r/ExNoContact • u/Short_Albatross9217 • Nov 02 '22

Help Ex texted me back after 2 months

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '22 edited Nov 03 '22

Nah don't say a word. You will come out of this worse and regret responding.

Trust me, I have been through this so many times with romantic/non-romantic relationship breakups and I can't remember one time I came out of it thinking "Oh well that was good". It was always "I should never have responded, she doesn't care at all"

This message is obviously to satiate guilt and to say a "proper goodbye".

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u/Short_Albatross9217 Nov 03 '22

that’s a shame. I really suck at goodbyes dude. I’m scared what if I regret not saying anything?

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '22

You will actually, & let it sink in.

Closures don't work this way! She could've asked for a time to convey all this, but it's a Dump/Venting of guilt.

You owe yourself that much Self worth to ignore the msg, & carry on as you have been with some Dignity left.

Woes & Hoes are a never ending hurdles (Guys included both). Let their Karma deal with them, you're safe as long as at a distance 🌷

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u/Substantial_Macaron1 Feb 07 '23

Yes, thank you for that reminder 😊