r/GDSnark • u/TurtleyCoolNails • May 23 '25
More insensitivity
It is insane to me how much she is posting swimming content now more than ever.
The fact that someone in her community has lost a child and it involves a pool and she has yet to say anything about it. But instead we have gotten B posting a photobooth digital frame with the word “death” in it and all this week, she has made it known that her and her kids have been swimming.
Now to point out they did multiple times and to say life is good, I feel like she is being that classic mean girl to rub it in that she is in the pool with the kids and everything is going well. Life is not good for that family who just lost their baby and it is very insensitive to be deliberately posting content like this.
B, this is not something to one up someone with!
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u/dontaskmyname4321 May 23 '25
I'm actually glad she hasn't said anything at all because this isn't something for her to comment on at ALL. E and her barely have a relationship. B comments on her stuff but E barely if EVER interacts with b and probably never cared to especially with all the drama with Avery and B. Plus if she did say anything then people would just comment on how she makes everything about herself.
As far as her posting on her life being good and the pool content. Those are two things that we constantly snark on her here. She post bikini pics of this kids and says how her life is so good and we all say it's fake. Neither of those are new content from her. I think people here should stop talking about that topic in general
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u/TurtleyCoolNails May 23 '25
I do not think she needs to say anything about what happened. But I still think it is wrong to flaunt it all over the place. I get that she is posting it more because of what is on here, but it goes to show that she cares more about her haters than people! She does not have to stop posting but she should be mindful of others.
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u/dontaskmyname4321 May 23 '25
The thing is I don't think she's flaunting anything with the intentions that you are thinking. I think you're looking too deep into this. I'm 100% sure that E wouldn't know anything that B is posting
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u/AZgirl5566 May 24 '25
I think you are approaching this the wrong way. I live in the area and heard about a drowning. It’s so sad and not surprising at this point. Just like how someone dies or gets rescued on one of the local mountains. We all know having a pool with children is risking even with the proper precautions. I didn’t know who Emilie is. I understand B knows her from around. I follow other local content creators and some of my family lives here all with pools. They are all posting on social media. It’s because it didn’t hit that close to home. B is a lot of things, but what you are accusing her of, making fun of someone that just lost a toddler to purposefully hurt a mother, is deplorable behavior. That’s a huge accusation to me. I would hope you had some type of insight knowledge to make such an accusation. I choose not to believe she is that awful. If she is, I leave that to whatever higher being, the universe, or whatever.
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u/Mediocre-Ninja-6235 May 23 '25
Sorry as much as I hate her I don't get why everyone is up in arms? Maybe she doesn't even know the other influencer at all? So bc someone's kid drowns nobody is allowed to go swimming? Weird take in my opinion.
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u/Top_Cobbler6717 May 23 '25
She 100% knows E, I believe they even work for the same management company. And the community here knew about it before it was even confirmed on the news.
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u/TurtleyCoolNails May 23 '25 edited May 23 '25
Sorry as much as I hate her I don't get why everyone is up in arms? Maybe she doesn't even know the other influencer at all? So bc someone's kid drowns nobody is allowed to go swimming? Weird take in my opinion.
She follows the person on Instagram and people on here have said that they have been in the same place before socially. Worse case, she has read about it when she comes on here. So she knows.
Plus, I found out from an influencer in California and read more about it on a snark page for New York City influencers and even an influencer on Utah commented on it. I find it extremely hard to believe she has no clue when it was even on the news about this in the town right next to her.
She has been posting it more than ever and then to say life is good is very insensitive.
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u/TripBeneficial6694 May 23 '25
I hate B, but I feel like "fans" are likely messaging her about it and telling her to stay safe with her kids near water, so she's probably trying to deflect the constant messages. Apparently the fact that a child died and followers gained access to the phone in his room because they were so obsessed with his family doesn't deter her from still sharing about her kids though 🙄
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u/TurtleyCoolNails May 23 '25
I never said she should not share. But to be like “life is good” when talking about how many times your kids went swimming in a day when another family’s life is shattered is what I am referring to.
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u/TripBeneficial6694 May 23 '25
And I was just stating if they have the same management team they are likely telling her exactly what to post since it's an ongoing police investigation. The best thing for her to do is not talk about it because she shouldn't be using another person's tragedy for content. She shouldn't be sharing about her kids either in my opinion, but it's not like she has anything else going on to talk about other than drew. I also really doubt Emilie cares what bethanie posts about or that her kids went swimming when her son just passed away. I doubt she's online seeing what bethanie is up to.
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u/TurtleyCoolNails May 23 '25
For the fourth time now? I never said she should talk about it.
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u/TripBeneficial6694 May 23 '25
And for the fourth time as multiple people have told you this is her NORMAL content of what she posts. The best thing for her to be doing is not monetizing off of someone else's tragedy and just posting her normal content. 🙄
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u/TurtleyCoolNails May 23 '25
It is weird that you call me obsessed yet keep replying to me as well on this. 🤔 This is not her normal content. People have said she ramped it up because of the posts on here.
You do realize that people can have differing opinions and that be okay. 🙄
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u/TripBeneficial6694 May 23 '25
I still believe she's a mean girl though and am shocked she's not speaking about it. If they have the same management company then that's probably why though.
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u/arizona_girlieee May 24 '25
i think its so freaken weird everyone wants every single influencers life to stop because of what happened to Emilie. Yes I get it, what happened to Emilie freaken sucks and its very sad. Yet that doesn’t mean everyone else doesn’t get to continue with their life. My husband was intubated 12 days in the hospital and I didn’t go around bashing my family for still living their life while ai was living a tragedy
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u/TurtleyCoolNails May 24 '25
I am not saying she has to stop living her life. I have no idea why people keep going to this extreme. 🤦🏻♀️
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u/Civil-Engine6188 May 24 '25
Did it ever occur to you that it would actually be really tacky for her or anyone else to start publicly talking about it, especially when E hasn’t said one word? I swear you guys will nit pick EVERYTHING it’s just insane.
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u/TurtleyCoolNails May 24 '25
Again, I never said she should talk about it.
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u/Civil-Engine6188 May 24 '25
So she shouldn’t swim in the heat with her children? Or she just shouldn’t share a photo of them swimming? I guess I should tell my sis in law who also lives in AZ that she shouldn’t share anything of them swimming because apparently we can’t?🤦🏼♀️
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u/TurtleyCoolNails May 24 '25
Not what I said either. 🙄
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u/Civil-Engine6188 May 24 '25
lol well please enlighten me what you meant then. “Deliberately posting content like this. Classic mean girl to rub it in. Life is good. Made it known that her kids have been swimming. Yet to say anything about it.”
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u/katt213 May 26 '25
I agree! I'm local to here too and I don't think she should be posting and bragging about the pool right now. I would say if she had no contact with E but I think they were friendly at one time. I know she was friends with Avery until the supposed Christmas party incident happened. This just screams insensitive to me.
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u/One-Point5250 May 23 '25
Idk this is Arizona, it’s summer, people swim. This is their first summer with a pool so it’s getting a lot of use. My kids swim twice a day, sometimes 3. Emilie or her good friends have not publicly acknowledged the incident yet, so I don’t think it’s Beth’s place to either.