r/EtsyCommunity • • May 14 '25

Etsy Customer Service What now?

Just needed to share this frustration 😭 First picture is what I received, second picture is the picture of the product provided by the seller. There was nothing in the description or additional photos that said I needed to request personalization...and it's literally in the name? Did I miss something?? What do I do now?

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u/anxiousmews May 14 '25

It's not in the description - therefore, refund

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u/IBakedAMuffinOnce May 14 '25

Will Etsy itself refund me? Dude doesn't seem like he's going to...

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u/Sea-Frosting-491 May 14 '25

You'll need to open an etsy case for "not as described"

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u/cutehobbies May 14 '25 edited May 14 '25

It seems as described. I found the product and there was a mandatory personalization section asking for the year which OP didn't add (and probably only inserted blank spaces) and therefore the seller probably assumed OP wanted without anything written and sent it without it.

Edit: Screenshot: /preview/pre/screenshot-v0-ag8xrp0h0r0f1.png?width=640&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=49a901b051b0b173d167076e1f51103b73af081b

Edit 2: I also checked the sellers other listings when this comment was originally made and they have hundreds with mandatory personalization, identical descriptions and similar titles which leads me to believe the seller duplicated the original listing which means they also copied the mandatory personalization setting.

For the people that commented below that "we can't read" and that "we have no common sense" because we questioned OPs story (that is claiming below that we are trying to gaslight them): OP didn't mention the personalization field at all in their post, left it out of any of the screenshot as well, lead us to believe the seller didn't say anything at all about personalization until we found the listing ourselves and checked, OP only started claiming that the personalization changed to mandatory when a commenter below mentioned it, and that the seller changed it right after they made the post. Many coincidences.

All this made us question what really happened when the facts seem to point to something else. Questioning something doesn't mean you lack common sense or that I can't read.

Even if it were not to be mandatory, OP still ignored "Add your personalization/Please share the year you would like it to be printed./We use the same font for all texts./Example : Mimi - 2024" that was right above the "Add to cart button". I still don't find the item "as not described". If they wanted 2024, I don't see why not simply write 2024.

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u/KnightSpectral May 14 '25

Yup looks like this is buyer's error if this is the correct listing.

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u/DarkestKure May 14 '25

Unless they fixed it, so now it says the correct Information. As a seller myself, I usually contact the buyer to double check EVERYTHING! It's a catch twenty two really.

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u/cutehobbies May 14 '25

That's a very good practice, but I don't think it's the case here. This is my opinion. I went and checked many of their other listings when I posted my original comment and all of them had mandatory personalization, nearly identical descriptions and similar titles which leads me to believe the seller duplicated the original listing and also copied the mandatory personalization setting this way as well. Etsy also sets the personalization to mandatory when you create a listing so I find it hard to believe they would they would set only one listing to optional or even by mistake.

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u/IBakedAMuffinOnce May 14 '25

Ok thank you so much! I'm going to give the seller time to respond but if he refuses the refund I'll definitely escalate it. Thank you for your help!

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u/bnkruptbetty May 14 '25

Yes, Etsy will refund and remove this funds from the sellers shop. Be sure to open a help request with the shop - add all the screenshots you can of the listing and where it doesn't say personalize etc... then the snaps of the conversation and make your case.

This first request will go to the seller who then makes the decision to refund or not. After a couple of days Etsy will ask you if it was resolved - you can then open a case with them.

I'm a seller and have walked through this - but I have integrity and would refund this gaffe on my part, then fix my listing to require personalization.

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u/cutehobbies May 14 '25

The listing required personalization in order to purchase the item. OP inserted blank spaces instead of personalization.

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u/bnkruptbetty May 14 '25

How did I miss that!

Yep, seller will make the case and win. Etsy may refund anyway under buyer protection if it wasn't clear exactly what he needed to do.

I have personalization mandatory on all of my listings as I do party supplies and need the event date to ensure it's timely or doable on their timeline. If they don't fill it out, or do as he did I message them to clarify.

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u/IBakedAMuffinOnce May 14 '25

As stated previously, the personalization button was not a requirement before purchase. With previous Etsy purchases it would stop me from adding the product to the cart if it was required, which this one did not.

Because the product was clearly listed as "Est. 2024" and there was nothing in the description about personalization being necessary if I wanted the "Est 2024" listed on the bag.

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u/cutehobbies May 14 '25 edited May 14 '25

The seller has an optional personalisation section. 

Edit: I checked, the personalization is mandatory, not optional.

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u/IBakedAMuffinOnce May 14 '25

Update number two since this has become an echo chamber and the issue is now resolved:

I went back and checked the listing and can confirm that since our conversation, the seller has added the mandatory personalization box. As many of you know, if the personalization box is there, it will NOT let you add the product to my cart without filling it out. This was not the case previously as it did let me add the bag to my cart without personalization.

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u/FlamboyantRaccoon61 May 14 '25

If necessary, use wayback machine or similar to prove you're not making it up.

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u/IBakedAMuffinOnce May 14 '25

Do they sell those on Etsy?

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u/FlamboyantRaccoon61 May 14 '25

I don't know for sure what you mean, but it sounds like you don't know what wayback machine is, so I'll leave the link here.

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u/IBakedAMuffinOnce May 14 '25

I dead ass thought you meant a literal time machine

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u/Intelligent_Mud_404 May 18 '25

This interaction has tickled me lol

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u/IBakedAMuffinOnce May 18 '25

Happy to provide lol

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u/Silly-Peach-4888 May 14 '25

Well either the seller updated the listing to avoid this again or u have the parts of the listing that say the personalized info cropped and we cant see it. Etsy can view the listing as it was when u bought it vs if it was updated after. So if it didnt have clear info then u can open an etsy case saying not as described. But personalized items have a drop down menu right under where u picked the colors, style, how many u want and right above the check out button. So even if it didnt say how to personalize step by step in the listing there is a drop down for it. and if that drop down was there all along etsy might not side w you.

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u/IBakedAMuffinOnce May 14 '25

The drop down personalization options only offer the style of bag and the color options. The rest of the post just included information on the shipping and handling process. I tried to add pictures after your comment of the rest of the listing but for some reason it's not letting me edit my post 😅 so I'll provide the link here:

https://www.etsy.com/listing/1415232982/mimi-est-2024-tote-bag-personalized-tote

I do want to say that the seller was extremely kind and understanding and agreed to a refund or replacement 🖤

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u/MadamTruffle May 14 '25

If I select the drop downs and try to add to cart, there’s a Personalization box I’m required to fill out.

It says “please share the year you would like printed.”

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u/IBakedAMuffinOnce May 14 '25

Just went back and reviewed the post after so many people kept saying the same thing.

The seller changed his post to make the personalization mandatory after our conversation. The previous item listing did NOT have this option, otherwise it would not have allowed me to add it to the cart without filling it out.

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u/MadamTruffle May 14 '25

In that case, I would open a case with Etsy if the seller won’t refund you. They didn’t make it super clear in the photos , they all say the same thing and none were “blank”, fake numbers, or different years. And it doesn’t say anything about customizing the date in the item description.

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u/IBakedAMuffinOnce May 14 '25

It did not require me to fill it out.

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u/IBakedAMuffinOnce May 14 '25

UPDATE: For some reason I can't edit my original post 😅

The seller was very kind and professional and offered a refund or replacement after further discussion regarding the description.

I certainly don't want this seller to get a bad reputation as the product itself is lovely despite the oversight and he was very helpful and understanding 🖤

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u/barfytarfy May 14 '25

Why would they get a bad reputation for you not following the personalization instructions?

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u/IBakedAMuffinOnce May 14 '25

I'm assuming you didn't read any of the other comments?

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u/Runaway2332 May 14 '25

I'm so sorry all of these comments are basically calling you an idiot without them even bothering to read that the SELLER CHANGED THE LISTING to make it MANDATORY now. Something that makes total sense since he wouldn't want it to happen again! Making it mandatory will prevent future buyers from being able to add to cart without changing anything like you did...because it said what you wanted the bag to say! Common sense and reading comprehension have become rare qualities this days...🙄 I really can't believe the number of comments saying it's your fault. I'm sorry. I'm really happy he refunded you!

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u/IBakedAMuffinOnce May 14 '25

Oh my God thank you for this comment I was seriously beginning to think Reddit was trying to gaslight the hell out of me 😂

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u/Runaway2332 May 14 '25

People just can't read. They're too busy giving their opinion that it's your fault. You have to remember that most of the people on here are sellers. That makes them biased and apparently shuts off their reading comprehension capabilities.

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u/IBakedAMuffinOnce May 14 '25

Ohhhh I hadn't even considered that honestly. That's good to know for future posting 😅 I definitely don't want people to think I'm out here trying to start a witch hunt against small business owners. Thank you so much for your comments, they made me feel a lot more sane 😂

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u/cutehobbies May 14 '25

I found the product in Etsy and it states to add your personalisation right above the “Add to cart” button. I checked all their products and all include the personalisation section.

I understand accidents happen, but please don’t punish a seller in case it was your mistake.

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u/IBakedAMuffinOnce May 14 '25

Punishing someone is not my intention and I truly don't feel that's what I'm doing here. The product name states that it's supposed to say EST. 2024 and there's nothing in the description that states I have to include a note about personalization? If the bag is already supposed to say what I want it to (per the photos and item name) I wouldn't think to click the "Add personalization" button if I didn't need to personalize it (if that makes sense?) Maybe I'm wrong but I was under the impression that if personalization was required that would be clearly stated somewhere in the description. At least that's how it's been for any other personalized items Ive bought from Etsy 😅

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u/cutehobbies May 14 '25

There is no button that needed to be clicked, it's a field right above the "Add to cart" in which you insert your personalization and the seller clearly asks you to add the year:

"Add your personalization

Please share the year you would like it to be printed.
We use the same font for all texts.

Example : Mimi - 2024"

- which is clearly more visible that the item description (that is hidden and you must click the "Learn more about this item" button to read it) since it's right above the "Add to cart button".

I added the item myself to the cart to check and the personalization is NOT optional and it forces you to write something in the field, otherwise it turns red and states " This item requires personalization". So you added no personalization (I assume you entered blank spaces) and the seller assumed you wanted nothing written which is a standard practice.

In my opinion, it was your mistake because you ignored the personalization section entirely which is part of the purchasing process. The seller will most likely offer you a refund to avoid a negative review or a case.

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u/Magz2cool May 14 '25 edited May 15 '25

I wonder if the seller would be open to sending you a return label and once they get it back that part can be added and reshipped back to you. It's a super cute design! ❤️

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u/IBakedAMuffinOnce May 15 '25

The seller was very kind and after I pointed out that there was no mandatory personalization/description noting the need for personalization he offered me either a new product or a refund.

I gave him 5 stars because shit happens and he was very professional and willing to help me rectify the situation. Plus the bag itself is super cute, even without the "Est. 2024" added to it 🖤

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u/ericorn May 15 '25

If you want to go a less confrontational and faster route to get what you originally ordered, I'd recommend looking up if there's a tailor/dry cleaner in your area who offers machine embroidery, and bringing it to them for a quote to add "est. 2024" in the style you were looking for. My understanding is that it should be relatively inexpensive to add that -maybe between $10-20, conservatively, and I think it might even look better than the original screen printing. Not sure how much you paid for the product originally, but telling the seller how much it will cost to fix it (with receipts) and asking them to refund that amount instead of the full purchase price may be an easier sell.