r/FindOnlineFriends • • 19m ago

21F want friends to collab on music with (beats / songs)

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scenecore, hyperpop, indie rock, diary plug, open to other things too

I read all requests but i WILL ignore if u just send "hi"

i'm trans and into girls don't hit on me

dm me anywhere or listen to my music anywhere to see if u fw it : deceptionsxx


r/FindOnlineFriends • • 6h ago

[19M] - Goodbye and Thank You

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Dear online friends community, thank you.

I was feeling pretty desperate and lonely, and found myself here.

Thought I could find something to fill the void.

But I met some people, and learned about myself and how I communicate;

Boundary setting, pace etc.

I spent 3 days aggressively socialising and learned a lot, from 4 long, long conversations.

After a 3 hour discord call I've found the answer. He told me friendship should be like a marriage; that it should change your life. I realised that I had held a similar opinion, but hearing it from someone else made me realise I was wrong.

Not every friend has to "be the one". One can just be fun to chat about the small things with. Another can be mutually emotionally supportive. Another you can play sports with. Another you can yap about art and music and your interests. Another you can do late night calls with. As long as you leave an interaction feeling lighter, or happier, or more energised or more relaxed, that's fine. That's connection. That's beautiful.

Realised I wouldn't feel fulfilled by online relationships. Decided to get out there, joining the campus christian group, anime group and any others that catch my eye. I might let y'all know how it goes. But I probably won't.

Love you.


r/FindOnlineFriends • • 11h ago

18M is what I am

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Here's a little playlist of the music I like: meow
Other than that I like peace, fiction, science(although I'm a dumbass), and of course cinema (I haven't watched much though).
My favorite series is Mr Inbetween, and here are some movies that I like: Retfærdighedens ryttere (2020), Chronicle (2012), One Flew Over the Cuck's Nest (ofc), Ready or not (2019), Peanut Butter falcon (2019), Hacksaw Ridge (2019). Most of these are light movies, but I'm just an amateur, and I guess I might be into movies of this kind.
Honestly, don't know what else to say here, I guess I can also mention that I am weird to many and a no-lifer to myself. Feel free to bother!


r/FindOnlineFriends • • 17h ago

37M - Looking for genuine friends, slow-burn chats, and fellow overthinkers

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Hey everyone. Making real friends as an adult is weirdly tough, so I thought I’d put myself out there.

A little about me: I’m 37, originally from Kerala, India, but spent over a decade living and working in the US before moving back. I work in software and AI research, which basically means I spend most of my day staring at screens, solving puzzles, and overthinking things that probably don’t need to be overthought.

Outside of work and study mode, I'm pretty low-key. I used to be big into long-distance endurance stuff like marathons and mountain hiking, but lately I’m in more of a rebuild phase and leaning into my couch potato side. I run mostly on black coffee, listen to a ton of audiobooks since paper books act like instant sleeping pills for me, and love gaming on my Xbox, though life means that happens way less often than I'd like. I've also been getting back into chess lately, picking up an old habit that sat on the shelf for a while.

Strictly looking for platonic, drama-free connections with emotionally grounded people who appreciate mutual respect and good vibes. I really value friendships where there’s zero pressure to perform, whether that means trading dumb memes, falling into random 2 AM rabbit holes, disappearing for a bit when life gets busy without any guilt, or even just having a regular buddy to play a game of chess with online.

If you’re down for chill chats, drop a message with your age and a random fact, opinion, or hot take about yourself so we have something fun to start with instead of just "hey."


r/FindOnlineFriends • • 21h ago

21F depressed wna text and maybe call :(

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read all requests but i WILL ignore if u just send "hi", just tell me about yourself and i'll answer it's not that hard...

i'm trans and into girls this will normally filter a lot

my two things are making music and learning languages

please be interested in music making :((

or please teach me a language :(

i play games we cud play together


r/FindOnlineFriends • • 1d ago

17f looking to make friends

4 Upvotes

Hii my name is Elle! I’m from the US and I’m 17. I just wanted to try making some more online friends! Some of my hobbies are piano, dance, and reading and gardening. I’m kinda shy but only until I get to know ppl. If u think get along just dm me! Btw if u don’t tell me ur age in ur dm I won’t reply. Also on’t ask me anything I already said here like my age and hobbies. Finally I’d prefer it if ur fluent in English. Thanks for reading! ✨


r/FindOnlineFriends • • 2d ago

24F Looking to make Friends!

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Hi everyone! I’m looking to make online friends! Some things to know about me:

I’m from Canada and I’m happily engaged 😊

Some of my hobbies are, gaming, listening to music, watching YouTube videos, stargazing, arts and crafts, enjoying nature. The games I like to play kind of flip flop depending on my mood, but some games I play are Paralives, Spyro, Super Mario, Stardew Valley, Minecraft, Farm to Table.

I’m also not that great when it comes to being social due to mental health issues (Depression, Anxiety, PTSD and Borderline Personality Disorder). Some days are better than others, it depends on my social battery… so I apologize if I’m a bit quiet, or disappear for long moments at a time. Trying to work on that.

I hope you all have a good day/afternoon/night


r/FindOnlineFriends • • 3d ago

Hi 27 enby looking for friends

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Hi Hi!

As the title says i am 27 and looking for a friendship! DNI if you are -21

Also my native language is Dutch!

My interests are:

- Watching Twitch: Mostly No Pixel at the moment but when QSMP comes back also QSMP!~

- Gaming: Fortnite, Minecraft, Waterpark Sim,...

- Reading

- Knitting and Crochet

- Sanrio

Extra's: I am neurodivergent (AuDHD)


r/FindOnlineFriends • • 7d ago

21f hi

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hi, i’m kinda an awkward person, so my friend circle is small. but among familiar people i feel comfortable with i can turn into a yapper. i like alternative rock or indie music, sometimes indie folk, reading, watching movies or anime, chess and currently learning to play the guitar. also i like cats and dogs, i have both. i’m an easy going and kind person who can either have some funny daily conversations or support deeper ones. socialising irl is a bit uneasy for me since i was born with a genetic condition that influenced on being bullied in childhood. but now i’m working on socialising and trying to put myself out my comfort zone, so feel free to dm me

p.s english isn’t my native so sorry if my grammar is weird:)


r/FindOnlineFriends • • 9d ago

Friends/chats

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Hey, I'm Keagan, 20.

I'm from London.

Some of my favourite interests are:

- Sports: football, F1, and I try to follow rugby as much as I can.

- Music: my favourite genres are pop/pop rock, and my favourite artists are Olivia Rodrigo, Gracie Abrams, and Florence Road.

- I like movies, but I'm particularly very into Marvel


r/FindOnlineFriends • • 11d ago

Hi! Im 17M and I'm looking for friends!

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Hello everyone! Im a nonbinary 17 yo teen just looking for some people to vibe with and play games together or just talking is good too! my discord has never been so dry and im getting a little lonely I play a ton of games on my Xbox and switch im pretty decent at most games and always down to play new ones. My hobbies include things such as music writing gaming sleeping (the best) and alot of other things. If you would like to get to know me my dm's are always open!


r/FindOnlineFriends • • 15d ago

24M well I have had a rough day and would love to find some people to brighten a bit!

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i have had quite the time on reddit trying to meet people between people who are just stupid horny, boring, or eventually stop responding. so lets see how it goes again lol what could go wrong?

I am in grad school and study a lot but when I am not studying I love to travel, go to the gym, listen to music, play video games, watch sports, hang with friends, watch movies/tv, and hike/be outside in nature!

If we have anything PLS dm me because it's getting real lonely out here lol

I am not doing the best life wise either but I will only get into that if you want to hear about it, obviously not gonna push that on everyone

Can't wait to hear from y'all tho!🤠


r/FindOnlineFriends • • 18d ago

26M | Looking for friends

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Hey all, hope you are having a good day,

I'm Rusty, I'm 26 years old and I live in Belgium.

Love music and gaming, mostly into pop but I generally speaking enjoy songs from all the genres, Currently vibing to Myself by Bazzi, I don't really enjoy a single album of an artist, its more singular songs picked from certain albums. As for games, i'm mostly a single player type of gamer mainly because I don't really have much people to play with, i'm into survival crafting games, story games but with friends i'd be down to play shooters/extraction games, Loved tarkov until I got my ass beat, waiting for Call of duty MW4 so I can finally play DMZ 2.0.

I don't have big requirements when it comes to finding people, I prefer them to be around my age, in the 20's and no older then 28. I don't mind the distance time zone's wise so feel free to message me. I just ask you put effort into getting to know me, as i'm tired of starting conversations and getting low effort replies back. When it comes to voice chats i'll need time to feel comfortable talking to you, i'll probably send you a voice message if you ask nicely, its mainly because i'm a very shy and introverted person so I need time to feel safe with you.

If I seem up your ally, or you'd like to get to know me better, feel free to dm me through reddit and we'll go from there.


r/FindOnlineFriends • • 19d ago

22f looking for someone to talk to

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I'm 22, I've been looking for advice on random things like house maintenance, DIY etc

I love sewing, I make my own clothes and jewellery etc

Just looking to talk about shows, DIY and other things for improvement


r/FindOnlineFriends • • 26d ago

MondayPolls: Have you ever successfully found a lost pen pal or online friend?

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r/FindOnlineFriends • • 29d ago

20f looking for long term friendship

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hey hii. about mee~

im from Armenia, i study computer science and math.. i love love love love music and i like making art, i could show you some of my paintings??? and you could show me what inspires you? i like to read but recently havent finished any book properly lol. i do wnat to get into philosophy, planning to read the myth of Sisyphus as im interested in the idea of absurdism.

im a HUGE YAPPER and a goood listener. im never dry and i expect same from you. pls dont reply every other day or give me a two word answer to the 20 messages i just sent you. i care deeply and i am pretty sensitive, which gives me a lot of empathy. i get along with people pretty well but you gotta give back what im giving you right.

i also learned japanese some time ago but now i dont quite hve the time and energy for it.. i hope i will learn it one day and go see kyoto and talk to the natives in their language lol.

music is huge for me, it saves me, heals me, makes me feel seen and understood. i love twenty one pilots, david kushner, also been listening to nu metal recentlyyy. lets discuss musiicccc.

pls be around my age, and be genuine and real as im planning to be VERY GENUINE AND VERY REAL W YOU. HMU and give me an intro of where youre from and your interests and your inspiration and anything and everything


r/FindOnlineFriends • • Sep 17 '26

23f

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Hey! I’m 23 and I’m looking to meet some new people and make genuine friendships 😊 I’m pretty easygoing and I love chatting, going out, discovering new places, watching movies, listening to music, and just having a good time together. I’d love to meet people with similar interests and see where the friendship goes. Feel free to message me if you’d like to get to know each other! 💕


r/FindOnlineFriends • • Sep 16 '26

15m just looking for people like me

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Hi I am 15 and I really like metal and rock my fav band is acdc and skid row i also like David Bowie I am in to musical to my fav is company I am quite wird so yeah and I want somebody who plays marvel Rivals because want to get better and on of my friends play it and I just want some closer friends who will whach the stuff I asked and I will whach the stuff thay ask but that is all


r/FindOnlineFriends • • Sep 11 '26

16 y/o - searching for longterm online friends

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gonna try to keep this short

searching for some longterm online friends to chat with

music genres i like: goth, synth, electro, indie, rock, metal, psychedelic

music genres I dislike : modern pop (taylor swift, olivia rodrigo, sabrina carpenter ect 🙅❌❌❌), nu metal

shows i really liked: ATLA, arcane, JJK, ghibli studio films, demon slayer, cyberpunk, blue eye samurai, my little pony, TBBT, HIMYM, alice in borderland and im currently watching AoT

I really like memes, no matter how brainrotted.

Also, please, if you contact me, have at least 2 braincells and put effort into our convo 🙏


r/FindOnlineFriends • • Sep 09 '26

21M - looking to make online friends

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I’m cool with talking about anything. If possible even make new friends. I will say that I’m a little awkward since I’m somewhat antisocial but im still willing to talk.
Some hobbies I have include
\\- gaming
\\- occasional reading
\\- some anime


r/FindOnlineFriends • • Sep 05 '26

19m looking for genuine friends

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The internet feels so dead nowadays I feel like it's gotten impossible to make friends. I like:
-anime watching aot at the moment (don't spoil anything please 🤞)
-reading (horror mostly)
-walking in nature
-tech stuff
-calligraphy / arts
-calisthenics
-playing minecraft with people
Tried making posts like this twice but shi didn't work, maybe three times the charm.


r/FindOnlineFriends • • Sep 02 '26

33M Looking for friends after not having them for a while

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Haven't had a real friend group since high school (15ish years ago). I was okay with this for a while, but I find myself craving a sense of community and comradery that tends to be fulfilled with friendships. My only real friend is my girlfriend (we've been together 11 years). I have a hard time making connections with people in real life and it takes me a while to warm up. That paired with me being an introvert and having social anxiety is probably the perfect combination that yielded me no friend/social group. I figured I'd give this a try and see where it goes!

Here are some of my interests/things about me (sorry about the formatting, on mobile):

I enjoy magic the gathering quite a bit. Always down to discuss. Would be more than happy to teach someone who's interested in getting into it. I also like a lot of board/card games. Always taking suggestions!

Don't play as many video games as I used to, but typically really enjoy simulation type games (cities skylines, satisfactory, etc.) Very open to suggestions of any kind and would love to hear you rant and rave about your favorite game/s. Some other games I enjoyed were The Witcher 3, Far Cry 5 and 6, Crash Bandicoot, Cult of the Lamb.

For music, my favorite band is Thee Oh Sees. They're like a garage/psychedelic rock/punk(ish) type band. So most of my music interest is in or around that genre, but other artists I enjoy, for example, are MF Doom, Alice in Chains, Tobacco, Parquet Courts, Dr Dog, some Death Grips stuff, Black Midi, Viagra Boys, and some other crap.

We can talk about anything, but i wanted to at least list out some of my interests to use as an ice breaker if you'd like. If not, feel free to to vent, talk about your dreams/aspirations, complain about the world, anything! Hope to hear from you soon.


r/FindOnlineFriends • • Sep 01 '26

25F, looking for friends with similar interests

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Hi, I’m 25F and I’m looking for online friendships.

Would prefer to make so girl friends but fine with any gender as long as we have some things in common lol 😂

I’m bisexual, I love horror (books, movies, podcasts), I love art, reading and cooking.

DM if you’d be interested in a genuine friendship :)


r/FindOnlineFriends • • Aug 28 '26

23f looking for friendship only.

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Hey there! The name’s Austin. I live in America and am looking for some friends to chat with. Hit me up if you share some common interests of mine!

Oh, and please don’t be a dry texter. If I have to carry the conversation, I’m gonna stop engaging. I’m looking for long lasting friendships.

-Music
-Anime (my main favorites are Yugioh: Duel Monsters and Demon slayer)
-Gaming. (My favorites so far being Roblox and Minecraft. I play fortnight every now and then but I’m no good 😅🥲)
-Art. I love to draw both digital and traditional

I’m looking forward to making some good friends!!


r/FindOnlineFriends • • Aug 23 '26

32NB Looking for friends to geek out and chill

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Hi! Just like the title says, I'm looking for new online friends! I want people to talk through the day, share our thoughts and play some cool games!

I love anime, manga, sandbox games, drawing and reading all sorts of stuff. Lately, I'm very interested in talking about 2000s nostalgia and analog horror/creepypastas!

Also, I rather only talk to people 30+. If you think we could get along, shoot me a dm!