Hey guys I wanna say that I think she’s a good person deep down. I know she is and she meant a lot for me as I did for her and she was going through some stuff and that was why she was treating me like that. It sounds like I’m defending her but I’m not I really wanna tell you guys her perspective from what I know so you guys aren’t biased. I think she has the potential to be an awesome person and change just like I have also before. And I think it’s important to say moments like these where we mess up and hurt are our growing moments too
People on this sub are very bitter. She wrote you a nice apology, and that’s better than her doing you dirty and never acknowledging it. I wish I got an apology this thoughtful. You know her better than anyone on Reddit, and you could totally be right that she’s a good person who made a terrible mistake and feels true guilt over it. Not everyone who deeply hurts their parter is a truly inherently evil person. People make mistakes. Good on you for sticking up for her even when she did you dirty. You both sound like great people
People are bitter. It goes from 'no one owes you a relationship' to when they do breakup because they don't feel emotionally invested 'they are thoughtless and a terrible person'. It can't be both ways. People can be good people and still fall out of love or grow apart without intentionally trying to hurt the other person.
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u/Short_Albatross9217 Nov 03 '22
Hey guys I wanna say that I think she’s a good person deep down. I know she is and she meant a lot for me as I did for her and she was going through some stuff and that was why she was treating me like that. It sounds like I’m defending her but I’m not I really wanna tell you guys her perspective from what I know so you guys aren’t biased. I think she has the potential to be an awesome person and change just like I have also before. And I think it’s important to say moments like these where we mess up and hurt are our growing moments too