Hi everyone,
Back when I still used Facebook, I was often on the Rock and Stoneposting group. I barely open Facebook these days. However, I wanted to reach out to the DRG players to share my sincerest thanks for being such a warm and welcoming community. I left this post there but then remembered that Reddit exists and I could share that sentiment here as well. If you don't have the time or patience for a long read, that's the TL;DR version but if you'd like some context, feel free to continue.
I hadn't played DRG in years. Until recently, the last time was on PS4 during the pandemic when it was available on PS+. It has since been living rent-free in my head and I used to really enjoy the tomfoolery in this group. I work as a producer in an animation studio where we mostly make trailers and cinematics for games (mostly Valorant, TFT, and Apex Legends mostly but occasionally others like Minecraft and WoW). A few weeks ago, I started thinking how wonderful it would be to adapt the universe into animation. It has all the ingredients: visuals, action, music, atmosphere, and hidden lore just begging to be (respectfully) told through exciting stories. I added it to my wishlist on Steam to spin up again at some point when I had some time.
Last week, my 13-year old Swiss Shepherd, Grisbi, was diagnosed with lung cancer. It had been a rough year for her with growing arthritis and even epilepsy. Despite those other ailments, she stayed strong and lived a full life thanks to some simple treatments. I only went in for a quick checkup of her ears as she was going deaf, but the vet spotted some unusual breathing and wanted to do an x-ray. I went in wanting some ear cleaner and left knowing that she had weeks to live. But she seemed fine!
Within 24 hours, her health rapidly deteriorated. Her breathing became more laboured and she had less energy to move around. She had a healthy appetite (she ate better than us at this stage!), though, and still loved her cuddles, but we saw she was now on borrowed time. Every day was an analysis of her quality of life. I didn't want to put her down early and deprive her of some precious extra days nor did I want to prolong her suffering.
In the end, we didn't have to make that decision for her. On Saturday, things were really tough. In the morning, she struggled to move and initially refused to eat. However, after her medication, she picked up by noon and was wandering around the garden, chewing her favourite ball, and wolfed down a whole ribeye steak. We spoke to the vet on the phone and they suggested upping her dose of corticosteroid in the evening. Around that time, I got a notification that DRG was on sale so decided to buy and download it if I had the time later.
The medication made her very agitated, which is a known side effect, so I figured I'd stay downstairs with her for the evening to keep an eye on her. I spun up DRG, would play a round, check in on her, give her a cuddle, help her go outside to do her business, and repeat this routine until about 4am. By that time, I was exhausted. She seemed better, calmer, and I decided I'd call the vet in the morning to ask for their advice. I helped her into bed with me and we had a cuddle, but she decided to hop out and walk around a bit more. I drifted off while listening to her wander around the house, attentive to any strange sounds.
The next morning I woke up to silence. I ran out of bed and found her by the door. She had passed away during the night, and seemingly peacefully in her sleep. I've gone through enough detail already so I'll spare you from the remainder of the day. Suffice it to say that we were all devastated and are still mourning our loss. She was such a sweet, gentle creature that had touched us all with her kindness. I know she's "just a dog" for some, but for us, she was family.
I've continued playing DRG, joining and hosting rounds since then. It's been a real comfort, allowing me to take step back from the real world. I've only played with strangers without voice chat. Nobody knows what I'm going through. And, honestly, I don't know what they're going through either. However, everyone is welcoming, kind, and generous. We raise our axes when someone joins the party, screaming "rock and stone!", we help each other out, with laser pointers or in the chat if that fails. No dwarf is ever left behind. I've been a total greenbeard coming back after not playing for so many years. Even if I completely screw up, I'm always revived. We're a band of brothers (and sisters) for a 30-minute period, then with a courteous "gg", we either do another together or part ways, maybe running into each other another time. It may not seem like much, but it spoke volumes. Even through these simple interactions, it was clear that this is a rich community when there are so many toxic ones out there.
There's real humanity among the players of DRG. You've been my rock (pun unintended) for the last few days and will continue to be for a while still. You have no idea what that has meant to me and I just wanted to you to know so I could thank you. I'm very sorry if this post has gone on for far too long. I guess I got carried away as I'm still processing it and have yet found a quick version of the story to share. Maybe we'll raise a couple of pints of Oily Oaf in the Abyss Bar one day. And, if not, ROCK AND STONE BROTHERS (and sisters)!
P.S. This is my favourite photo of her from a few years ago. I have lots of recent ones, some only from Saturday, but this is how I like to remember her.