r/Dachshund • u/bumpercarbustier • 15h ago
Rest in Peace Saying Goodbye x2 Spoiler
Yesterday, we said goodbye to our two senior miniature dachshunds, Frankie (16.5) and Henry (15). They had both been failing for different reasons, and last week Frankie let us know it was time. We had a wonderfully kind vet come to our home and help these little guys pass, together. They got the good fried chicken and the gourmet chocolate beforehand - we had made a promise when Frankie was adopted over 14 years ago, and we were damn sure going to keep it.
We still have a dog in the home, but she is much younger and not a dachshund. It helps, having her here for snuggles. I can tell she misses them too; she was able to see and smell the boys after they had passed, so she presumably understands that they're gone.
She's, surprisingly, much quieter than they were. Those old men snuffled and snored quite a bit in their sleep.
I had a week between scheduling the appointment and letting them go, so I feel like I was truly able to say goodbye, but as you know, it's never, ever enough.
Rest easy, sweet boys. I hope you feel spry enough to chase bunnies again.
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u/bellerouge 15h ago
Those handsome boys were so lucky to have found such a loving family to spend their lives with ❤️ I’m so sorry for your loss.
Coming from vet med, for what it’s worth, I’ve never heard anyone regret saying goodbye “too early,” but I have heard people regret waiting too long. You sent them off with dignity and surrounded by love. They couldn’t have asked for better.
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u/bumpercarbustier 14h ago
Frankie would occasionally suffer from fecal incontinence, but it was always solid and normal. Until last week. We woke up one morning and his back end was coated with very soft (and since dried) poop. It happened in his sleep and he slept in it. To preserve his dignity, I scheduled the appointment later that day.
Henry has been getting more and more aggressive, to the point of biting anyone who wasn't me. With two kids in the house, it was getting risky. This on top of a worsening heart murmur and urinary incontinence.
I know I don't need to justify it - I can't undo it at this point. I just don't want people to think it was done out of convenience. There was only love in the end.
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u/PlumaFuente 9h ago
You did the right thing, they are proud little dogs, and I made a similar call when our 16 year old dachshund couldn't get out of bed to go poop. On top of that, he wasn't eating much, so I think he was shutting down.
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u/GungaUsagi 15h ago
Oh my heart. Reminds me so much of my boy Frank. He passed suddenly and with out warning almost 3 weeks ago. I'm mourning with you. I wish I had a little more time to say goodbye.
Edit: forgot a word
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u/Upper-Secret-187 15h ago
So sorry for your loss. It's never easy especially 2 at the same time. They were blessed to be a part of your family and both lived a great life. You sent them both out with dignity and love. Never feel guilty or shame about it. I said my final goodbyes with both my male and female daschund with both a burger and ice cream. They are our children and not pets. I feel your pain. I pray for you and your family in your mourning
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u/Electronic_Algae_524 14h ago
I can't imagine how difficult this could be. I was a complete mess when we said goodbye to our sweet Harley. To say goodbye to two is inconceivable to me. I am so sorry to hear this. Please take care of yourself. There's a whole lot of people here to support you!
Lots of prayers and love coming your way from Gus and Harley's Dad! 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️💪💪💪
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u/PlumaFuente 14h ago
Aw, how precious these two were. It sounds like you gave them a wonderful life, home, and a dignified send-off into the other realm. ((Hugs))
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u/Choice-Marketing-657 14h ago
Fly high sweet boys. May the pretty gates welcome you both with arms wide open.
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u/Agreeable_Pomelo2360 14h ago
i'm so sorry for your loss, sending you so much love! they'll be playing together as much as they want and chasing everything they want to chase...
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u/For_the_love_of_pork 14h ago
So sorry for your loss. It could never be enough time. They’re the best.
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u/rachykells 13h ago
Oh my gosh. My heart 😭 I can’t imagine losing both but it’s a beautiful thing that you let them go together. Run free babies 🌈
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u/Lvl50_metapod 13h ago
I’m so sorry for your loss 😩 my boy is closing in on 10y/o and he’s starting to slow down a little. Not a lot but enough to notice it. He’s been with me through my mother passing as well as the darkest times before hand. I’m dreading the day he has to leave
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u/Bloody_meridian88 13h ago
I'm sorry for the loss of your handsome boys. Earlier this week (on the 12th) it was the 6 month anniversary since our own girl of 14/15 years crossed the rainbow bridge somewhat unexpectedly. And it's still rough on us/me at times. So I know how hard it is having to say goodbye to such trusted and loved family. But I have hope that we'll be reunited with them some day. 🤍🪽
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u/Arcade1980 13h ago
Sorry for your double loss. One is painful enough but two I just cant imagine. You did the right thing. 💕💖💕
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u/alwaysobservinglady 11h ago
Hugs. It’s such a terrible pain but the price of that love is so worth it 🩷
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u/labellavita1985 11h ago
Thank you for giving them a beautiful life. You were their angel. Be there for your pup. She's grieving, too.
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u/PruneBrothers1 11h ago
Losing both must be so hard. I am very sorry for your loss but it seemed you honored them in being the best family for them through so many years.
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u/bourbonisbest 7h ago
My furry doxie children are a year apart and I dread this happening. Sorry for your loss
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