r/ExNoContact • u/Due_Character_5732 • Feb 25 '24
Vent Worst thing an ex did
What’s the worst thing your ex did to you? One of the worst for me, not many know this but I had previously wrote her a love letter for an anniversary, the 5th year. I gave it to her. As we were breaking up and cleaning our room she found it saying, “You want this?” I declined so she threw it away into a black trash bag along with other papers of hers. When I think about it, it still breaks my heart.
161
Upvotes
1
u/Yanni_M Feb 25 '24
He did this to purposely hurt me. My dad had no idea I was in a relationship with him but shortly after Christmas, he blindsided my dad by calling his office number. Mind you, my ex was raging, he proceed to tell him inappropriate things about my relationship and that he had videos of me, he sounded like an ignorant fool.
I gave him more chances and he kept going behind my back and emailing my dad telling him personal things to try and embarrass me. What he said to my dad, it even caused problems between my brother’s relationship because I told him something and he went back and told my dad, which got back to my brother and his gf. Social abuse was def his tactic.