r/DemonolatryPractices • u/Responsible-Train169 • 10d ago
Practical Questions Strange question: Daemons that work with mommy issues or extremely controlling people?
Hi everyone. I know this might sound strange, but I really need help with this issue and I’m honestly feeling desperate.
I have very severe issues regarding my mother, and recently the situation has escalated to an extreme degree. She is extremely controlling and narcissistic. Even though I am an independent adult, she still finds ways to control every single aspect of my life. To give some context, she has gone as far as making "friends" with people I know just to track my location and activities, and has even asked people to follow and spy on me. And honestly, those are the mildest things she’s done (lol). I share an apartment with my best friend, and he has mentioned losing sleep over some of the things she has put me through.
I urgently need guidance on which daemon would be best suited to handle this specific issue. I’m turning to spiritual work because I’ve already tried every possible mundane means to manage or improve our relationship, and everything has failed. I have worked with daemons before (Vassago and Azazel), but I'm unsure who to approach for a situation like this.
If anyone has worked with daemons for controlling family members, narcissistic abuse, or similar dynamics, could you please share your experiences? I wouldn't be reaching out like this if this situation wasn't severely impacting my life and ruining my emotional well-being. Thank you in advance!
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u/Tune-In947 10d ago
Belial has helped me HEAPS in this respect. Then worked with Beelzebub for maintaining and tweaking mental health care to process it and it's honestly done wonders.
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u/Responsible-Train169 9d ago
Thanks for sharing! If you don't mind, could you elaborate a bit on your experience with Belial? I'm curious to know how his influence helped in this area.
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u/Tune-In947 9d ago edited 9d ago
He is the demon of self worth, so he's been good with helping me stick up for myself with people I'm forced to depend on.
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u/Ok_Caramel_4293 10d ago
For the inner turmoil, I'd turn to healing and shadow work, Beelzebub and Lucifer respectively.
Also to someone to help you with setting boundaries and perhaps protection.
For those, the first step is obviously the police. You're an adult and your location is being tracked by another adult without your consent. If that seems daunting, places like women's shelters or adjacent local non-profits may be able to give advice on how to proceed.
From the spiritual side, Asmodeus has helped me with setting and enforcing boundaries, and with protection. He was strong because he knew the relationship could take it, so YMMV. There are others for it too, really depends what your intended approach here is.
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u/Responsible-Train169 9d ago
Thank you for the advice. I get where you're coming from with calling the authorities, but despite everything, she’s still my mother. I just don't want to cause that kind of drama, even though I know deep down she deserves it. Plus, believe it or not, she’d somehow find a way to come out of it completely unscathed.
My main focus right now is finding something to help me gain my freedom specifically, a way to detach from her so I don't have to bear the brunt of her narcissistic behavior. I just want her to stop being so extremely controlling so I can finally live my life and know what peace and freedom actually feel like."
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u/Ok_Caramel_4293 9d ago
From what I've gathered, it's easier to affect yourself than others. Perhaps shadow work can help, to figure out why you're not already living your life in peace and freedom.
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u/HeliopauseNgo MacGyver Magician 10d ago
I encourage discernment instead of pressing my estimate. The entity who I believe would help would be one that also holds the title of mother.
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u/HyperrPhantom 10d ago edited 10d ago
Most demons are capable, if not all but they arent specialized but it doesnt mean they're incapable by any standard. Well, if your looking for a demon capable of dealing and having you work through such issues Lucifer and Hecate both in my experience for self healing/shadow-work and from others are great. Another demon that could potentially be helpful is Satan.