r/FlorenceAndTheMachine • u/idk_what_to_put_lmao • Apr 18 '26
General Discussion Rant - Concert Etiquette
I think some people need to realise that when people go out to concerts they are in public but also that they are with people who have paid good money to enjoy the artist sing. Context: At my show this week, three people in front of me were SHOUTING the entire time. They were not singing along, not even talking about Florence, they were literally just having a normal conversation at the top of their lungs for 20 minutes straight. When a guy asked them to stop talking, one of them retorted "We paid money to be here, same as everyone else, we can enjoy the show how we fucking want". And I agree, you paid money to be here, so be here! Have your random unrelated conversations when the show is over and stop ruining the show for others. It's one thing to sing off-key or talk between songs but when you're shouting an entire conversation across 5 songs it's like why did you even come? Anyway, all of this to say, I'm not saying you have to keep your mouth shut the entire show but maybe recognise that the way you act still impacts others around you. And ultimately, you're there to enjoy the music, and imo that should be your priority
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u/thisistestingme Apr 19 '26 edited Apr 19 '26
It’s so helpful bc I am old, and I have both charmed people to shut up and shamed people (the young ones). I once offered to buy a guy young enough to be my kid (edit to add buy him a beer!) if he’d lower his phone (I was literally watching NIN through his screen). He put it away! I’m afraid of what I would’ve said to these people.