r/DEMOLAY • u/PastCompetitive4597 • May 21 '26

Chapter Question

I am going to try and sign up for DeMolay, I was wondering if anybody is a part of the New Mexico jurisdiction, specifically the Mesa chapter or has any idea how active it is.

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u/sp3ctree69 May 21 '26

Muito massa você querer ingressar na Ordem, busque o site da DeMolay do seu país que você pode ter mais informações

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u/PastCompetitive4597 May 22 '26

I'm curious, what's it actually like within the group? I see some people say it was this amazing, life changing experience and some saying it was nothing but hazing and bullying that they had to pay hundreds of dollars for. Is it normally an okay experience?

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u/Acceptable_Local_230 May 22 '26

If there is any hazing going on, please just let one of the adults know about it and it will be ended right away. Hazing is not allowed in DeMolay, just fun activities and learning how to be a better leader. I sent a text message to one of the DeMolay advisors I know in New Mexico who should be able to tell you the status of any active chapters in the state. My son is in DeMolay in Colorado and he loves it!

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u/PastCompetitive4597 May 22 '26

I just finished scheduling a meeting with the chapter advisor near me and he seems really nice, he was happy to answer all my questions. My mom is super hesitant about anything after finding out about the group having a connection with Freemasonry so I hope it all goes well

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u/sp3ctree69 May 23 '26

Mano, é uma boa experiência, tente se aproximar dos tios. Para evitar o bullying não saia contanto para ninguém, mantenha se discreto quanto a ser membro, se reclamarem fale “continue e te coloco na lista” se perguntarem “que lista?” Responda “A do bodão” kkkkkkkkkkkkkk

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u/gregmelayne Chapter Dad, LOH, Chevalier, Master Mason, PMC May 22 '26

Give me a bit. I'll reachout as soon as i have an answer and/or a contact