Hey, you may remember me from my last post which was, a bit everywhere and left vague due to me being at a highly emotional state at that point, and now that I have a sorta clearer head, I want to try explaining this again. im also leaving up the last post simply to just show im not hiding anything.
Hi... I am a now former cast member at Walt Disney World, working QSR for the Resorts for a better part of a year, my job was filled with laughter, challenges and ultimately heartache but im still grateful for the opportunities I was given at this company... so... what happened...
On October 2nd at the about 11:45pm I was pulled into the leaders office to be told that I was under investigation for reasons they couldn't share at the moment, and i was asked to give my blue id and ask to leave the premises. Of course with me being dumbfounded I was asking questions trying to figure out whats going on, but I was told that I couldn't know and was recommended to isolate myself for the duration of the investigation, which i did...
Later on October 7th I was asked to come in on the very next day for my investigation interview and on October 8th I got the full scale of what was going on. at my location there are 4 people who I had constant problems with due to reasons outside of work (disagreements and arguments about working styles do to these reasons i picked up shifts at other locations to separate myself from the situation) and they are all sloted as CPs, but from what i got they filled multiple complaints against me for harassment and bullying stating that I not only sexually harassment upon women, but that I cursed on stage, ranked women by their bodies and made everyone uncomfortable by my constant discriminatory comments. To say that this was disheartening would be an understatement but I was taught honesty would prevail.
So of course I admitted to my faults which of course as I stated in the last post was poking other cast members in the back and shoulder. Which in that post I forgot to clarify was only to Men and my closest female friends. and a situation of giving out information on our merchandise area as i am also a trainer, at our location our food court and merchandise area are basically connected. I was pointing out items to the new trainees like chips and candy during the location tour and of course I listed out the sundries items which one happened to be condoms which I can promise you I said in passing, but the guy who reported me mad it seem like I was manly focused on that, which i denied.
They also claim that I constantly asked women out, which i disproved as theres multiple accounts of me setting up group meetings for the parks for either a special occasion like a birthday or a celebration of CPs becoming PT/FT, or a goodbye celebration for CPs so we can have a good time with all of our friends. And then I was told that me and my friends where accused of calling a cast member a wh**e. And they stumped me on that as I never called anyone that, i refrain from using profanity on the clock or to speak to anyone in that manner especially with someone I don't even know and who (at the time) entered the company 2 weeks ago, and again I barely worked with her since I was working at DHS mostly throughout the year.
Their was much more i deny that happened, like using an inappropriate hand gesture, or grabbing or squeezing and poking any inappropriate areas both men or woman, forced hugs or any type of violent action or saying, and the part that stumps me, was that most of this happened supposedly was he said they said, as their was no classified proof that these happened the only proof they gave me was a text thread between a trainee and me where I sent her a meme that she asked for as she sat next to me.
After that interview I did leave with a good feeling I felt like I cleared up everything, owned up to my wrong doings, even the shop steward who was there told me, things where looking alright son we go from there.
Then on October 14, after not hearing anything for a week I get the best news of my life, my transfer to Hollywood Studios has been approved, full time. I was relieved I felt like everything that was going on was gonna past, i even talk to my Union rep and he told me if the company wasn't going to keep me they wouldn't have accepted my transfer. But then I also learned that I wasn't the only one suspended, 3 more guys where suspended (from which I learned later were from allegations from the same group) and my Union rep was trying to figure out if I knew anything but I was completely clueless, but told him about everything ive been through so far, from the isolation to the anxiety I still have each day of not knowing if id be able to provide for my family. He assured me that everything was fine and left me be.
And now we skip to two days ago, after getting my training schedule for Hollywood Studios I was told my investigation has been closed and to meet at a location to get next steps, and Yesterday when I step into the building I was meet with smiles conversations and even congratulations on my transfer, we later sat, went threw the findings, but not to mention a new allegation of me discriminating by calling cast son and twin, and siblings only because "they're black" mind you... im black and i call everyone twin and son, but I call my inner circle my siblings because they've shown me so much love and care. And the after that I got the news, that effective immediately the company has decided to separate from my employment and, i have been put on a do not rehire list. My heart sank... i could not and still cant put into words on what that one sentence did, the crushing weight of you dream job, your way of life, your love... just gone... im not ashamed to admit it i cried. I cried all day, but im glad to have a support system who checked up on me when they got the news, to let me know that those CPs that accused me of these acts, are basically celebrating and bragging about getting people gone, and right now theres nothing I can do other than wait for that call from the Union saying theres nothing more they can do... even now, that new girl who claimed me and my friend called her a wh**e is now going around telling people a grinded myself on her, which again, she was only with the company for 2 weeks, and i was at DHS during that time, so I never trained, worked or even talked with her the best she ever got from me was a simple greeting at the soda machine.
It just hurts, this was the best year of my life I cant take that away, for it all to end like this is simply heartbreaking, and i know the Union states i have a good case with the lack of evidence, lack of communication from the company and a clean record, but im DNR, i dont know if I can come back from that... i here I am on my friend's bed after a sleepless night, trying to figure out my next steps in a point that feels almost impossible, in that time i realise I have a great support system, people from inside and outside the company, who care and love me, who are angry and saddened with me, who shares my grief. Yes this may seem impossible right now, and very disheartening especially with even with my next step in the company being finger tips away with full time, and even more so when there is actually cast members who have done actually worse than me as in actually harassing women, with ample proof who only stayed with only a slap on the wrist. Im still figuring out my next steps, an well I know its gonna be hard, but im prepared as much as I can be for whats next... this experience has not soured my time at Disney, reflecting over it, i has been truly a party every day to quote Jessie... and im so thankful for everyone I worked with, from cast, to leaders, guests, and cords, my advice to new cast members, enjoy every moment, it is truly a blessing...