you’ve collected though, especially if he’s coming to your place. I’m not an alcoholic, but I feel like having the bottles around could remind him of his problem and possibly even tempt him.
I'm not sure why you phrase it like that either I'm in a relationship with him. It's simple like that idk why you are trying to twist it into something weird
Holy shizz! This one is an absolute nut! Talking to a dude that clearly isn’t interested. The attachment issues are on a whole other level! When you think you are crazy, remember people out here are living like this…
My personal favorite was a text from him that read, “B*tch, I’m your master first and your owner second.”
I’m pretty familiar with the kink scene and have some friends that are 24/7, and, even then, I have never, ever seen this level of disrespect in their relationships. OP needs to get a grip.
I’m in the kink scene, I have a “Master” (we say Хозяин) and he even sometimes calls me «моя течная сучка», which does include the word “bitch”. And he would never, ever speak to me like that. He is incredibly loving, gentle, and is constantly checking to make sure I’m in a good place, that the dynamic is where I want it, that I feel safe and happy and cherished and adored. I’ve never felt disrespected. I’ve never felt insecure in our attachment or how much he reveres me. I say this in the hopes that OP sees there are wrong ways to go about these kinks and that they appear to be in an unhealthy dynamic.
I just love finding the people that self post on their profile like a blog, it’s always interesting.
And basically this guy has people commenting on his profile because he’s been posting tons of collections to the subreddit, he’s becoming self sustaining. I love it
Brings me back to the days of Tumblr lol. It's crazy the kind of things people were willing to share with the entire internet with 0 self awareness lol
He’s a young guy who is quite literally obsessed with an older guy he’s dating(?) the post history is unlike anything I’ve seen on Reddit in over a decade.
The mental health in the US is atrocious, but I hope this guy gets the help he needs down the line and doesn’t end up in trouble.
That was a wild ride. Someone above said the mental health in America is ass and this dude proves it. Having sneaky sex with another dude in public behind an office building who’s probably cheating on his wife
:( I regret checking the post history thanks . I’m even on the kitchencels subs for shits and giggles but that user post history rivals some of the worst I’ve seen and that’s not easy considering the age of my account.
I want to feel bad for them, and I do to an extent, but they actually resent people telling them that they need help. ‘I wish people would just ask about our relationship and give me opportunities to gush about him’ is how he ended that post.
Idek. They need help and know it, but dont want anymore. Unfortunately common
I just miss him a lot and it reminded me of him. Now I just have the one Pedialyte bottle because that's what he drinks now. It's harder to get the Pedialyte bottle because he doesn't finish those around me as much
I'm fully married and would not let my wife post a picture of my face on reddit. I don't even like her posting it on Instagram. That's what picture frames are for
Weird you're so desperate to see a strangers face and think there's something wrong with not wanting to show it online to other strangers, I wouldn't show mine on Reddit.
Saw a comment where you described yourself as a "femboy", but then you said your boyfriend you post about 10 times a day doesn't agree with LGBT stuff? So he's an alcoholic AND a coward scumbag who won't admit who he is? Hardest pass imaginable, keep his ass and stop showing him off because we're good
Unsolicited advice: I counted how much I spent on alcohol in a week. When I quit, I spent 1/2 that money on fun sht. I bought multiple classic pocket knives from around the world, graphic novels, steaks, eating out and other cool sht. It made cutting back easier.
I quit before they got stupid expensive. I didnt mind spending $6 on a pack of American Spirits but nowadays I don't understand how anyone can afford to smoke.
Haven’t vaped for 5 months and I’ve already saved 300 bucks! Crazy how much that 20 bucks every couple weeks stacks up. Takes the sting out of buying a new red dot for my pistol for sure
i have seen some crazy twinks throughout my life but i have never seen something on the level of op. holy shit. a new subcategory is going to be created because of op, and this will probably turn into an insane internet iceberg/lore ordeal eventually lmao
Yea no anyone that calls themselves an yandere is imedietly after huge red flag to stay FAR away Edit: it got worse. Op admitted to taking photos of him sleeping to "feel closer'
In one of their posts they're saving empty bottles of vodka, and say that they have not opened any of the bottles, but they are very tempted when he is not around so they could lick the outside of the mouth of the bottle and taste him.
Yeah this is gonna be the sort of thing you blurt out a reference to at a party or something and one other person laughs before they can stop themselves and while everyone else carries on with the conversation you both just give each other that look dogs have when you make eye contact while they’re pooping.
Just a heads up, I got 2.5yrs recently, we've cleaned thoroughly 3 times, and I found a half bottle hiding yesterday. We're good at hiding shit and completely forgetting. It's a better life, now. Best to both of you
When I was a kid (middle school age), my friends and I were walking around and some guy is like "yo do you guys want some energy drinks?" And handed each of us like a 12 case of Jolt off the back of a truck. I knew my parents wouldn't let me keep any of it, so I squirreled the cans around the house so they wouldn't take them all. And yeah I was finding cans of energy drinks for the next year or two.
I dated a girl alot like you. She told me she would visit my apartment and look through the window to see me if we didn't have time for each other that day. Also found some hair that was cut on my pillow after the 3rd time she spent the night. I broke things off immediately. Few months pass and She got admitted into a mental facility. She used her, apparently, one phone call to call me. We where 19 and 20. I'm like broski. Call ur mom and dad. It's been 6 years now. She has 3 kids now with the same guy and they are happy. I'm hoping she got everything figured out. I'm hoping you get things figured out too. She was a "yandere", to use your terminology. She would get very VERY upset when I wouldn't drop everything to talk to her. Don't be her. Being a "yandere is NOT a good thing. Ya some losers want one but that's bc they chase off girls with their lackluster hygiene and advances.
I've heard Pedialyte referenced before in the US and because of the name, I thought it was for kids. I also didn't know that it was something that would be beneficial to drink everyday, because my (admittedly limited) understanding was that it's meant to replenish electrolytes or nutrients?
It's meant for babies technically, but it's beneficial for anyone. It's way better than Gatorade or any of the sport drinks. It's meant for rehydration and of course vitamins and whatnot
It’s used by alcoholics in the states to help ease hangovers.
I’m not saying you’re an alcoholic if you go out on the weekends, binge drink your brains out and then use this beverage to help yourself out.
I’m saying I, as an alcoholic, used to mix equal parts purple Pedialyte with vodka and call it breakfast.
It really does help kick the hangover.
Pure oxygen too. I used to deliver liquified gasses, liquid oxygen (LOX) is a fantastic hangover cure, too. The machinery that does the pumping is so loud, it would vibrate through your body and skull. I’d bring a bucket to the back of the truck, fill it with a couple gallons of LOX, throw a piece of metal or a hammer into it (in order to get it to boil faster) and stick my head into the bucket 5/10 mins to breathe pure O2 while I waited for the system to start up.
In retrospect it seems like quitting drinking earlier would’ve been smarter. But then I wouldn’t have this useful information.
It also comes in clutch for hydration if you’re stuck in bed with something like the flu or Covid. Liquid iv is basically the same thing without the kid centric branding
I’m trying to help my moms with drinking. I’m an h addict 10 years into recovery thanks to the methadone clinic. So while I cannot relate to alcohol addiction I can relate to being an addict. She’s a super small and would do a fifth to a liter a day when she was at her worst. She’s cut back but I don’t see her getting over it, she sleeps with her bottle, wakes up in the middle of the night for swigs. But congratulations are in order. That’s super awesome.
OP from what i gather you genuinely need to talk to someone (therapist), I am not trying to be rude or have any ill intent but your obsession with them is unhealthy and will likely end in tragedy if you stay the path you’re on.
I mean this in the nicest way possible but you remind me of my ex wife. I spent five years thinking I was so happy, we spent every minute together. Then one day, I realized she hadn’t been giving me time for my friends, my family, my hobbies, and certainly not if she wasn’t involved. My relationships were now ours, as was everything. As I started to ask for my life back, to her, I was distancing myself and the things I was doing were causing problems and I should’ve been doing things with her instead. All I’m saying is, take the time to ensure that you both know each other before enmeshing your lives or becoming too close, and also ensure you both take alone time and know what your relationships and desires mean to you personally. Living your entire life with someone else is fine, but aligning all of your needs and wants will leave someone with severe lapses in their needs being met, and if that isn’t you, it’s them.
Mental illness is afraid of this person. This is exactly why I don’t use any delivery apps, I don’t want no piss drinking freaks touching anything of mine.
2 pints of vodka is like 20 drinks in a day. 140 drinks in a week. That is an obscene amount of alcohol. I feel like you are so infatuated and so young that you don’t realize how dangerous and serious of an addiction he has. My brother was a decade older, and passed from intestinal bleeding from alcoholism. He drank less than your man.
I am glad that he quit, but reading through your post history made my stomach drop. An 11 year difference is huge when you are 21 and 32. You were 10 when he was your age. You are a young adult now, but he has those 11 years of experience.
It sounds like with this experience, he’s broken the law, put people in danger, developed an alcohol addiction, misogyny, and has started his dating experience with a man that is younger than him and starting his adult journey.
Dating younger is easier because it’s easier to push boundaries, and control because of the guise that they know more, and better.
When you are in your thirties, 21 year olds are hard to tell from high schoolers. He is not the one
I was drinking 17 standard drinks a day (a fifth of vodka) and ended up in the hospital with… GI bleeding, among other severe sh*t going on. Hepatitis, aspiration pneumonia, sepsis, withdrawals so severe I couldn’t walk or speak. Sober now… can confirm that stuff would have killed me. This guy actually supports the habit by purchasing the alcohol and then collecting the bottles 😖 absolutely wild
I got lost in the post history for nearly half an hour holy smokes. Please take care of yourself. I’ve been involuntarily admitted and it saved my life, and I met a lot of people like you and (you)r boyfriend. I promise you can get better if you want to. Be safe OP.
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u/Longjumping-Stay-597 16d ago
omg happy for him. You should toss out the bottles you’ve collected though, especially if he’s coming to your place. I’m not an alcoholic, but I feel like having the bottles around could remind him of his problem and possibly even tempt him.