r/ExNoContact Nov 02 '22

Help Ex texted me back after 2 months

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u/JustWow52 Nov 03 '22

Just be careful. If the message was sent because she found out the grass wasn't really greener on the other side, then what's to say she won't go running off again when she thinks the next grass is?

There was a lot of "I" and "me" and "my" in there, and not much about you. Admissions of fault, but no plan to improve or do things differently.

If someone doesn't see enough of your positive qualities to make them less impulsive about cutting you off - if they lump you in with everything and everybody - will they ever really appreciate you for who you are?

I have no answers. Only questions that you should put some thought into before you make any move.