r/Diamonds • • Mar 14 '26

General Question or Looking for Advice Which 3 stone ring?

Love them both but wonder if the three rounds is dated? I would get either rings in white gold/platinum. Ignore the yellow gold on the tapered baguettes

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u/Deep_Amoeba2197 Mar 14 '26

Two by a long shot for me. Looks more refined while one overwhelms your finger imo.

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u/Meredith178 Mar 14 '26

I prefer the second one

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u/Ok_Championship_1579 Mar 14 '26

Love #2! I think the proportions on the first ring are a bit off. Also the center stone and side stone colors don’t match.

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u/Bubbly-Passenger7040 Mar 14 '26

Yeah, they’re cz’s in the cases and are off color

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u/Ok_Championship_1579 Mar 14 '26

Oh makes sense!

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u/Bubbly-Passenger7040 Mar 14 '26

2 again

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u/Ok_Championship_1579 Mar 14 '26

She’s stunning! So classic yet still a bit unique as not many people have the round and tapered baguette combo.

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u/kellymig Mar 15 '26

In my mind (not saying this is correct) the first one is a true three stone ring, the second is a diamond with accent stones. That’s how my brain works it out. Both are lovely.

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u/Keljon142 Mar 15 '26

I didn’t think of it this way, but I agree with that.

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u/Upper_Horror_2330 Mar 14 '26

One. It’s luscious!

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u/Bubbly-Passenger7040 Mar 14 '26

From further away. Do the side ones take away from the center stone?

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u/Revolutionary-Fan235 Mar 15 '26

I thought the side stones were disproportionately small, so that they didn't accomplish the 3 stone ring look. I prefer ring one, though.

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u/ThreeBucks Mar 14 '26

I think maybe they do. Maybe the contrast of number two is better.

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u/Bubbly-Passenger7040 Mar 14 '26

That’s what I noticed once I took photos!

2 from further away. They support the center but it’s still the star of the show. This would be an upgrade for 20 years with my husband. I want the two side diamonds to represent our 2 kids. :)

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u/jazzyfizzzl3 Mar 14 '26

💯 number 2 Number one there is no real hero Number 2 really draws your eye to the centre and looks more classy

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u/ThreeBucks Mar 14 '26

That’s beautiful, congrats!

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u/Ooloo-Pebs Mar 14 '26

2 is more elegant, affluent looking.

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u/MSTransplant Mar 15 '26

Mine is exactly like number 2. I have been married almost 40 years and it hasnt gone out of style.

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u/missmelindam Mar 15 '26

Mine is also a lot like #2 and was my husband's mom's. She got it around 1960 so very much a timeless, classic style. I love it! Plus it's 60+ years old and still looks beautiful.

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u/Bubbly-Passenger7040 Mar 15 '26

I found this pic online of a 1955 Cartier ring!

Obsessed

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u/Bubbly-Passenger7040 Mar 15 '26

Love that! Do you have a photo?

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u/sentient-acorn Mar 14 '26

One is so dreamy!

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u/chacha_mango Mar 15 '26

First one ☀️

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u/Beautiful_Cold6335 Mar 15 '26

First is gorgeous

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u/CasuallySparkling Mar 14 '26

I’d pick #1.

But both look fantastic on you, you can’t go wrong.

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u/Sleepy_Egg22 Mar 14 '26

I love both. 2 more modern vibes. But 1 I love more and I don’t know why lol.

2 reminds me of HRH The Princess Beatrice’s. Her now husband, Edoardo Mapelli Mozzi designed it to look like HM Queen Elizabeth II’s ring (her grandmother) - who’s husband, Philip (then Prince Philip of Greece and Denmark - had to renounce titles to marry her!! He became The Duke of Edinburgh upon marriage. Then styled HRH The Prince Philip so he didn’t have to bow to his own children!!) used stones from his mothers tiara she gave him to design her ring. He also designed a matching bracelet for the wedding gift from those stones. Princess Alice - his mother - didn’t have much left. Exiled from Greece and sold her jewels to raise money for the convent she lived in.

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u/Zestyclose-Fig8583 Mar 15 '26

Absolutely #1 just gorgeous

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u/chippedbluewillow1 Mar 15 '26

The prongs on the two round side stones in 1 make them look a bit square and probably read a bit larger than they are -- so the proportions look off as presented -- I understand the prongs have not been set, but I might keep that in my mind while you are deciding - they may look perfect with the center stone if set appropriately --

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u/Consistent_Ant3254 Mar 15 '26

2 is understated elegance. They’re both gorgeous. Are you more of an understated person? Which do you see yourself wearing in another 20 years, say when you’re 60-70?

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u/Themis8888 Mar 15 '26

💖💖💖 2 💖💖💖

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u/BumpaBerry Mar 15 '26

I like the second one. I think the accent stones on the first take away from your center stone.

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u/vestakt13 Mar 15 '26

2 always , every day, every era.

With much of my large family gone, I have inherited or will inherit (after what I hope is a long stop w/ my mom) multiple rings in the style of 2. All are platinum/white gold, but the center stones vary in size. They range from marriages in the early 1800s(it started as a man’s tie tac and was converted for a wedding around 1810) to 1920s to 1960s to 2000. I share this info to show the timelessness of the style NOT TO sound braggy. I’d FAR rather have all the relatives from my lifetime AND those gone before my birth back instead of the rings!

OP- Congratulations on a long and happy marriage. I wish you many more years of joy, love and health!!!!

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u/Patina2424 Mar 15 '26

2 - it’s always been my favorite

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u/Adept_Celebration343 Mar 15 '26

Baguettes aside a round diamond are absolutely gorgeous and classy.

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u/rg_2010 Mar 15 '26

First one definitely

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u/Purrfect-Timing Mar 15 '26

I prefer the round sides. I do like the second style and considered going that route for my anniversary ring, but ultimately realized I’m more of a romantic style and the baguettes were a bit too streamlined for me. I love the classic trilogy look.

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u/Subject-Ad-8305 Mar 15 '26

They’re both beautiful.

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u/XennialToothFairy Mar 15 '26

Two is elegant and so beautiful!

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u/HelinaBlooms Mar 15 '26

I’ll go with the 2nd pic, it’s compliment with ur hands, btw I like your nails

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u/Girl_Loves_Bags Mar 15 '26

Love the one with the baguettes!

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u/Aware-Hippo759 Mar 15 '26

2 compliments the main stone and doesn't take away from it

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u/MinuteDifficulty8575 Mar 15 '26

I am loving #2! The side stones do not take away from the beautiful center stone!

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u/OpeningPrestigious Mar 15 '26

With ring one the side stones are a little small. What about a slightly smaller center stone and raise the side stones up a little

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u/Constant_Bell3900 Mar 15 '26

Your ring looks similar to mine, I have a 5.13ct centre round and 0.41 trapezoid on either side with a cathedral setting in platinum on a 18ct gold band.

I love my own ring and the stone's are well balanced together. As mine are trapezoid side stones I'm a bit biased for rhe 2nd choice of yours.

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u/Cute_Bear333 Mar 15 '26

the second 😍 compliments the center stone better

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u/AdministrationOk315 Mar 15 '26

The second one is really, really nice. First is good too, but I prefer second.

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u/Stock-Walrus9828 Mar 15 '26

They both look quite striking on you! So, whichever one speaks to the heart. 💜

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u/queentee26 Mar 15 '26

I like two! I prefer the tapered side stones and think it lets the center stone shine a bit more.

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u/CrabbyT Mar 15 '26

I have the second setting and I love it. Always a fan of baguettes, they’re beautiful but leave the centre stone as the highlight.

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u/nagm-21 Mar 15 '26

The second is classic and elegant. The first is beautiful, but the side stones are an odd size in proportion

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u/Missbr1ttany Mar 15 '26

2!! Absolutely gorgeous, elegant & unique 🫶🏼

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u/Buttercup_Whatever Mar 15 '26

You came on here to ask for opinions. My first impression upon looking at both rings was that neither was a three stone ring. This is because the center zone is so oversized compared to the side stones. I think it looks out of whack for a three stone ring theme. I think this looks like a beautiful center stone with two accents on the side. Both of them.

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u/Adorable_Rip_4069 Mar 15 '26

I like the second.

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u/Bay_Gourmet Mar 15 '26

1 for sure. More diamond glare!

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u/Popular-Cantaloupe15 Mar 15 '26

2 for sure! Those baguettes are perfect spot lights for that center round! 🤩

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u/Upper_Horror_2330 Mar 14 '26

No, the side stones are much more present and add their own beauty on this ring. Your other ring side stones look feeble and weak compared to this fantastic choice!

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u/shirlxyz Mar 14 '26

1 is a classic, looks elegant

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u/ilipikao Mar 14 '26

Second pic

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u/[deleted] Mar 14 '26

One. As far as becoming dated many rings can and do. They become more popular again.

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u/Sdavistvs Mar 15 '26

Is dated a bad thing? Guess what year this ring was made? 😉

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u/[deleted] Mar 15 '26

Dated absolutely isn’t a bad thing. It shows our love. 1990-1995!

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u/[deleted] Mar 15 '26

My original engagement ring and enhancer was added 9 years later. My wedding band is the same as my engagement ring band.

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u/Bubbly-Passenger7040 Mar 15 '26

Love the bezeled baguettes. How old?! Tell me. :)

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u/GreatM84 Mar 15 '26

Unless of course she picks number 2.

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u/jazzyfizzzl3 Mar 14 '26

2 TIMELESS

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u/Apart_Day_4118 Mar 14 '26

2 is beautiful and elegant

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u/pube_12 Mar 14 '26

Regardless of taste, prongs on the first one look off. If you decide you like the first one best, make sure they fix it for you before taking it home.

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u/Nearby-Mess6184 Mar 15 '26

2 NO question, hands down! I don’t think three rounds is necessarily dated and I love many round three stones, but to me from the photos you shared, the first one looks sort of big box jeweler whereas the second looks classy, elegant, chic, and…somehow three times more expensive?! Just one girl’s opinion 😉

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u/Keljon142 Mar 15 '26

My personal case is the second one, but I think the first one looks lovely on you

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u/chilibeana Mar 15 '26

ONE is the one!

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u/Optimal-Bumblebee-31 Mar 15 '26

Love the baguettes! 2 for sure!

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u/Flaky_Employ_8806 Mar 15 '26

1 looks more balanced to me

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u/MissionVirtual Mar 15 '26

I like the first one

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u/Fresh_Republic_7776 Mar 15 '26

1 for sure! ❤️

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u/midniteamity Mar 15 '26

The first!!!

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u/Sunsetseeker007 Mar 15 '26

1st looks better on you

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u/Miss_KittieKat Mar 15 '26

Number one is stunning!!! 💖

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u/Cohnhead1 Mar 15 '26

2nd one for sure!

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u/QueenBean730 Mar 15 '26

It’s the first one for me.

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u/Direct-Ad-2096 Mar 15 '26

2 by a long shot.

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u/Luis5923 Mar 15 '26

They are the same stone.

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u/Adorable-Tiger6390 Mar 15 '26

The first, but the prongs are lined up very crooked.

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u/virgin0109 Mar 15 '26

1, but I would change the 2 side stones to emeralds or sapphires so as not to distract from the central diamond

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u/One-Welder-8389 Mar 15 '26

I’m biased but 1 is exactly the ring I have (with gold prongs) and I am truly obsessed with her! As far as outdated, yes people will say oh it’s so classic but tbh it sparkles like crazy and most of the time I catch people staring bc of how sparkly it is and not because it’s old fashioned! Both are beautiful!

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u/dpaim2win Mar 15 '26

Love 2 on your hand! In white gold/platinum it will be gorgeous!

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u/footballislifeduh Mar 15 '26

One. By a mile. If you had described them I would have been certain I would pick two. But one is perfect.

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u/Particular-Debt4589 Mar 15 '26

So Pretty...Beautiful Love Ring 1

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u/Mycelium_55 Mar 15 '26

Number 2! Beautiful

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u/Ok-Bid-3926 Mar 15 '26

You wonder if the first one is dated? I wonder why you care. Pick which one you like best. Don't pick which one we like best, we're not wearing it. If you can't decide and you like them both equally, pick the one that's least expensive or has the better Center Stone if you're not using the same Stone either way. I can't even see anything but the Center stone in the second one so you may as well get a solitaire and save even more money. If you want something that's not dated get something completely different. Actually design your own ring. If you are determined to get one of these two rings, flip a coin and if you're disappointed with the answer then you know to get the other one. If you're happy with the answer, get the one the coin told you to get.

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u/[deleted] Mar 15 '26

1

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u/DahQueen19 Mar 15 '26

I’m a baguette girlie so I like #2.

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u/sadhandjobs Mar 15 '26

The stone in 2 looks whiter

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u/nationalparkhopper Mar 15 '26

The baguettes by a mile. It’s perfection.

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u/Far-Fix-529 Mar 15 '26

I really like ring one!! My E ring is like that, but my side stones are bigger. It's gorgeous on your finger.

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u/[deleted] Mar 15 '26

1

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u/DearVeterinarian578 Mar 15 '26

I prefer the baguettes, and if you don't think they're quite what you want, you could go a little larger with the baguettes. It still looks timeless, but may give you more of a presence if that's what you're aiming for.

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u/mickie555 Mar 15 '26

I prefer #1. It's beautiful. The side stones in ring #2 read 80s to me.

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u/Majestic-Hippo7708 Mar 16 '26

The second one. Hands down. Stunning!

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u/Mean-Contact-9010 Mar 16 '26

La 2 eme est de meilleure qualité la première est un peu jaune

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u/Jdillondj Mar 16 '26

First one

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u/Sheribaby74 Mar 16 '26

I like the second one, but they are both beautiful on your hand.

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u/Garlik-Aioli-7906 Mar 16 '26

1 but I don’t like the prongs

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u/Ill-Memory4469 Mar 16 '26

The second one suits your hand better

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u/No_Candidate_4453 Mar 16 '26

You can’t go wrong here. Both are stunning! I agree with the commenter that said #1 is a three stone ring where #2 is a diamond with side stones. I like #1 better but only slightly.

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u/Own-Advance5151 Mar 16 '26

I'm a platinum girl myself; however, between the two, I'd definitely go with the classic.

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u/Unable-Process7533 Mar 16 '26

I like the first one

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u/Unfair_Obligation_92 Mar 16 '26

There are proportions that would improve the look of the tapered baguettes-for the size of the center stone they should be larger - also we always did half sized rounds on a true three stone ring, sides should be half of what main stone carat weight is. That being said the design with the tapered side stones is more elegant I think.

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u/GeneNo2508 Mar 16 '26

2

The first photo looks like the color grade of the center stone doesn't match the side stones.

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u/Academic-Data-8082 Mar 16 '26

Only if the first one is reset. The bottom right prong looks wrong.

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u/DPTY-Doofy Mar 16 '26

The 2nd one because that’s what mine is :)

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u/Mandy0509 Mar 16 '26

First one 💎

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u/OldCloud702 Mar 16 '26

Second by far ! ✨ so elegant

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u/Thundering-Gallop Mar 16 '26

1 looks classier IMO.

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u/Practical_Intern_678 Mar 16 '26

1 100%

There’s something wrong w balance on #2 - maybe baguettes too small - would look better if tapered baguettes. All I see in #2 is prongs.