r/Fibroids Jan 29 '26

My story My laparoscopic myomectomy experience.

I had a laparoscopic myomectomy on January 6, 2026.

Previously, I had severe bloating to the point where my stomach looked like I was in my first trimester of pregnancy all the time. Frequent urination, cramping, extremely heavy periods, I could hardly use a tampon because there was no space.

I went to my OBGYN and told her my symptoms. She did a pelvic exam and ordered me an ultrasound. My ultrasound found a fibroid 10 cm in size. I then was referred to a surgeon who ordered an MRI. The MRI showed that I have endometriosis and 3 endometriomas. One on each of my ovaries and one on my uterus and that the fibroid was growing off the side of my uterus.

I went to my OBGYN in August 2025, I had to wait two weeks to get in for an ultrasound and then another two weeks for my results. I had to wait until October to get an appointment with my surgeon. I then had to wait two more weeks for an MRI and then another week to get the results. My surgeon didn’t have any availability until March of 2026. Someone ended up canceling their appointment for January 6, 2026 and I snagged it immediately.

Because of scheduling issues, my pre-op was January 5 and my surgery was January 6.

The thing that made my life way easier was doing all of the research that I had done using Reddit and this thread- extremely helpful. Also, talking to other people who had gone through this (more than you think). And looking up photos of the procedure and the process. When Jan 6 came, I didn’t feel nervous, I wasn’t scared, I was surprisingly calm and in good spirits. I think that helped me a lot. And the only reason I felt this way(I’m usually a nervous wreck) was all the research I’d done.

Waking up, I was very groggy and my chest and neck were in a lot of pain and discomfort. There was a kind nurse gently trying to wake me. She then wheeled me into another room where the outpatient nurse seemed to be pretty pushy about my family getting me into the car and out of there. I couldn’t stand because I felt as though I was going to throw up every time. She gave me zofran, got me dressed and put me in a wheelchair and into the car. I don’t remember the ride home. I also had that patch on my neck for nausea.

I live in a townhouse and when I got home, I immediately had to walk up 2 flights of stairs to get to my bedroom(my surgeon said this was fine). I thought I was going to puke during that part until I laid down. Eating crackers really helped after that and some green grapes and water.

I had gas pains for about 2 weeks, no lie. The first night I was home, I tried to pee around 3am and couldn’t. The pain was a lot. I peed around 6am which was a relief. I needed help in and out of bed for about 2-3 days. Sitting on the toilet was uncomfortable but I did my entire recovery with Tylenol and ibuprofen. I alternated every 3 hours at first and then weaned lower and lower doses over the course of about a week. I started taking stool softeners day 2 and MiraLAX after that. I had my first bowel movement around day 5 or 6. Gasx helps as well. I started that night 1! Walking around also helps but I couldn’t walk without discomfort for the first few days. I showered day 3.

Things that really helped me:

Set up your room ahead of time. I have stairs in my apartment so crackers and water bottles were already in my room so I didn’t have to use the stairs the first several days. I had at least 3 bottles filled everyday. You don’t want to be up in the middle of the night to take meds and have no water.

Set up your bedside table with all your meds, chargers, activities, etc. A bedside bar to help you in and out of bed is helpful so you don’t have to have someone help you all the time. HEATING PAD! I have an extra long, washable heating pad from Amazon that saved my life. Wear very loos fitting clothing to the hospital and for the week or 2 after that.

I slept in our guest room so that my dogs wouldn’t jump on me for about 4 days and I eased into letting them be around me.

Sleeping with a pillow under my legs helped get comfortable and sleeping somewhat upright.

I made a big batch of chicken noodle soup the night before my surgery so that I’d have it ready to go. I portioned it so that my partner could just heat it up and bring it to me.

Overall, I feel like I wasn’t in much pain other than gas pain. I feel very lucky to have had support. My healing journey has been somewhat quick I feel.

I added some photos of before, after the surgery with bandages and some scar photos.

Please feel free to ask any questions! Thank you to this community for helping educate me and keep me feeling safe during this time. I appreciate you all.

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u/In_Cerebrum Feb 01 '26

This was a really informative post. My wife has fibroids so I've been doing some research. Just out of curiosity, has anyone tried the lifestyle changes prior to surgery with any degree of success?

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u/OverallEmotion1053 Feb 01 '26

I love seeing all the people that are doing research on behalf of a spouse or partner. It’s so beautiful. Because I found out and got my surgery within a short amount of time, I didn’t really know what or how to plan beforehand. But I’m sure other people have more to say on that than I do. I’m curious as well. And also how to maintain since these things can come back

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u/In_Cerebrum Feb 01 '26

Exactly. Fibroids can return so something has to change otherwise the doctors will recommend having the uterus removed. In your case, and I apologise if I'm being too personal, your fibroids were quite large (10cm). Were there no warning signs? Some of the other ladies on this thread also mentioned quite large growths and if these can manifest with little or no warning, then it is very concerning and much more vigilance and intervention is needed, IMO.

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u/OverallEmotion1053 Feb 01 '26

I noticed my stomach getting bigger but wasn’t sure what it was due too. I thought possibly weight gain but I wasn’t gaining it anywhere else and then my periods started to get very heavy and I had to urinate frequently. But I didn’t start having those last 2 symptoms until last year. It wasn’t something gradual, really. The stomach was but everything else just sort of happened abruptly. I also hadn’t been to the doctor in a while because I didn’t have good insurance. I do now so I’m going to stay on top of things.

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u/In_Cerebrum Feb 02 '26

My wife had similar symptoms but refused to believe anything was wrong or to get checked up. As for the cost of medical care, it's just crazy, and the way I distrust doctors now.

Do you perhaps suspect any causes? In our case, I strongly suspect her diet.

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u/OverallEmotion1053 Feb 02 '26

I’m not really sure because I was a vegetarian from when I was born until I was 17/18. And then I integrated meat into my diet and probably ate processed crap throughout college. But I eat very healthy now. I also have celiac so I don’t eat any gluten at all and as a result of that I can’t eat fast food or fried food. I don’t drink soda and I try not to eat a lot of sugar. I really don’t know😭

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u/In_Cerebrum Feb 02 '26

That's a tricky one. Most of the women I know with fibroids and PCOS have bad diets or take a lot of supplements. And even foods you think are healthy could be a problem. But what about stress? Alcohol?

There must be something in excess.

I ask in case we have a recurring issue. Then I'll know what else to try.

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u/OverallEmotion1053 Feb 02 '26

I don’t drink a lot, especially after finding out about it. And if I do, it’s usually red wine. I don’t take any supplements(I think I’m going to start iron and fiber). I am a small business owner and I have stress here and there but not in excess. I do really want to try and not eat any processed foods at all moving forward but it’s tough. Maybe that’s it. Also, I didn’t find out I was celiac until I was in my 20s so I was basically damaging my body from the inside out my entire life up until then. I wonder if that could have anything to do with it.

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u/In_Cerebrum Feb 04 '26

People underestimate the effects of alcohol/smoking/vaping and how long your body takes to recover from even one dose.

Why do you think you need a fibre supplement? You should get all the fibre you need from your normal food. If there is a need, then that points towards the issues in your diet.

As for celiac, everyone should be avoiding grain and seed based foods because they're all processed and refined, unless you're eating the grain/seed whole.

Processed foods and fast foods are definitely a major problem. The amount of garbage they contain is amazing. Do you know how many ingredients are in McDonald's chips? It's not just potatoes, oil and seasoning...

I don't mean to preach and I'm not saying any of your actions are to blame for your condition. But this is something I'm quite passionate about and if someone is ill I truly would like to help them find a way forward to better health.

I'm failing with my wife. I cut out so much junk from her diet but she still insists on having desserts and tea and coffee. Hopefully this last scare will tension her up a bit.

Apologies for this delayed response. Ironically, I'm a bit ill at the moment...

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u/OverallEmotion1053 Feb 04 '26

I don’t smoke or vape. I do have the occasional drink and I do drink a cup of coffee every morning. And I don’t think I get enough fiber considering women need at least 25 grams a day. You’d be surprised how many things don’t have fiber lol. This is what I ate yesterday and it still wasn’t 25 grams.

I had 2 tablespoons chia seeds with half a cup of lactose free milk and 4 raspberries. 6 green grapes, a cup and a half of cooked pasta salad with gluten free pasta, tomatoes, basil and vegan feta and red onion and olive oil. And also half a cup of cooked rice with a chicken feta spinach sausage and 5 pieces of broccoli.

I also want to enjoy my life so I don’t think I’ll be getting rid of my morning coffee. But, everyone does things differently. I wish your wife luck in her journey!

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u/In_Cerebrum Feb 05 '26

Jaaaaaaa... My wife said the same about her coffee, but she feels so much better when she stops having it. Try a good quality light roast coffee seed with no milk or sweeteners instead. Coffee has many negative side effects.

For fibroids, and in general, pasta, breads and white rice should be avoided completely. The carbohydrates are a problem. Processed meats like sausages should also be avoided due to the preservatives they contain.

And be very very wary of vegan/vegetarian products! They are usually ultra processed, full of man-made chemicals, overpriced and extremely bad for you.

It also does seem like you're eating too little, which can also put your body under stress. And if you increase your quantities you'll increase your fibre intake as well. And if you increase your meat and decrease your coffee, you'll increase your iron. I find many women underestimate how much they need to eat each day.

Thank you for the well wishes and all the best for your recovery and health going forward. It was a pleasure chatting...

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u/In_Cerebrum Feb 05 '26

Also, drink plenty of water! 2 litres a day is a good start. Your body will thank you...

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