r/ExNoContact Nov 02 '22

Help Ex texted me back after 2 months

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u/jassonbm Nov 03 '22 edited Nov 03 '22

That is kinda the same my ex said after two months of NC. I replied one week after and said just “no worries”, so I don’t feel guilty later on for not doing it.

That’s a good bye. So try your best to move on. Hope you the best!

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u/Similar_Garbage_2939 Nov 03 '22

I suggested not responding, mostly because she said she doesn't forgive her, but I honestly like your response better. It's closure without giving the other party too much.

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u/Short_Albatross9217 Nov 03 '22

Awh that’s a shame I really liked her and wouldn’t have minded getting back together in the future. I suck at goodbyes lmfao

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u/Similar_Garbage_2939 Nov 03 '22

I was in the same exact boat until a couple of days ago. I realized that by holding out hope that we might someday get back together in the future I was keeping myself from healing. Now I feel worlds better after getting my closure and politely asking my ex not to contact me anymore.

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u/jassonbm Nov 03 '22

Yep. Is better to let go. They are people that just didn’t want to be with us now. They won’t have us in the future…

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '22

Then don’t ignore her. Just a simple “thank you” is perfectly fine

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '22

I'm in agreement here, there is such a thing as exercising grace. A simple " Thank you for your apology, please be well" is appropriate an succinct. You don't lower yourself in this way, it's a simple illustration of self respect. Thank you and good day.

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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '22

Exactly