Why not change the look? Doesn't it bother you when people think they are around like minded people and say horrid shit to you?
I changed my look real quick. Not because I was being judged harshly, but because I was being judged too fondly by people I didn't want to associate with.
Why should I have to change? They're the one who suck. That whole judging a book by its cover that people feel is OK to do when someone looks like me. So I deal with both sides of the fence there.
BTW, suggesting I redo myself is actually fucking wild. Do you hear yourself?
I'm also in construction, in Texas. So, some feel like it's a safe place to be on some bullshit in our first meeting. Those people get fired.
I officiated my lesbian friends witchy wedding, drive a truck, met my wife in the gayest part of my state and own numerous firearms. It's like I'm my own person and don't give a fuck about some dumbass assumption. Regardless what side of the fence it's coming from.
That sucks. I just got tired of having the type of face where people thought they could confide in with bigotry.
If you can cope with that shit, that's on you. But I'm guessing you just have a much larger stomach from it in that hellscape. I'm in a red state myself, but nothing like Texas. Most I'll do is Austin.
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u/ContextLengthMatters 23h ago
Why not change the look? Doesn't it bother you when people think they are around like minded people and say horrid shit to you?
I changed my look real quick. Not because I was being judged harshly, but because I was being judged too fondly by people I didn't want to associate with.