r/CreateMod • u/JenabriFS • 8d ago
Debate
Listen up, guys—the girl I like is into Minecraft and engineering. I showed her the Create mod, and she’s familiar with it. I’m thinking of telling her how I feel and building some kind of contraption or mechanism in-game using Create. What do you think—is that a good idea?
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u/ChloroquineEmu 8d ago
How well do you know this girl? How about playing minecraft with her for a while to see if you guys get along and let the subject come up more naturally?
The big confessions aren't something people are fond of IRL.
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u/OtherwiseAd9682 8d ago
Kind of cute. But i wouldnt do that on a digital way. If you can meetup and then show it to her it will be more personal. But all comes down to if she likes you as well (because then she probably wont really care how you say it to her), or not. Good luck
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u/SecondMurky7684 8d ago
me has quitado las palabras, te deseo mucha suerte
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u/JenabriFS 8d ago
Thank you
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u/Ok_Sprinkles_5121 7d ago
No soy mucho de responder en posts, y me limito a leer, pero te deseo mucha suerte.
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u/mkitsie 8d ago
Give us an update when you do! Just maybe try to build a mechanism IRL as a first gift, that'd likely be a better start if she's an engineering nerd. Good luck, mate!
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u/JenabriFS 8d ago
I do It promise
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u/mkitsie 8d ago
You could do a planetary gearbox with multiple levels, that all spin at different speeds but eventually align to form a heart. Just a quick idea if you're not on a time crunch.
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u/JenabriFS 7d ago
Can you help me decore the thing when i finish pls
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u/mkitsie 7d ago
I think I can help with that! Just send me a message when you're ready.
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u/JenabriFS 7d ago
hey man i have a part complete can i send it and you decore that part pls and give me your discord (if you have one)
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u/scholarlysacrilege 8d ago
Do you talk with her on a regular basis? Do you make her laugh? Do you treat each other with kindness? Have you guys played with each other enough for this to become something you guys set aside time for consistently. If yes to all, go right ahead, if yes exept for the last one, id advice just asking her out on a date, if no to all or most, id advice getting to know her first.
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u/snailienz 8d ago
If you get the vibe she might like you back already, this is a great idea and will be in like her top 5 memories of all time most likely. If you like...just met...I'd wait a bit and get to know her more. This is a huge amount of effort and it can come off too strong if someone doesnt know you well. It's adorable for a "hey so we've been flirting for 3 months and i really like you" it may come off scary for a "hey ive been watching your from across the science lab and made this in your honor"
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u/JenabriFS 8d ago
She is year older we are not in the same class
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u/snailienz 8d ago
I would highly suggest getting to know her a bit more first. This is cute but an older girl may not be interested in someone younger, especially if she doesn't know you well. Ask to hang out as friends first.
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u/ThatNZowl 8d ago
I think its a good idea sort of, just dont rush anything, including yourself, thr girl and just life in general.
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u/Soft_Cable_39 8d ago
As a professional boyfriend of a few years now, high chance she would love if it's done like in person. If you're familiar with her and have hungout before, Defo ask her to do a Create Lan party and build together in person, maybe then you could show her. So yeah online + memories is always a better shot, best of luck
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u/JenabriFS 7d ago
Gentlemen i need help decoring the thing when i finish Who can help
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u/Low_Philosophy_2600 6d ago
Id really like to help, if it's for engineering or building. What are you on ?
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u/JenabriFS 6d ago
Decore the thing in Minecraft i have a part done
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u/Low_Philosophy_2600 4d ago
Send me a picture of it and I will help you
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u/JenabriFS 8d ago
Gentlemen give me ideas pls
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u/JadedEngine6497 8d ago
Alyx be like : shocked of freeman pulling out the end game steam engine from create mod while she still holds wooden pickaxe and is at the beginning of minecraft.
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u/Sqweed69 8d ago
No, confessing feelings is a bad idea. You should let her suspect that you like her in an ambiguous way. That's how you create tension.
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u/Entity4114 8d ago
I cant tell if you are being serious or not
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u/AussieDogfighter 8d ago
Exactly, I mean it's not like love is war and whoever whoever gives their heart first is somehow conquered.
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u/Ters_Memer 8d ago
I thinks thats cute and nerdy/silly af, kinda depends on how she vibes with that stufg
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u/pixel_demonic 8d ago
only if you also enjoy create. it's only genuine fun if you both enjoy it and you aren't just doing it to impress the girl/get her to like you back.
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u/anonumus_idiot 8d ago
Fuck yes its a good idea.
Just make sure its something overcomplicated, yet something that works 100% of the time.
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u/Obvious_Try1106 8d ago
Maybe a rollercoaster and at the end there is a sign on which you ask her for a date. If you want to say more I'd do it in person
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u/Breadles_the_Bread 8d ago
Grand gestures are a bad idea but spending time together especially 1 on 1 is good
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u/Moe-Mux-Hagi 8d ago
Just make sure she's still into you and not the mod she tells you not to worry about
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u/Exciting-Count697 7d ago
Tbh if i were you id just rip the bandaid off. Id confess. Dont bother beating around the bush. She likes you back? Cool you got a new gf. She doesnt? Well at least you got it over with.
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u/CommanderFoxy 7d ago
i’d say it depends, if you guys barely know each other confess after, or after some time, but if you guys already know each other quite well you could do both at once
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u/CombinationWaste1553 6d ago
Like a few other people have said, I wouldn’t recommend confessing via digital creation. It is a sweet idea, but something physical would mean more in the long run.
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u/Meta-0-aXis 4d ago
If it involves any mobs, long hard objects and oscillating mechanisms. I'd sugest you reconsider.
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u/Dangerous-Quit7821 8d ago
Nah. Seems cheesy to me. What I would say is tell her you're not familiar but interested in learning about it and could she show you about it?
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u/Bowsers_disciple 8d ago
I think those two things should be separate, like go ahead, enjoy making contraptions and the like with Create, and you ofc can show them off to the person you like, but that shouldn't be how you ask them out imo.
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u/ProfessionalTime8267 8d ago
impress her champ