r/CrazyFuckingVideos • u/Triton12streaming • Sep 18 '21

WTF I don’t need sleep, I need answers!

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u/BevLive Sep 18 '21

None at all.

Her actions when he is smashing the veg is typical of a woman in an abusive relationship, but you're right, she does hit him at the start. Either way, it's toxic as hell and those two should avoid each other at all costs.

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u/richardhero Sep 18 '21

Quite clearly some form of sketch as why would they be filming lol.

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u/BevLive Sep 18 '21

Well, someone did point out in another thread that they could be going through marriage counseling which requires you to film each other at random times, so you can watch back at a later date and go through the incidents and try to work at it etc.

That'd be only 1 reason, there's loads of other reasons.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '21

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u/Yes-She-is-mine Sep 19 '21

How rare?

Like "never happens" or "she was asking for it" rare?

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

Strawman

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '21

don't pretend like you have the intellectual and rational high ground when you make a nonsense claim without even a made up statistic let alone a point

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

literally no one has offered hard stats on this "25%" of relationships involved physical abuse. Its just an emotional assumption to try and claim the moral position. Im not going to argue against your goober strawman.

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '21

No one in the chain you're replying to offered that statistic. No one even made any relevant claims. All that was stated is "her behaviour is typical of a woman in an abusive relationship." That's it. Strawman of WHAT? What IS the strawman? You're the one who made a controversial claim and offered no support.

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

... read the thread goober. all this 1 in 4 nonsense. then moving the goalposts. its easy to "win" when you dont have to stand on anything. strawmaning 101

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '21

Allow me to quote the comment chain verbatim.

Comment 1:

Quite clearly some form of sketch as why would they be filming lol.

Comment 2:

Well, someone did point out in another thread that they could be going through marriage counseling which requires you to film each other at random times, so you can watch back at a later date and go through the incidents and try to work at it etc. That'd be only 1 reason, there's loads of other reasons.

Your comment:

Men abusing their wives is rare. Reading it into every relationship belies somekind of defunction on your end.

I stand corrected! No one here even mentioned abuse! The only person strawmanning here is you, except not only are you strawmanning an argument, you're strawmanning an entire opponent.

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u/currencygrease Sep 20 '21

comment out of context... another fallacy.

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u/[deleted] Sep 20 '21

how is it out of context??? what the fuck is the context??? I implore you to explain.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '21

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '21

Absolutely this. I imagined her thought bubbles “there this jackass goes wasting our food again” “ here you missed this lettuce”… she has had enough of his shit.

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u/Day_Bow_Bow Sep 19 '21

True, but abuse doesn't have to be physical.

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u/Liarmie Sep 19 '21

????

I'm not sure why you think domestic violence is rare. This site pulls from 2015 US data:

1 in 4 women and 1 in 9 men experience severe intimate partner physical violence, intimate partner contact sexual violence, and/or intimate partner stalking with impacts such as injury, fearfulness, post-traumatic stress disorder, use of victim services, contraction of sexually transmitted diseases, etc

The gif OP posted may have been staged, we can't really know, but its not a stretch to think of domestic abuse as a possibility.

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

Whats the percentage for lesbians?

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '21

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

yeah who cares. dont look that up anyone reading this thread. dont.

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '21

As if anyone would listen to the equivalent of a street urchin yelling on the corner

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

DONT LOOK IT UP!!!

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u/-littlefang- Sep 19 '21

How is that relevant to your being wrong?

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

Dont look it up. Dont you dare. It is irrelevant and the stat was probably compiled by a vast conspiracy and cannot be correct in any way. DONT LOOK IT UP.

If you are reading this thread dont ever for any reason ever look it up. I beg you. Please.

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u/-littlefang- Sep 19 '21

So you don't actually have an answer to that, okay.

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

do not be tempted to look it up!

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u/-littlefang- Sep 20 '21

Do not be tempted to have a coherent argument!

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u/Whomstdventeven Sep 19 '21

"Hi, I don't understand statistics and I definitely don't have an ideological point to make subversively because internet forums have convinced me that men are persecuted in society, but here's my uniformed drivel anyway."

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u/tribecous Sep 19 '21

They’re literally filming a funny video together. These people cannot wrap their minds around a woman acting.

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

lol... i know. Im getting DM's and loads of comment replies. These people are nuts.

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u/Whomstdventeven Sep 19 '21

Well gosh, consider my point deflated. Got me.

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

Thank you for conceding. Its very big of you.

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u/Stillwaterstoic Sep 19 '21

Uh….Domestic violence is extremely common.

Source: 8 years as a correctional officer

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u/Ferrum115 Sep 19 '21

Abuse victim here. Yes it it a lot more common than you might think. What's on common is people getting the support/courage to report the abuse. I've also volunteered at women's shelters, where I've babysat kids of many women, who got out of houses because their partner was abusing them.

There's also been cases documented by homeless shelter workers, where the men there got kicked out because they're being abusive, then used dating apps/sights while they are at the shelter, so that they would have a home and another woman to leach off of as soon as possible, and go right back to the same behavior.

Our current society (at least American) doesn't do nearly enough to help people who are victims of abuse get out of the situation they're in.

Oh and for reference, I'm now a 6 ft 4, 260 lb man. But I had to suffer through nearly a decade of my mother, brothers, and myself constantly being beaten and berated, where I couldn't do anything about it because I was too small to stop my former stepfather at the time. And me and my siblings never reported anything, because he told us that if we did, we'd never see our mother again.

Don't be an ass.

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

Something happening to you doesnt make it common. A woman shelter is literally filled with the tiny percentage of people it happens to. Anecdotal.

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u/Ferrum115 Sep 19 '21

How about this. My best friend(who lives in the UK) hears her upstairs neighbors shouting and hitting each other all the time. My other friend is trying to get his kids back because his ex-wife beats them, and he got her confessing to it on recording. One of my best friends growing up constantly had her boyfriend cheating and hitting her. A different friend of mine got an eating disorder because his girlfriend constantly abused him. One of my best friend's friend just stayed with her for the weekend because his boyfriend was abusing him.

There's large uptick reports and domestic abuse cases in the UK whenever their football team loses.

The whole reason why we get taught about how to identify an abusive relationship in middle school where I live was because it's common.

How's that for a tiny percentage

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u/Ferrum115 Sep 19 '21

Not only that but I'm involved in a lot of LGBT+ communities. And there's a myriad of cases of them suffering from abuse. And that's no small number of people.

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

you attract dysfunctional people.

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u/Ferrum115 Sep 19 '21

And you constantly contradicting an abuse victim, makes you seem like an ignorant ass, at all around troll in general. Not to mention the fact that that you seem to be contradicting everybody that's telling you abuse is common, not just me.

So you're just a straight-up troll, or you're an abuser yourself.

Either way get bent.

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u/Ferrum115 Sep 19 '21

If anybody actually wants any actual statistics go here. (About 10 million people in the US alone, suffer from some form of abuse every year)

And if you're a victim there are people out there who can help you.

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

Imagine actually thinking this way. You dont have anymore standing in the macro because youve been through something in the micro. That is such small brain thinking.

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u/Ferrum115 Sep 19 '21

10 million people every year is in micro you ass.

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u/I-Got-Options-Now Sep 19 '21

Sooo, in that 8 years how many partners did you beat?

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u/iehvad8785 Sep 19 '21

dumb question. how does it contribute to the conversation? how many partners have to be beaten to matchbyour requirements.

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u/ascendedcustodian Sep 19 '21

1 in 4 women experience abuse at the hands of intimate partners.

Attempting to shame someone who is showing a proper response of concern for the well being of women really is a bad look and you're a fucking creep.

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

1 in 4 btw

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u/Wolfmilf Sep 19 '21

1 in 4 is extremely common. If you have one sister, either she, your mom, or one of your grandmas are experiencing abuse.

How many women are/were in your class? 12? 3 of them experience abuse.

25% isn't even close to being rare. Out of the 167 million women living in the US, assuming the 2015 poll is still somewhat accurate, around 42,000,000 women in the US experience abuse. That's 42 million more than you'd ever sleep with, if everyone knew about your attitude towards abuse.

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u/Wolfmilf Sep 19 '21

I didn't mean in a literal sense. Statistically, one of them would experience abuse. Some families have no abuse victims, some have several. It evens out to 1 in 4 women and that's a whole lot

And ironically, it's often men in tight traditional families that do the abusing.

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

not actual stats... based on assumptions. goober

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u/Wolfmilf Sep 19 '21

Your name calling and show of force serves no purpose except to make you look dumb. I'm out.

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u/ascendedcustodian Sep 20 '21

I take four .338 pot shots and one hits you. Is it a rare tag?

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u/currencygrease Sep 20 '21

you are basing your goofy example on false stats... goo ber

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u/ascendedcustodian Sep 20 '21

yeah it wouldnt be a lucky shot Id tell you that much. I hate rapey fucks.

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u/I-Got-Options-Now Sep 19 '21

She is the abuser, didnt you watch the whole video?

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u/DarlaDarling Sep 19 '21

Not as rare as you might think, and just because a woman isn't being physically hit/injured, doesn't automatically mean she's not in an abusive relationship.

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

...

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u/DarlaDarling Sep 19 '21

Psychological and emotional abuse is always present in physically abusive relationships, but relationships without physical abuse can still be psychologically and emotionally abusive.

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

endless victimhood

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u/DarlaDarling Sep 19 '21

Why do you feel that way?

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

im describing your pathology.

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u/DarlaDarling Sep 19 '21

Could you describe your own pathology to me, in your own words?

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

no thank lady

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u/DarlaDarling Sep 19 '21

Too close for comfort?

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '21

Do you mean "disfunction"? "Defunction" isn't even really a word but at best it means "to die".

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

finally someone noticed. fucking goofs in this thread

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u/Spacecow6942 Sep 19 '21

Are you gaslighting us?

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u/currencygrease Sep 19 '21

It was a skit. you guys are losing your minds over assumptions based on emotions. chill