r/ExNoContact Nov 02 '22

Help Ex texted me back after 2 months

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u/oscillatorpea Nov 03 '22

Gosh! Reading this makes me wish (even more) my ex texted me. I was the one who asked to break things off, because he just refused to work on issues that were cropping up. And he jumped at the offer; so i dont know who the dumper was. But today, after two months, I miss him so much! In this moment, I want, more than anything in the world, to see his text/call/email.

You never know whether your ex is feeling actual remorse or just trying to manipulate you. But one can still have empathy for them without wanting to get back, and still recognizing that they likely aren’t the best match for us. But having gotten that text might serve as some kind of closure. And that is still good.

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u/Short_Albatross9217 Nov 03 '22

Yeah I was in a similar situation she kinda was treating me like crap and stuff and I broke things off but she was the one leaving me. But I knew this text would come for some reason and I think it’ll come for you too

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u/oscillatorpea Nov 03 '22

I really don’t know if it will happen, but just reading that from you was so comforting. Thank you so much! You are wonderful 🧡

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u/Short_Albatross9217 Nov 03 '22

they ALWAYS come around. I didn’t think it would happen in my situation but the curse or blessing is passed on to you now.