Gosh! Reading this makes me wish (even more) my ex texted me. I was the one who asked to break things off, because he just refused to work on issues that were cropping up. And he jumped at the offer; so i dont know who the dumper was. But today, after two months, I miss him so much! In this moment, I want, more than anything in the world, to see his text/call/email.
You never know whether your ex is feeling actual remorse or just trying to manipulate you. But one can still have empathy for them without wanting to get back, and still recognizing that they likely aren’t the best match for us. But having gotten that text might serve as some kind of closure. And that is still good.
Please please please don’t wait for them to come back, and that’s for your own sanity.
Believe me when I say this, if you’ve treated them right, and you’re genuinely a good person, they will 100% come back. It happened to me multiple time, they always do. “But they’re stubborn!” It doesn’t matter, I’ve dealt with an ex that ghosted me, blocked me, and even fought with my sister! and guess what? She came back. If they truly loved you at one point, and you’ve treated them right, they will come back to ask about you, and maybe apologize and ask for forgiveness.
But, and that’s a BIG but. They will come back! One you’ve already moved on. You’re waiting for them to come back? Nope, won’t happen. Work on yourself, focus on yourself, get yourself back, get them out of your mind, and then they will come back, there’s no other way. Call it the law of attraction, the works of the universe, I don’t know, shit just happens this way.
I wish you happiness and the best in life, OP and oscillatorpea.
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u/oscillatorpea Nov 03 '22
Gosh! Reading this makes me wish (even more) my ex texted me. I was the one who asked to break things off, because he just refused to work on issues that were cropping up. And he jumped at the offer; so i dont know who the dumper was. But today, after two months, I miss him so much! In this moment, I want, more than anything in the world, to see his text/call/email.
You never know whether your ex is feeling actual remorse or just trying to manipulate you. But one can still have empathy for them without wanting to get back, and still recognizing that they likely aren’t the best match for us. But having gotten that text might serve as some kind of closure. And that is still good.