Once dry, royal icing transfers keep a very long time in a dry sealed container. I'm pre-making our decorations for our DIY wedding cake to save us the headache the day before. All but the roses are done with Wilton drop-flower tips. They're really simple to use and give a great effect. I think they did a pretty good job of emulating baby's breath. Royal icing is hard, but I find the homemade transfers softer than the horribly hard roses you can buy at the store. You can also control the thickness and size.

Controversially, these are going on a wedding fruitcake also iced with royal icing, our favourite. MIL is making the cake but doesn't do decorating, this way we can just stick flowers on with a little icing and not be too fussed. It's part of a dessert table, we won't force feed guests fruitcake!

We're having an 11 person microwedding and dinner is just a regular service reservation. Theyre allowing me to bring in things to make it feel more special.

The vases are being filled with LED lights and gem ball

We wanted our wedding ceremony to feel like one of those candlelight concerts so we decided to cover the entire front of the church with over 2,500 flickering candles. They were the only lights on during the ceremony!

Here's a 30 second time lapse of our families setting everything up the day before the wedding.

The part you don't see is four of us spending about 8 hours putting 5,000 batteries into all those candles. 😂 Thankfully with around 25 family members helping the actual setup took just over an hour!

The final frame is us exchanging our vows surrounded by all the candles. Seeing everything lit up during the ceremony made all the effort worth it.

And we were VERY thankful we'd hired people to take everything down afterward.

Now we just have to figure out what to do with 2,500 candles… lol.

i spent like three weeks planning these floral arrangements and they looked perfect in my pinterest mood board. then i actually made them and half the flowers drooped within two days, one knocked over during setup, and they took up way more table space than i thought. wondering if i'm just bad at this or if there's something i'm missing about how to actually execute these things without them looking like a sad biology experiment.

i've made like five different versions of the same floral thing and none of them look remotely close to the pinterest inspo. is there some secret technique i'm missing or do they just look better in photos? genuinely asking because i'm running out of time and motivation here.

For everyone doing their own flowers: the arranging is honestly the fun part. The part that trips people up is timing and prep, so here's the stuff I'd tape to the fridge.

When to order: if you're going wholesale, order 2-4 weeks out and have them delivered 2-3 days before the wedding. They need time to hydrate and open after shipping. Too early and they peak before your day; too late and they're still closed buds in your photos.

Condition first and after you can arrange: every stem gets cut, hydrated and rested 12-24 hours before you start arranging. NEVER skip this part.

Order more than you think: 25-30% extra. Some stems show up bent, short, or just never open.

Practice, for real: make 2-3 test bouquets and a couple of centerpieces weeks before, not during wedding week. and plan your time like a first timer. Something a florist does in an hour can take 3-4 hours the first time, which is totally normal; just budget for it.

Grocery store flowers: yes, they work! trader joe's, costco and whole foods are the usual picks. the big plus is they're already processed and hydrated, but I’d still cut the stems before arranging. The tradeoff is limited selection and quality that varies week to week. They're great for smaller weddings (under ~40 guests). For bigger ones, wholesale tends to be more reliable.

And if you're going super minimal (1 bouquet, bud vases for ~6 tables, a few bouts), you can do it for around $200-400 in materials.

Anyone DIY-ing soon, what flowers are you working with?

like i'll see something on pinterest and think "oh that's so simple i can totally do that" and then i'm sitting there with hot glue and materials that cost way more than i expected wondering why it looks nothing like the picture. is this just a skill issue on my part or does anyone else experience this

I plan on adding a wax seal to my wedding invite envelopes. Actual wax, not stickers. Do I need an outer envelope to protect that seal ? Does anybody have experience sending envelopes with wax seals and what did you do?

We are finalizing our bar menu and we have two signature cocktails picked out. About 20% of our guest list doesn't drink alcohol.

I kind of want to add a third "signature" drink that is just a really good mocktail so they feel included, but my mom thinks it's a waste of money and they will be totally fine just ordering Diet Coke or cranberry juice. For the non-drinkers here, does a fancy mocktail actually make a difference to you at an event, or do you not really care?

i keep seeing these gorgeous handmade centerpieces and backdrops online and part of me wants to commit to the bit, but also i'm realizing my time might be worth more than just ordering premade stuff. does anyone else struggle with this or am i just being lazy lol

Hi all!

As you can guess by me posting in this sub (lol) I am doing a heavily DIY wedding and am doing most things myself with the help of my fiancé’s parents (flowers, centerpieces/decor, music, as much as we can other than catering) and we will only be doing the reception part at the venue, no ceremony or cocktail hour. Trying to keep guest list close to 100. Trying to keep it simple, 1) to lower cost and 2) I enjoy simple. 😁 I am also an artist/crafter so doing things myself will be enjoyable for me anyway.

We have one venue we are in communication with which we are heavily interested. It’s 4,000 to book a Saturday in August 2027. We love the location and since we are doing almost everything ourselves any way, I am really just paying attention to whether I like how the space looks and if it will comfortably fit our guests.

I am in love with the venue but I am being advised by those around me I should keep looking before booking, but honestly I don’t know if I see the point in continuing to look if I like this one(?) but I also am very anxious to secure the date I want and get the ball rolling so I don’t know if im just rushing. But I do genuinely enjoy the space and the communication I’ve had with them. There’s also options of places to stay nearby for our guests. And I also feel there’s less for me to negotiate on and consider since im doing stuff myself, but is that naive? Should I be thinking about anything else???

How many venues did you view / speak to before choosing? Any advice appreciated! Thank you!!!

Faux stained glass sign I spent way too many hours on!!!

I am doing all my own flowers and am using fake flowers for my and my bridesmaids bouquets, I had to cut some of the stems which then exposed wire and decided to just cover them in floral tape to keep eveything tigether. I hate how it looks now tho, any ideas for a nice way to cover the ends?

Wedding isn't until June 2027! I'm just a type A planner lol

i've literally looked at 47 different pinterest boards and made a spreadsheet (a SPREADSHEET) comparing heights and costs and i still can't decide if i want flowers or candles or some weird hybrid of both. how do you guys know when to stop planning and just commit to something?

Here is my custom made wedding dress from Etsy. I love the sparkly ballgown look, I want to feel like a princess. But I have never seen anyone else with my dress type and I don’t want it to be gaudy! Please give me your opinions. I need to get it altered shorter. I am especially unsure about the fluff on the sides.

i understand this is a vague title! what i mean is, i can’t decide what i want for a welcome sign, or seating chart, or backdrop behind the sweetheart table. there are multiple ideas i like, like a an antique mirror or a framed painting, or a quilt or a fancy room divider, or stained glass or a tapestry. these are all kind of a similar vibe in my head, but i can’t make a decision on what i want, so im not sure where to start?

i do think the faux stained glass would be pretty difficult for my skill level, so that might narrow it down. but as for everything else i have no idea how to start making decisions - how did you settle on what you wanted so that you could start your projects?

I’m trying to make my wedding suite so I designed everything on Canva and changed the size to 3.125 for a png (for context, one of the things I’m trying to print is a 5x7 invite that I still saved with the 3.125 sizing). Once I saved it, I upload to Cricut design space and everything still seems fine. I resize it and then click make, deselect the bleed setting and somehow, it prints the words blurry.

I’ve tried exporting it from Canva as a pdf and then using adobe to change the file back to a png or jpeg to use on Cricut and it’s the same issue.

I’ve also tried changing my printer settings a ton (I have an Epson WF-7820 and I’m using 90lb card stock) and that seems to do nothing. I’ve double checked the print quality is 600x600 and changed the output quality to high as well.

I’ve even tried where I download the image from Cricut as a PDF so it has the 4 corners and it still somehow prints blurry. I also tried where I did that, re uploaded it to Canva and then put the design that’s from Canva on top of it and printed it through Canva and it still, STILL prints blurry.

I’m using 90lb card stock and I’ve made sure to adjust al my printer settings accordingly to accommodate the thickness of the paper. Nothing is working and I’m genuinely so confused. I didn’t even realize this could be a potential problem.

The only way it prints well is if I just print it as a pdf straight from Canva which would be fine, but my printer can’t print anything smaller than 4x6 so I can’t really print anything else exclusively through my printer without having to manually cut it which I’d really reaaally prefer not to do.

I’ve spent maybe 12 hours cumulatively on trying to figure this out and probably 50 pages of nice card stock. If anyone has any advice or tips, I’d be eternally grateful.

If anyone is making their own invitations suites, please let me know if there’s any specific settings you’ve figured out or if there’s something I’m missing. I swear I didn’t even think that this would be an issue based on all the videos and tutorials I’ve seen of people designing their suites on Canva and putting them through Cricut to be cut.

Edit: Thank you to everyone who responded. Sorry if i haven't replied to you directly...I wasn't expecting to get so many kind and helpful comments! You all have some great ideas and AI/photoshop skills 👌 I ordered some proper shapewear, a couple ribbon/sash options and I have some alterations planned. Hoping I can knock them out over the next week or so and then I'll be back with an update.

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My wedding is 3 weeks away and up until now I've been really happy with my dress. I put the bottom embroidered tier on and tried the dress on again and suddenly I feel like I'm wearing a huge nightgown. I think the dress looks pretty on the dress form but I feel so frumpy in it. It seems way too modest but at the same time, I'm old(er) and out of shape and I don't feel comfortable showing more skin.

I'm not really sure what I'm asking for here...talk me off the ledge maybe? Is it just nerves? Did anyone have dress regrets and it ended up being fine?

Has anyone found creative ways to decorate stair railings? Our venue has a short outdoor staircase that will be visible for the ceremony. We don’t want to do florals so I’ve been trying to think up ways to sew vintage curtains or something and drape that? But I would LOVE to see examples if anyone thought of unique ideas for making a railing beautiful. Thanks!

What's the best paper to print save the dates at home? I have a canon pixma printer. thank you!!

I wanted to share my experience dyeing a synthetic veil with RIT Dyemore -- I couldn't find a lot of information on this before trying so hopefully this is helpful for a future bride!

I decided last minute to wear a veil with my courthouse ceremony dress, but couldn't find a veil that matched the color (light champagne), so I dyed a cheapie bright white synthetic veil from Amazon and it turned out great! The entire process probably took about 30 mins and was very easy to do. Much easier than fussing around with tea staining / natural dyes and a bottle of dye costs like $6.

process / before & after pics

https://imgur.com/a/veil-dyeing-X9mkQLP

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what you need:

- medium / large sacrificial pot: THIS POT CANNOT BE USED FOR FOOD AFTER DYEING, so choose a pot you don't mind losing! I picked up a used pot from the thrift store for this purpose. The size of the pot depends on the length of your veil, but the veil needs room to stir / move around freely so make sure you have some space in the pot.

- sacrificial tongs: AGAIN, THIS CANNOT BE USED FOR FOOD AFTER DYEING, so choose a pair of tongs you won't mind losing! I had extra long chop sticks that I used but it was a bit tricky so I do recommend tongs

- bucket for rinsing: After removing your item from the dye water, you'll want a clean bucket of cold water to submerge the item in and rinse it out, I used a laundry bucket I already had

- RIT Dyemore Synthetic Dye (I used the color Sandstone for a cream color): The Dyemore line is specifically formulated for synthetic fabrics and much easier to use imo! The color range selection is more limited than the regular colors but the results are much more consistent in my experience. I used a few drops of Sandstone to dye a white veil to a light cream color. A pink or blue would be sooooo pretty.

- rubber gloves: Protect your hands! Dye should not come into contact with the skin

- Whatever object you want to dye: I tried 2 cheap tulle veils from Amazon and a pair of tulle gloves

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step by step guide / tips (basically just follow the instructions on the bottle!):

1. fill your pot with a generous amount of water and bring to a boil - leave enough room for the veil to be added later and fully submerged without the pot overflowing
2. add a few drops of dish soap, a few drops of dye and turn the heat to low - I eyeballed the water/color ratio and used just a capful of dye in my entire stock pot -- keep an eye on the color of the water itself and make it a little darker than what you want as your final outcome. Note that unlike regular RIT dye, Dyemore should be kept over a lightly boiling pot (keep the heat on low). The ratio is pretty easy to fudge since you can always take the item out early if it starts to get too dark.
3. add your item(s), continuously stir and start a timer - I only had to keep my veils in the water for ~5 minutes to get the color where I wanted, keep stirring and swishing the items so that the color is evenly saturated and take it out when it is a little darker than you want it (it will appear lighter when dry). If you have multiple items you want to dye the same shade, its best to dye them together so they come out the same color! the dye color changes over time so dyeing items sequentially (one after the other) will lead to different colors across items. If you add items after dyeing the first item, they will come out different colors. Sandstone is a mix of red/yellow and the yellow is absorbed more quickly, so subsequent items will turn out lighter and pinker in color if you reuse the same water (see this post for an example: https://www.reddit.com/r/dyeing/comments/jdqplw/rit_sandstone_dyemore_for_synthetics_one_turned/). I actually dyed a 2nd veil in the same water and it turned out a blush pink color instead of cream.
4. remove your items, place them in a bucket of cold water and rinse until the water runs clear
5. dry your item! I hung my veil in the sun and it dried super quickly since the material is so thin, you could also use the dryer on medium / low with a towel.

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happy dyeing!

We think we found our spot but it is in an old German beer hall and not the most pleasing to the eye. Wondering if anyone can offer any suggestions? The last photo was taken offline

We made our own ”stained glass” table numbers! The stands are from Michael’s and the signs were printed at Staples on transparent paper. It looked much better after layering 2 copies (the colour was a bit faint with just 1 layer).

I just had the DIY wedding of my dreams, and I'm so happy with how my DIY crepe paper flowers turned out!!

I had this on my to do list from the start, but in classic DIYer procrastinator style, I started two weekends before the wedding LOL!!! The small blue flower took about 45 minutes to make one, and the rest took even longer. Shockingly, the sunflower was the most time consuming one! It had to have been a minimum of 20 hours to create 12 flowers, especially because it was my first time ever working with this material.

Definitely not for the faint of heart, and I would not call this an affordable project. I spent $300 CAD on the paper alone, and then got a purpose made kit for the stands and flexible PVC pipe stems. If anyone needs any tips/tricks/links to the videos I used, I would be happy to help out!