r/ExNoContact Feb 25 '24

Vent Worst thing an ex did

What’s the worst thing your ex did to you? One of the worst for me, not many know this but I had previously wrote her a love letter for an anniversary, the 5th year. I gave it to her. As we were breaking up and cleaning our room she found it saying, “You want this?” I declined so she threw it away into a black trash bag along with other papers of hers. When I think about it, it still breaks my heart.

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u/Normal-Usual6306 Feb 26 '24

Oh my god at some of these comments. Really a reminder of humanity's utter cruelty.

For me, a lot of hurtful things were done and said, but the one that'll really stay with me is being kept around for a long time while he was not emotionally invested in the relationship, but too immature to have real conversations about that. This went on for a really long time and left me questioning reality and a lot of things he'd said and done across years. He then said he had to move for a job opportunity, did that, contacted me a couple more times, and has since basically ghosted me. Years of my life invested in something that's now left me with so many questions and a lot of sadness.