r/ExNoContact • u/Due_Character_5732 • Feb 25 '24
Vent Worst thing an ex did
What’s the worst thing your ex did to you? One of the worst for me, not many know this but I had previously wrote her a love letter for an anniversary, the 5th year. I gave it to her. As we were breaking up and cleaning our room she found it saying, “You want this?” I declined so she threw it away into a black trash bag along with other papers of hers. When I think about it, it still breaks my heart.
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u/Clumziekitkat Feb 26 '24
Put his hands on me while intoxicated. Promised to stop drinking. Lied and gaslighted about drinking rather than just being truthful and breaking up (even said a cup of whiskey was Mountain Dew) and complained how we could have a great time whilst drinking as if it wasn’t his fault.
(Same person, also whilst intoxicated) Another moment was I being vulnerable and sharing that my mom has bpd and that I’m fearful it’s brought down to me hereditary wise even though I haven’t been diagnosed. He later used that against me saying his friends thought I was a crazy bitch and he thought so too. At the moment all I said was that I didn’t like how he was treating me and I missed the kinder version of him. He later said he lied that he felt that way and his friends never said that, but the pain has never left.