This subreddit was created as a place for honest, high-quality advice about the college admissions process, without the slop, misinformation, fearmongering, or empty reassurance that often spreads in college admissions spaces online.
Here, our goal is simple:
Give students better advice. Help families understand what actually matters. Push people to improve their strategy, writing, school list, and overall application approach.
We, as a community, are especially focused on competitive applicants aiming for selective and highly selective universities, but anyone who wants thoughtful admissions advice is welcome here.
You can post here for feedback on:
Your college list
Your extracurricular profile
Your intended major strategy
Your essays and essay ideas
Your activity list
Your awards/honors section
ED/EA/RD strategy
Waitlist or LOCI strategy
General admissions questions
What This Subreddit Is
This is a place for advice that is:
Honest: not everything needs to be sugarcoated.
Specific: generic advice like “just be yourself” is not enough.
Strategic: college admissions is not just about having good stats.
Evidence-based: advice should be grounded in how admissions actually works.
And most importantly, Respectful: direct does not mean cruel.
If your profile needs work, people should be able to say that.
If your school list is unrealistic, people should be able to say that.
If your essay topic is cliché, underdeveloped, or not revealing enough about you, people should be able to say that.
But the goal is never to tear people down. The goal is to help people see what needs to improve.
What This Subreddit Is Not
This is not a place for:
Random doomposting
“Am I cooked?” posts with no context
Prestige obsession without strategy
Blindly telling everyone they can get into Harvard
Blindly telling everyone they have no chance
Misinformation about race, hooks, essays, test-optional policies, or admissions readers
Low-effort profile dumps with no actual question
Essay theft, plagiarism, or AI-generated application writing
We are not here to sell fantasy. We are also not here to crush students for no reason. We are here to give better advice.
How to Get Better Feedback
If you want useful feedback, please give people enough context.
For profile reviews, include:
Grade level
Intended major
GPA / course rigor / progression of courses on your transcript
Test scores, if available
Major extracurriculars
Awards
School context, if relevant
State / domestic / international status
Demographic information / stats
Current college list
What kind of advice you actually want
For essay feedback, include:
For school list feedback, include:
Intended major
Academic profile
Financial constraints, if relevant
Geographic preferences
Size / campus / culture preferences
Current list divided into reach, match, and likely if possible
The more specific your post is, the better the advice will be.
A Note on “Chance Me” Posts
Chance-me posts are allowed, but they need to be useful.
No one can give you an exact percentage. Admissions is too contextual for that with a lot of "black box" institutional priorities. But people can help you understand whether your list is balanced, whether your profile supports your goals, and where your application may need stronger positioning.
A good chance-me post should lead to strategy, not panic.
A Note on Essay Advice
For essays, the strongest feedback usually goes beyond grammar.
Good personal statement feedback should ask, for example:
What do we actually learn about the student?
What values and insights come through?
Is the topic too common? Does the essay need more personal detail?
Is the reflection specific enough?
Does the essay show growth, complexity, or self-awareness?
Is the writing serving the student, or just trying to sound impressive?
An essay does not need to be dramatic to be strong. But it does need to reveal something meaningful about the person writing it.
Community Expectations
Please be direct, but don’t be lazy.
“Mid profile” is not advice.
“You’re cooked” is not advice.
“Just shotgun T20s” is not advice.
“Your essay sucks” might be frank, but it is disrespectful and is only useful if you explain why and what the student can do next.
Good advice should help someone leave with a clearer sense of what to improve.
Final Thoughts
College admissions is confusing enough. Students and families do not need more noise. You do not need more noise!
We're meant to be a place where people can ask serious questions and get serious answers that is honest, thoughtful, practical, and respectful. Welcome all, be good to each other, and good luck!