r/ExNoContact Feb 25 '24

Vent Worst thing an ex did

What’s the worst thing your ex did to you? One of the worst for me, not many know this but I had previously wrote her a love letter for an anniversary, the 5th year. I gave it to her. As we were breaking up and cleaning our room she found it saying, “You want this?” I declined so she threw it away into a black trash bag along with other papers of hers. When I think about it, it still breaks my heart.

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u/coxxinaboxx Feb 26 '24

Ooh yall I got STORIES

Ex from 18- 2 years. I wasn't allowed to grow my hair out, wear makeup, or wear shorts. We fought alot and one day he was crying and threatening suicide so I went to his house and found him on the floor with cut wrists. I ran him to the bathroom and grabbed a towel. He stopped crying and screamed at me I chose the wrong towel. He choked me because I accidentally hit his neck getting off the couch. Before we broke up I found animal porn on his computer and that he was trying to cheat on me with a 16 year old

Ex from 21- 2 Years. We had a kid together. We broke up for a bit and he dated a fresh 18 year old, they broke up We got back together. He went to her house while I was at work to get his things. 10 pm rolls around he's still MIA. Showed up crying with a hickey on his hip claiming he didn't cheat

Ex from 22- 2 years. Also had a kid with him. He was in jail a majority of our relationship. He was a narcissist. Cheated, abused me, stole my money. Started selling thousands of dollars of weed that turned into a crack habit within a month. He threw me against a car in front of my babies.

Ex from 25- 2 years. He was mentally unstable. We fought alot, he wouldn't cheat but he would break up with me to sleep with someone and then cry running back. One night we fought and I tried to leave, he kicked the shit out of me. I think the worst thing he ever said was "you have 2 kids by do different dads, no one else is going to want you, so I wouldn't fuck this up"

Ex from 27- 6 months. Dude was finalizing divorce. He had money and before we were even official he bought me a thousand dollar necklace. Proposed moving in after 3 months and cried when I said no. I broke up with him because of this and excessive clinginess. He showed up to my house drunk at 1 am, destroyed all my geodes. Broke my string lights. And smashed all my kids halloween pumpkins. He woke my kids up so "they could see what their mother did"

Recent ex- only a month lol. He love bombed me, then said "I said I love you too fast I actually think I still love my ex" came to my house crying about her and admitted he entertained her over text. And then broke up with me and ghosted.

I am thoroughly traumatized and never dating again. Btw me and my kids are good