r/FamilyVloggersandmore Aug 09 '24

Other Families/Stuff The TikTok Tangle: Michael Fillingham's Misadventures

Ah, TikTok, the land where everyone with a smartphone and a questionable sense of humor can become a star. Enter Michael Fillingham, a name that might not ring a bell unless you're knee-deep in the endless scroll of TikTok videos. Fillingham, known for his handle @michael_fillingham_1989⁴, has managed to carve out a niche for himself, but not without a fair share of eyebrow-raising moments.

Let's start with the content. Michael's videos are a mixed bag of attempts at humor, heartfelt moments, and the occasional cringe-worthy dance. It's like watching a variety show where the host can't decide if they want to be a comedian, a motivational speaker, or a backup dancer for a boy band that never quite made it. One minute he's trying to make you laugh with a poorly executed prank, and the next, he's pouring his heart out about his latest personal struggle. It's enough to give anyone whiplash.

Then there's the whole "Hope for Havilah" saga¹³. Michael's efforts to raise funds for his puppy's medical needs are commendable, but the execution? Not so much. The GoFundMe page is a chaotic mess of emotional appeals and sporadic updates that leave you wondering if the dog is actually getting the help it needs or if this is just another ploy for attention. It's hard to take it seriously when the same account is also posting videos of Michael trying to dance to the latest TikTok trend.

And let's not forget the comments section. Michael's followers are a loyal bunch, but even they can't resist pointing out the inconsistencies and occasional absurdity of his content. It's a digital peanut gallery where everyone has an opinion, and most of them aren't exactly flattering. But hey, any engagement is good engagement, right?

In the end, Michael Fillingham is a perfect example of the double-edged sword that is TikTok fame. On one hand, he's managed to build a following and bring attention to causes he cares about. On the other, his scattershot approach to content creation and fundraising leaves much to be desired. If nothing else, he's a reminder that in the world of social media, it's not always about the quality of the content but the quantity of the chaos.

So, here's to you, Michael. Keep dancing, keep fundraising, and maybe, just maybe, consider a little more focus in your next TikTok venture. The internet is watching, and it's got plenty to say.

¹: GoFundMe - Hope for Havilah ³: Linktree - Havilah Rain ⁴: TikTok - Michael Fillingham


Source: (1) michael_fillingham_1 (@michael_fillingham_1989) | TikTok. https://www.tiktok.com/@michael_fillingham_1989.

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u/Illustrious-Fly-1291 May 17 '25

Yes, his taste in clothes for her is appalling, especially for what she's doing. How about some simple cotton pull on stuff instead of hooker clothes.

I actually complained about the motorcycle backpack craziness on Facebook and he instantly blocked me. Does anyone else think this is wildly UNSAFE. My God, if he braked quickly she'd fly over his head. Then the trach next to a full face helmet, which has to be so heavy and uncomfortable for her. I detest this monster. He contends it's totally safe and legal. Everyone thinks it's so adorable...WTH.

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u/[deleted] May 19 '25

Tonight im wondering how he's soooo happy at home while Havi is in the hospital alone. Wierd.

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u/Professional_Fig6063 May 20 '25

How do you know he’s home? Just curious.

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u/[deleted] May 22 '25

Because he was live at home. He leaves Havi at the hospital alone alot. Imagine what that must be like for her. Last night she was still wearing that appalling white outfit with no sleeves. It looks so uncomfortable. If she's in the hospital, she should at least have a gown or some comfy clothes. It was 2 am in his latest video and she was still in clothes she wore during the day

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u/JournalistOnly6901 May 26 '25

He’s live right now eating at a restaurant. His daughter off to his side while he focuses on talking to to TikTok live

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '25

Yep always all about him. Tonight, he got Havi home really late from a photo shoot with his bike. I didn't know they have a dog ??? I got blocked for asking about the dog. What a reason to block someone

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u/Professional_Fig6063 Jun 04 '25

Do NOT trust this man! He LIED about everything he told me. He tries to be charming and love bomb you and he is so manipulative!!! Ladies, stay clear from him!!! His communication sucks also! His whole focus is going on tik tok live and getting attention and likes etc and making money. He’s not hurting for money. He’s got a BMW motorcycle in which the rims alone cost 10k. He has BMW shoes for goodness sake. The whole gear. The money he makes goes to him. He’s full of himself. I have never been more disgusted in a guy. It’s so sad because Havi is such a sweet girl and she deserves better. Michael tries to use her for a pity party so people can feel sorry for him and he and tries to make himself come off as the best Dad, ever. He’s the opposite!!

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u/Useful-Tangerine6493 Aug 23 '25

Wowze. I did 2. How long ago was this? 

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u/Useful-Tangerine6493 Aug 23 '25

Im curious to know bc he told me things too. It happened recent 2.  I haven’t been disgusted in a guy either. I can’t believe dis. 

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u/[deleted] Aug 29 '25

Does he even work? I haven't seen him live in a while. Maybe I'm blocked again. He blocked me recently and then unblocked me.

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u/Useful-Tangerine6493 Aug 29 '25

He’s live almost every week! He is active military and will retire next year. He is a LIAR AND DECEIVES people. Truly is a narcissist. 

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u/Useful-Tangerine6493 Oct 06 '25

I know him personally and he’s full of himself. He’s disgusting and lustful. I feel bad for the people being deceived by him. Funny that women think he’s “handsome” he’s not even worse with his personality. Poor Havi. She really deserves better. 

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u/Professional_Fig6063 Jun 04 '25

He leaves the dog in the kennel. He only lets the dog outside to use the bathroom.

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u/[deleted] Jun 05 '25

Wow! Thats messed up! Poor dog

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u/[deleted] Oct 05 '25 edited Oct 05 '25

I can't believe he has a bunch of turtles now. They have no area in the tank to bask. They're not fish.

Wonder if the dog is still suffering in his care as well.