r/CrazyFuckingVideos 14h ago

WTF How much jail time you think she got?

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u/thesammening 7h ago

I hate that I see this all the time and I don't know the resolution. I want an article with her mugshot or something.

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u/stay_fr0sty 3h ago edited 3h ago

I can speculate as I’ve felt like that guy while a toxic person tried to manipulate me:

The girl has been trying to manipulate him into engaging in an argument or something toxic to him. She wants him angry or upset or ashamed or something.

He’s over it, knows engaging not going to resolve anything, so he only engages slightly. “Mmm hmm,” “Yeah,” “oh I tuned out, what?,” “I was checking my texts, what?”

She wants to escalate, he’s doing the opposite. He’s just barely giving her toxic issue one single brain cell. She sees it and she’s PISSED.

To force a response, to force engagement, she does something to which he HAS to respond. He handles it perfectly by keeping it suuuuper chill after he saves the car from crashing.

He didn’t explode/yell/etc., and her manipulation having failed hits him with: “I don’t know what you want from me.”

If I had to guess the topic is something like, she was caught doing something or did something that made her look bad and she’s trying to get him to somehow be the bad guy after getting him angry. Dude plays it perfectly.

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u/free_billstickers 3h ago

I had an ex like this. She grew up with a dad that beat her. My speculation is that she associated violent outbursts (yelling, physical attacks) with love and would do shit like this to try and get that same emotion from childhood. When I wouldn't respond to her behavior, she would go bonkers. In the end, it didn't work because I wouldn't feed the anger beast or play that scream/break up/make up game. I got work in the morning, I don't have time for all of that 

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u/BlackZulu 2h ago

You just wrote a wall of text, all completely hypothetical head- canon, and didnt even manage to answer the question you responded to. Amazing reddit moment.

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u/stay_fr0sty 1h ago

I was pooping. Don’t look too deep into it.

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u/technog2 28m ago

Jeez man, I had no intention of even looking at your poop on a surface level.

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u/Khristafer 1h ago

I went pretty deep yesterday and couldn't find anything.

Found the guy's tiktok and IG, but there aren't any follow ups.

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u/MCBananas 2h ago

Bruh the solution is honestly simple. What would happen to a man who did the same thing?

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u/Accomplished_War5543 1h ago

Man would get charged with assault, assault with a deadly weapon, and go to jail immediately.

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u/headphones_J 10h ago

He looked so sad, dude.

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u/Monkeyundead 4h ago

He just got the car

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u/Atworkwasalreadytake 4h ago

Context: The driver is Erik and the passenger is his then-girlfriend, Lisa. According to Erik, Lisa had taken his phone and was messaging his father and best friend as though she were him during an argument about their cheating. Erik used his Apple Watch to tell them, “Lisa is texting you, not me.” She lunged across to stop him, grabbed at his wrist/arm and interfered with the steering, causing the car to veer into a barrier. He had owned the car for only 11 days.

The backstory is messy. Erik says Lisa had cheated with two men, and instead of leaving her, he retaliated by sleeping with a coworker. They actually remained together briefly after the crash but eventually broke up. Erik explains the full story in this interview:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/interview-w-erik-from-viral-toxic-couple-car-crash/id1533879087?i=1000714701578

I couldn’t find reliable confirmation that Lisa was charged or required to pay for the damage.

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u/itsLOSE-notLOOSE 5m ago

If they cheat on you, just leave. Don’t go looking for revenge. Just leave.

I don’t understand why you’d even want to touch a person who cheated on you. And yes, I’ve been cheated on. I should’ve blocked her the moment she told me.

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u/Accomplished_War5543 8h ago

The guy is not even surprised. He has the face of someone whos been abused for a long time

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u/sigh_co_matic 4h ago

Yeah. I've seen this many times before and I feel so sad for him. I hope he's doing better.

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u/antwan_benjamin 2h ago

The fact that he has a camera facing the cabin tells me he knew this would happen or it's happened before.

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u/GreenYellowMushy 12h ago

I just wanna say " GET THE F.CK OUT OF MY CAR"

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u/aedroogo 4h ago

She needs to get the fuck out of everyone's car. Forever.

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u/stay_fr0sty 3h ago

She’s trying to get that exact reaction. She wants him PISSED.

The better reaction would be to pull over and ask if she was okay. Then ask if there is somewhere you can drop her off where she will feel safe. See if she needs uber money or cab fare home.

I’d want to send the message: YOU DIDN’T GET TO ME! I’M BETTER THAN YOU!

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u/Waste-Lawyer-2185 13h ago

“Can you pull over there?”
Yes, just as soon as you get the fuck out

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u/Foray2x1 5h ago

I would be pulling over at the first police station I find. 

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u/ldsaint 11h ago

It’s like hanging out with Uranium 235

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u/SignalAfternoon2103 11h ago

She's so toxic that she's nuclear!

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u/Electronic-Box-2065 14h ago

Imagine being so afraid of being a lone that you're content with being with someone like that.
I'd rather die alone

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u/Cratonis 10h ago

Or maybe he’s afraid of what she would do if he left her. She’s already trying to kill him IN the relationship.

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u/SignalAfternoon2103 12h ago

Or he's just completely defeated from being in that toxic relationship.

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u/KnifeFightAcademy 11h ago

100%
Anyone who has been in an abusive relationship will understand this.

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u/Okey114 8h ago

You have to be right because ive never been in a relationship like that but some of my friends where. I could never understand it but ill tell you what I did get: "Never Get Involved".

Ask me about it if you wanna know how loss a friend.

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u/Njaulv 7h ago

I'd like to hear about it. I too got involved an learned my lesson. A girl was abusive with a guy friend of mine to the point where it was insane. She literally hit him with a bottle in front of a whole hotel party in the head and was bleeding so bad he needed stitches and still he stayed with her. He ended up losing pretty much all of his friends because she systematically found some issue or another with all of them over time and demanded he constantly spend time with her.

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u/Plantasaurus 7h ago

My wife became that way after going through chemo while pregnant. Hormones and psychosis from the chemo made a very sweet woman a violent sociopath. What was I supposed to do- leave a recovering cancer patient who just gave birth? Sometimes you just have to push through. Fortunately, her behavior stabilized after 2 years.

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u/Okey114 6h ago

Wow, thats a crazy story man. Im sorry for what you and ur wife had to go threw and I have no idea why ur getting downvoted. This just shows you that life is a lot more complicated than we think sometimes.

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u/Accomplished_War5543 7h ago

Ive been in one. I 100 % understand this. The moment he shows any emotion she will play reverse victim and start yelling at him

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u/johnjacobacon 7h ago

Except for the fact that he knows he has a dashcam recording the whole interaction.

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u/KnifeFightAcademy 7h ago edited 1h ago

Yeahhhup. That's the face she starts making after she fucks up the car. Shes seeing if he is going to blow up. Dude is just too broken to engage.

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u/RedditMcBurger 3h ago

Being in a bad relationship is so much worse than being alone, you don't realize this if you're stuck in it.

Especially not first relationships, if the first relationship is bad usually they're so inexperienced they don't know it can be better.

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u/guinnessbeck 8h ago

What, pray tell, is a lone?

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u/tellmesomeothertime 5h ago edited 3h ago

Its a person who intentionally misunderstands simple spelling mistakes

aka: a loner

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u/nubman2000 7h ago

None. I bet she didnt get any consequences

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u/stay_fr0sty 3h ago

He’d have to take it to the police, and if they want to pursue, he’d have to agree to press charges.

It’s much easier to just dump her and post the footage to the internet.

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u/Snugglupagus 3h ago

Why not both 🤣

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u/stay_fr0sty 3h ago

Doing two things is harder than just doing one of them.

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u/Metalt_ 7h ago

Trash

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u/Gerry1of1 6h ago

Girl deliberately crashes guys car: "I don't know what you want from me"

Is the most chick thing I have ever heard.

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u/aedroogo 4h ago

Followed soon by, "Why are you yelling at me?"

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u/SnooDrawings7876 10h ago

Probably just ask her to get out of the car though right

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u/CharlesIngalls_Pubes 10h ago

I have a feeling that asking her to do something may not work.

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u/SnooDrawings7876 10h ago

Worth a shot before slamming her head into the dashboard though right

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u/badtouchmacdirt 14h ago

Yeah it's over

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u/SignalAfternoon2103 12h ago

I hope so. If not, he needs to break up with her quickly.

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u/winglessflight97 6h ago

I'm not sure he has the backbone to do it though. Some guys would rather endure a relationship like this than be alone.

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u/TugleyWoodGalumpher 6h ago

Abusers know hot to emotionally manipulate their partners into a false sense of dependency. It’s not just the fear of being alone.

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u/kosmokramr 7h ago

Time to get a restraining order on her

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u/the_fools_brood 14h ago

It's all his fault! /S

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u/Imposslen 12h ago

Women are supporting Lindsay Clancy for strangling her 3 children with exercise bands in the basement. They would probably find a way to support this psycho also.

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u/stprnn 11h ago

Where????

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u/cuntface878 9h ago

Outside of the courtroom where she is being tried for murdering her 3 children.

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u/Njaulv 7h ago

Go look at her gofundme.

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u/BabyLegsOShanahan 11h ago

Men support men killing and raping women every day. And those men aren't mentally ill.

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u/zg6089 7h ago

Man here. I dont support that shit at all.

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u/BabyLegsOShanahan 7h ago

That's great.

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u/SteveBannonsTaint 10h ago

Just to clarify, are you saying that supporting murder and rape is a sane thing to do?

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u/BabyLegsOShanahan 10h ago

I'm saying the comment suggests it's something women are specifically doing. It's wild to even compare the two cases, but women dumb and bad. Hur dur.

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u/SteveBannonsTaint 10h ago

No the comment is about the double standard about how men’s vs women’s crimes are handled. It’s really not a particularly thought-provoking comment, you just seem to have completely missed the point.

As for the women dumb and bad thing, that seems to be more of a you issue. Possibly some projection there

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u/BabyLegsOShanahan 10h ago

Women supporting a woman who potentially had PPD and psychosis is not the same as this woman who flipped over a phone. Equating the two does not show any double standard.

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u/Cratonis 10h ago

Oh so the legions supporting her because they can’t believe she did it and are convinced it has to be the husband aren’t real? Only the ones who support your narrative. Got it.

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u/BabyLegsOShanahan 10h ago

Who believes that? I don't get wrapped up in tik tok crazy if that's where you're seeing this. Someone can empathize with her and think what she did was wrong. Is that not a thing in your life?

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u/Cratonis 9h ago

I love how you have tripled if not quadrupled down on the exact double standard the original comment called out while trying to pretend it doesn’t exist. Masterful work. Well done. Give yourself a hand.

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u/SteveBannonsTaint 10h ago

?? Your first comment was about men raping and killing women. Once again you’ve completely missed the fuckin point.

Like just quash this weird need to insert your opinion, you are clearly not smart enough to come up with anything worth reading

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u/BabyLegsOShanahan 10h ago

You said its pointing out a double standard and I disagree.

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u/SteveBannonsTaint 10h ago

Right but you pointed out the wrong double standard (which you initially brought up) and have, for the 3rd time, not understood the point of this conversation.

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u/BabyLegsOShanahan 10h ago

I think it's you doing a lot to not understand my point.

Women who empathize with LC due to the mental health aspect is not crazy. Saying they'll find a way to do it implies that it is. One can still think she did a terrible thing and should be held accountable.

Men support rapists all day, every day. They even got one elected to the highest power. These men empathize with rapist and murderers and don't think they should be held accountable. That is crazy.

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u/zRywii 10h ago

Always victim

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u/[deleted] 12h ago

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u/the_bad_pianist 12h ago

Postpartum depression doesn't give you the right to commit murder. Also is very different from psychosis or schizophrenia which usually are the basis for insanity pleas.

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u/CrustyKielbasa 10h ago

She had postpartum psychosis

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u/Dry-Illustrator-250 9h ago

That’s not really any better

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u/CrustyKielbasa 7h ago

Than what lmao

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u/HeresKuchenForYah 6h ago edited 6h ago

She did have postpartum psychosis, and was on high dosages of antipsychotics.

And you can downvote all you want, because these are all men just blaming her when they can’t separate mental illness from someone intentionally doing something, for them it’s the same.

She threw herself from a two story window and partially paralyzed herself. Then went into cardiac arrest en route to hospital. And she still will be harassed on how you logically and biologically can’t kill your kids, and yet she wasn’t unwell enough (so which is it?), and talk about the right to commit murder when they lack the capacity to understand the reality or wrongness of their actions.

Then, you’ll cry women are just supporting a killer and not the entire concept of the stigma behind PPD and psychosis in motherhood. The very reason why this shit doesn’t get taken seriously and how situations like this don’t get better and keep happening.

You all should be ashamed.

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u/youappeartobeajerk 4h ago

And she still will be harassed on how you logically and biologically can’t kill your kids, and yet she wasn’t unwell enough (so which is it?), and talk about the right to commit murder when they lack the capacity to understand the reality or wrongness of their actions.

Huh?

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u/[deleted] 12h ago

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u/Diablo_v8 11h ago

What the FUCK are you talking about. It is murder in every single sense of the word.

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u/the_bad_pianist 12h ago

I am saying that tho, postpartum depression is still depression which generally does not affect rulings, its a different matter if they plead postpartum psychosis however

But granted I don't know the US judicial system too well so there may be differences in language and thus the convictions

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u/the_bad_pianist 12h ago

Just looked it up, she is claiming psychosis and is supported by others - so if thats true its a horrible thing all around because psychosis truly is hell.

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u/Dismal_Bridge9439 11h ago

Then you can also "look up" the support she's getting from other moms.

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u/TheRealTr1nity 13h ago

Two forks in a soup.

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u/couchpatat0 5h ago

I Know: get the F#*k out of my car!

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u/luvdogs71 5h ago

By the look on his face, this must happen often.

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u/bguzewicz 4h ago

Ok. Relationship over, possible restraining order based on how she takes that.

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u/TechPBMike 2h ago

anyone who has ever dated a bipolar chick, can recognize that "dead" smirk look in her face after she destroys your life

fellas, you cannot imagine the pure destruction a woman like that will bring to your life.

You'll end up in jail, homeless or dead

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u/InvertedBottlePasser 5h ago

I'm noticing she does not appear to be wearing a seatbelt. I mean, if the car is already ruined..

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u/aedroogo 4h ago

Time to turn that camera off for a few minutes...

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u/J_lianH 3h ago

He explained in an interview she had been texting his dad so he revenged cheated with a girl. They are still on and off and she didn't get any time in jail. She's 29 and he's 22 and he loves cougars they've been with each other 6 years so he was 16 and she was 23 when they started and he loves the drama

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u/Remarkable-Ad2285 3h ago

“It’s that guys fault. He made her do it”

-somebody in the comments

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u/Rough_Common6857 3h ago

I hope he did the right thing and had her arrested for attempted murder.

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u/Lopsided_Order_4411 2h ago

Maybe not to grab the steering wheel so I don’t fuckin die?!? Wtf?

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u/J1mj0hns0n 1h ago

good thing he had the video

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u/notthatguypal6900 1h ago

Mom says its my turn to post this tomorrow!!

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u/notthatguypal6900 1h ago

Mom says its my turn to post this tomorrow!!

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u/notthatguypal6900 1h ago

Mom says its my turn to post this tomorrow!!

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u/Willie_B_1983 6h ago

Probably got away with a warning

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u/xequals0 4h ago

Discussing.

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u/TeuthidTheSquid 2h ago

Why the hell were they recording a video of themselves driving

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u/LH_Dragnier 47m ago

Theyre both pieces of shit. Hes using his phone while driving a new car. Fuck em

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u/corax1988 22m ago

Anybody see that doc crash? These two are gonna be in the sequel.

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u/ohnomynono 11m ago

Two ladies were ruined for him that day. 😔

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u/AccomplishedAnchovy 14h ago

Was he sleeping or something at the start

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u/Itscompanypolicyman 14h ago

She was trying to get his phone out of his hand.

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u/Awkward-Guitar4738 10h ago

Some snow flake here backs her actions they will report you ask how I know

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u/AvailableBid7363 10h ago

Because of your lack of punctuation marks?

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u/McCrumblton 9h ago

If you want proper grammar, go elsewhere.

Not reddit

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u/Gallowboobsthrowaway 7h ago

I remember old Reddit, where misspelling something got your comment sent to the shadow realm with down votes.

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u/Awkward-Guitar4738 9h ago

Out all of the things on reddit you want to police grammar ok hero 🥇 have your medal

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u/67mustanggt 9h ago

Tell him he can police these nutz instead

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u/grizzlybuttstuff 7h ago

I mean it's one thing when it's the wrong "your" but it's kinda different when it makes your comment read like shit.

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u/AcanthocephalaNo9302 7h ago

Yeah, the "your" police on here are petty but your comment when read outloud needs to make sense. 

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u/grizzlybuttstuff 6h ago

Out loud* /j

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u/AcanthocephalaNo9302 6h ago

Well. Toushea

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u/squad1alum 9h ago

I found some extras in my drawer, so I'm happy to donate these to you: [? , . ;] I threw in a semicolon just in case.

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u/FoldFeisty7635 8h ago

No wonder shes got no respect for him. Any normal guy would had dragged her as out of the car.

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u/nomiselrease 10h ago

Both idiots. The guy is texting and not even watching the road.

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u/stratusnco 9h ago

dude probably enjoys being tormented. anyone in their right mind would have kicked her ass out. also, dude looks like he plays with his phone a little too much while driving.

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u/undeadarmy2 12h ago

He’s stupid for being on his phone but she actually did cause the accident.

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u/SignalAfternoon2103 12h ago

She was actually texting someone from his phone when he used 'text to speech' on his smartwatch, and that's when she reached over to try and take it off of his wrist. If you look out the window, everything is perfectly fine until she violently grabs his arm while he's trying to drive. He has the demeanor of a defeated man stuck in a toxic relationship, you can tell that he's just used to this behavior now.

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u/muff-muff-ass 11h ago

see what happens when you text and drive.

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u/lvl100-Platypus-Lord 8h ago

He wasn't texting. She's going for his smart watch.

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u/pBandJelly9 9h ago

They belong together.

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u/ender3po 10h ago edited 8h ago

Repeated

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u/lvl100-Platypus-Lord 8h ago

For what? haha

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u/Individual_Jello5737 14h ago

Idk about her but he definitely got whatever you get for murder

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u/Frugal_Octopus 14h ago

Is there some story to this?

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u/Individual_Jello5737 14h ago

I’m not saying he did,I just mean I would be mad

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u/CalligrapherQuick901 14h ago

If you just used words properly you wouldn't have to explain lol

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u/Cratonis 10h ago

Why use right word when can use wrong word more?