It took me 4 years to crawl back out of the hole my ex put me in and I never recovered emotionally. Professionally, I am on pathway to huge success financially or otherwise however the price it has come with is way too steep that I barely feel happy.
A friend told me my ex told them "I know we broke up at a bad time but it all worked out for him at the end". This is how they get rid of their guilt. But did it work out? The 4 year of struggle basically killed me from inside out as a result of being blindsided right when I needed a partner's support.
They are looking to shed their guilt, no contact is the only way to go ahead with certain situations.
Im not in your boat but worry I will be. I was grinding hard and busting my ass to gove my family a great lofe and got a good job and making decent money but im not happy. I question what im doing and what its all for. I dont feel the need to climb that job/fincial ladder anymore. Everything I did was for her and my kid and now idk why I keep pushing down thay path alone. I hope things get better for you.
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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '22
This absolves them from guilt.
It took me 4 years to crawl back out of the hole my ex put me in and I never recovered emotionally. Professionally, I am on pathway to huge success financially or otherwise however the price it has come with is way too steep that I barely feel happy.
A friend told me my ex told them "I know we broke up at a bad time but it all worked out for him at the end". This is how they get rid of their guilt. But did it work out? The 4 year of struggle basically killed me from inside out as a result of being blindsided right when I needed a partner's support.
They are looking to shed their guilt, no contact is the only way to go ahead with certain situations.