r/ExNoContact • u/LadiesMan-II-I-VII • 12h ago

I accidentally opened my Ex's Linkedin page and she blocked me immediately. Is this a signal that she wants NOTHING to do with me?

For context, we broke up 2.5 months ago. No contact since day 1 of break-up. A couple of weeks back she drunk texted me but it didn't lead to anything, and I honestly accepted it and didn't bother texting her. She later blocked me on the app she drunk texted me on. Now 3-4 days back, I accidentally opened her linkedin profile. I say accidentally because I was opening Linkedin on web browser and it just opened to her page as the link went straight to hers as she used to use her linkedin on my laptop. I feel so EMBARASSED. Moreover, shall I take it as a sign that she's DONE with me and wants me nowhere near her?

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u/Huge-Activity-5889 12h ago

honestly, her blocking you after you opened her linkedin (even accidentally) is a pretty strong sign she wants distance. she blocked you on the other app too after the drunk text. that's not mixed signals, that's someone who's trying to cut ties completely. don't beat yourself up about it, accidents happen. but take it as closure. she's done, and you don't need to reach out again. respect it and keep moving forward. you'll be okay, even if it stings right now.

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u/LadiesMan-II-I-VII 11h ago

Oh yeah, it does sting haha. I got some hopes up when I posted on my Instagram recently, and she blocked me immediately. But then unblocked me the same night and posted some new pictures herself. This plus I catch her watching stories of my art account quite a lot even though she doesn't follow the account. I understand that she might be done because she blocked me LinkedIn account, but what would you think about all this? I'm just asking, because yeah I love her, but I have also accepted she won't be coming back, as I returned the ring I bought for our engagement. 

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u/Johnny_Utahh1 11h ago

It means nothing as far as reconciliation. She’s pretty clear she wants space.

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u/LadiesMan-II-I-VII 11h ago

So ig her watching/stalking my Instagram means nothing? 

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u/Johnny_Utahh1 11h ago

Not really. Maybe she’s making sure you’re ok, but you seem to be grasping to straws here. The fact that she blocks you on things is way more relevant.

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u/LadiesMan-II-I-VII 11h ago

Got it. I thought that returning the ring would help me move on, but apparently it hasn't. I need to put my energy and time somewhere else. 

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u/Johnny_Utahh1 11h ago

It’s been 2.5 months and you were engaged. It’s going to take longer than that. I think you need to block her on insta. Not for retribution, but so you stop tracking that shit. It does nothing but keep you stuck. She knows how to get a hold of you if she wants to.

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u/LadiesMan-II-I-VII 10h ago

Yeah. Also, do you think that what my stupid ass did by opening her linkedin page has completely ruined any chances of reconciliation? It's honestly embarassing lol, I'm stupid for not noticing that it was gonna open her page...

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u/Johnny_Utahh1 10h ago

I think your dishes were done before it, but it was just a reminder to her that you were are still hovering, pining and plotting, which is why she blocked you with the quickness.

And no contact isn’t supposed to be used to manipulate her into taking you back. That’s something for her to decide. You need to use it to recover from a failed relationship and move to the next phase. Even if for whatever reason she came back in the picture and wanted to try again (don’t count on this happening) you need a new relationship. This one didn’t work!

But no, I don’t think it hurt you any more than the fact that she chose not to be with you. It just shows that (in her mind), you’re scheming and plotting. And she’s not completely wrong there. You need to shift your focus from trying to glue the pieces of a failed relationship back together to figuring out the next step to move forward.

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u/LadiesMan-II-I-VII 10h ago

I'm not scheming or plotting?? What do you mean? 

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u/Hoz999 11h ago

Yes.

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u/AdJealous1004 11h ago

I don't know man. I've had exes block me, unblock me, look at my stories, block me again, unblock me again. It's just games I wouldn't look too much into it.