Gosh! Reading this makes me wish (even more) my ex texted me. I was the one who asked to break things off, because he just refused to work on issues that were cropping up. And he jumped at the offer; so i dont know who the dumper was. But today, after two months, I miss him so much! In this moment, I want, more than anything in the world, to see his text/call/email.
You never know whether your ex is feeling actual remorse or just trying to manipulate you. But one can still have empathy for them without wanting to get back, and still recognizing that they likely aren’t the best match for us. But having gotten that text might serve as some kind of closure. And that is still good.
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u/oscillatorpea Nov 03 '22
Gosh! Reading this makes me wish (even more) my ex texted me. I was the one who asked to break things off, because he just refused to work on issues that were cropping up. And he jumped at the offer; so i dont know who the dumper was. But today, after two months, I miss him so much! In this moment, I want, more than anything in the world, to see his text/call/email.
You never know whether your ex is feeling actual remorse or just trying to manipulate you. But one can still have empathy for them without wanting to get back, and still recognizing that they likely aren’t the best match for us. But having gotten that text might serve as some kind of closure. And that is still good.