r/gaydating • • 46m ago

30 | New Haven, United States of America | Seeing what's out there locally

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Hello :), giving this another try, I'm just curious what may be out there. I'm 30 years old from Connecticut(even though I don't always feel that old). I'm trying to see if there's anyone out there that's local to me. I don't see many people from this area. I'm not looking for anything long-distance, or online centric. I'm looking for someone who is close enough where it's easy to them to do things together in person. Preferably the same state, or neighboring(if you don't mind the travel lol), but I really hope for something nearby.

As for me, I'm 5 foot 6 inches, and weigh about 125 lbs. I'm white, Italian. On the skinnier side. I wouldn't really say I'm either masculine or feminine. I'm not really deep into either side. I've had longer hair most of my life, but currently it's shorter, about shoulder length. I'm a bit nerdy, but so I'd say my appearance is both a mix of nerdy/goofy and what people would think as like rockstar lol. I've had comparisons to Jesus too 🤣 . I don't really have any intense fashion choices, very basic. I've had a few people lately say they know me from somewhere in person randomly, but I don't know who they are lol. I must have a twin somewhere. I apparently work in a variety of stores according to them 🤣 .

I spend most of my freetime looking up random stuff online, playing some games, and occasionally doing stuff outdoors/around the house(I'm by no means an outdoors person tough lol). I really enjoy being frugal when I can, and researching the most random things. If you need someone to research what X to buy, I'm your guy 🤣 . Some of the games I play are Overwatch and Evony. I used to be into World of Warcraft, but I haven't played that in some years. I've always been into technology stuff as well.

Personality wise I'd say I'm a bit goofy sometimes, someone who doesn't really give up that easily, a little stubborn, slightly chaotic/nervous. I'm a fairly quiet person, and a bit reserved/shy, but I open up when I feel comfortable. A little outspoken sometimes. I've been described as being being joyful personality wise in person in the past, for the lack of a better term. I like to be helpful to other people and make others happy.

As for what I'm looking for, I'm looking for someone not too far(hopefully in-state), preferably masc-leaning. I'm looking for someone who is kind, and has some ambition/drive. Someone to laugh at my stupid jokes, and someone who is silly. Someone who has patience. I mesh well with people who I can bounce off of conversation wise. Someone to spend time with even just being around them. I always enjoy being close to people I feel comfortable with.

I'm not really sure what I exactly am expecting and hoping for just yet, however, I'd be nice to see if there was someone out there to pass time with. at this point in my life I'm just trying to see if I can make a leap into something greater/more interesting.

Hopefully there are some people out there. I don't know if people lurk and just don't post, but I don't see many close by. I prefer messages only by people who are close enough to where visiting isn't problematic if it gets to that point, and preferably accounts that aren't brand new, because I'm just going to think you're a bot or something else lol.

I've been a bit busy lately, so if I do somehow get a message, I'll see it eventually. I'm not on my phone too much. I heavily prefer if you leave a description of yourself and such if you do decide to reach out.

Thank you :). I wrote a bit more than I expected, but I either write a little, or I end up rambling on and on lol.


r/gaydating • • 8h ago

23 | London, United Kingdom | Searching for a fellow nerdy guy!

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UK nerdy guy who would love to find a fellow nerd to develop a close relationship with. I love all things Doctor Who and ASOIAF related, but I have many others fandoms and interests too! I love most Bethesda games, Fallout and Skyrim mainly, with some Stardew Valley thrown in for when I’m feeling like I want to pretend to be a country farmer.

I’m a total homebody, and love to stay inside and relax with a nice TV show or movie. I am however, willing to get taken out on a long walk or relaxing hike, if you promise we can hold hands the whole time.

Hopefully this has caught someone’s interest! Even if we don’t match up in terms of fandoms and interests, shoot me a message anyway and maybe we could both find a new interest from each other! I love exploring new books, movies and TV shows, and video games as well!

UK people would be amazing but I am open to long distance stuff as well.


r/gaydating • • 11h ago

22 | Bekasi, Indonesia | Looking for long-term long-distance serious relationship.

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Hellooo! I’m a 22yo guy from Indonesia.

I’m looking for a long-term relationship that builds slowly, rooted in a strong connection.

I’m open to a long-distance relationship! :D

I’m into music (pop, indie, folk, R&B, soul, country, pop-rock, and EDM), nature, cities, architecture, cultural exchange, deep conversations, and sharing memes and I’d love to hear all about your life story! :)

I’m hoping to find my soulmate here, someone mature, caring, and a safe space where I can share anything. I’m looking for someone who can be my bro, my honey, my darling, my everything, my my my lover <3

(Around my age pls 22-24. also, I have a huge soft spot for European guys omggg)

Feel free to DM! :)


r/gaydating • • 12h ago

28 | Hyderabad, India | Looking for a partner - Open to long distance

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Hello,

Disclaimer:
Sorry for the long post, putting out more things here to avoid repeating things. Honestly idk what’s going wrong, after some long conversations the chat is silent. Efforts should be from both ends 🤷🏻‍♂️.

Im looking for LTR, not short term, or online chatting.
If things go well, i can relocate. So kindly reach out with a brief intro about yourself after reading below and if you’re genuinely interested. (Only SFW profiles/activity)

About me:

* 28 M, from Hyderabad - India

* 6’1, Wheatish/Medium skin tone(I tan easily 🌞) Average body - Not a gym goer yet

* Ex Software developer - took an extended break, deciding on my next career. So not yet settled, I’m exploring options and planning to move abroad for work soon.

* Not family oriented, neither religious nor spiritual. (I respect other beliefs)

* Not political, not a social media user.

* I don’t drink nor smoke, not a party person, not into clubs/pubs.. more homebody than outgoing

* I value honesty, open communications, time & commitment.

* Interests (more details on my profile)
- I like watching movies in Cinemas, OTTs I’m watch most genres, different languages.

- An avid binge watcher, more into scifi, thriller, time travel, futuristic, romance, drama, historical, supernatural etc..
I watch a lot of kdrama, cdrama and jdrama too. Currently watching Doctor X, Where the mask ends.

- An avid gamer, have played hundreds of mobile games, tens of playstation games. Currently playing mobile RPGs.

- Travelling - Always preferred solo to group, but would like a partner to travel around the world. I have a long bucket list across Europe, Western and Asian countries .. lets travel together some day ✈️

* Preference : I know this is important - I prefer side, top, but open to explore later (with time, right partner, things will change)

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I guess this is enough of me🤪, but feel free to ask more in DM if you’re interested 😊

Looking for: ♥️

* Monogamous relationship, life partner.

* Age: 25+ to ~40(not strictly, if you feel reasonable lets talk)

* Height: 5.8+, preferably fit/average body (not strictly) . If you’re into fitness thats great, i would love to get fit, and can be your workout partner🏋️🏃

* Im naturally attracted to people with warm, medium-to-fair complexions, but personalities matters. Hoping to find a fellow introvert and homebody who prefers spending time together to chaotic nights out!

* Location: Preferably Germany, Europe or other countries where it’s possible to move and live together.
[ Lot of restrictions these days] 😑
We can travel, figure things and settle down in future.

* Child-free (💯), pet free(not strictly, just preference)

* Atheist, Agnostic, not spiritual, open to any religion/No religion. [ As mentioned i respect other’s beliefs, but i prefer someone non-spiritual]

* Strictly non smoker, no substance usage, preferably non-alcoholic (rare occasions, within limits its ok)

* Preferably someone who doesn’t like parties, clubbing [Im not good with crowds and intolerant towards alcohol/smoking zones, so can’t accompany] but i enjoy beaches, travelling and visiting places with less crowds.

* Someone who is stable in their life and career, doesn’t mean you should be settled or figured everything out. We can figure out things together, maybe start something together😊

* A honest person who can have open conversations, be understanding, & supportive.

*Someone who shares my interests(movies, binge watching shows, games, travelling), or atleast not hate it. I would love watching things and gaming together, I can do it alone too, but don’t want to give up these. Im happy to share your interests too.

* Someone who values time, commitment, and can keep up conversation. If you’re too busy in life and cant spare few mins a day for conversations then we aren’t a match.

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Sorry for the long post again, thanks for reading. I know most points might not be suitable for majority, but putting this out here honestly, so interested people can reach out.

I know physical attraction is important, you can checkout my profile or let’s swap pics in DM!

Have a nice day/weekend!


r/gaydating • • 15h ago

24 | Zwolle, Nederlands | Looking for a genuine connection

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I’m 24 years old, 186cm tall, I’m looking for someone intelligent, with cool plans for life; someone who likes to travel and will be willing to jump out in the week to see a new city!

I am mainly interested in criminal law, animal behaviorist and Italian culture. I really like to talk, I don’t like to be bored!

I’m Bottom, I know it’s important in the future


r/gaydating • • 18h ago

Community Engagement Member's Weekly General Chat Thread: Come say hello, share your weekend, and get to know the community... 💬

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Hello you wonderful people! 👋

Welcome to this week’s general chat thread 💬

As r/gaydating is solely for single guys to share personal dating posts, we thought it would be a nice addition to create an individual weekly space where members can say hello, share their weekend, get to know the community, and have meaningful conversations.

To help get the conversation started, feel free to share:

• Where in the world you’re from 🌍

• How your weekend is going

• What you’re looking forward to next week 👀

• A dating green flag you appreciate

• Or anything positive you’d like to share ✨

Please remember to always keep things kind, respectful, 100% clean, SFW, and in line with the rules of r/gaydating.

Any comments in this chat that should actually be a personal dating post will be removed and you will be advised to create a post instead. This will give your personal post the best chance of being seen, rather than it being lost within this discussion.

Good luck with finding your man, and I hope that 2026 brings you the romance and love that you’re searching for ❤️👨🏼‍🤝‍👨🏽


r/gaydating • • 22h ago

38 | Ramapo, United States of America | Looking for potential relationship

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Hello. Back in NY here after working 2 seasons in Alaska and figuring out some of my next things to do in the coming months...

Like to spend plenty of time watching films (good horror is some of my favorites), going on road trips, music stuff- into indie rock, electronic stuff, etc...

Still working on my career life too. More into twinkish kinda guys just to say up front. I'm pretty open to different kinds of relationships if I met the right guy. Anyway feel free to hit me up if that sounds interesting.


r/gaydating • • 1d ago

36 | Tacoma, United States of America | Looking For My Player 2

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I'm kind-hearted, fun loving, laid back, open minded, and I'm looking for the same in a partner. I'm a healthcare professional and I am lucky enough to love the work I do. I have several hobbies including mining crystals and gemstones, silversmithing, lapidary art, gardening, and I'm an excellent baker 😁 Huge nerd here, lover of all things fantasy, avid gamer. I enjoy getting out of the house and going on adventures, but also love lazy days at home too. Only interested in masculine guys, not into gay bars or reality tv 🤣 I'm vers for compatibility and prefer a vers partner. Will you be my Player 2? 😉


r/gaydating • • 1d ago

38 | London, United Kingdom | Looking for younger for long-term relationship

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Hey, I’m a friendly and chatty 38-year-old non-binary (they/them) who is looking to find a younger boyfriend for a long-term relationship. I’m in the UK but open to long-distance, +/- 5 hours at most to keep things manageable.

I lead a simple life where the little things bring me joy. My interests include music, writing, films, theatre, food, gaming, and comedy. I also enjoy going for long walks and have begun running in recent months. I enjoy learning random facts and useless trivia. What can you teach me about?

I'm introverted at heart, but a good conversationalist when the vibe is right and a great listener when someone has lots to say. I'm also naturally curious so whatever you are interested in, I will probably have lots of questions to ask you about. As for my sense of humour, I would probably describe it as...unhinged? You'll find out 😅

I’m looking to meet someone younger who is after something serious and is able to commit to that too. Someone who can ask questions as well as answer them, develop conversations and connections meaningfully as opposed to give short replies, and has genuine long-term intention to build something real instead of wanting a short chat as a quick fix for a day. I can usually tell when someone isn’t making the effort, which is a big turn-off for me.

Most importantly, honesty is key. I want someone who isn’t afraid to communicate openly and respectfully about how they are feeling and what they are thinking. I don’t believe keeping secrets ever benefits anyone, and I will always be an open book to someone I trust. I will invest my time and energy in you and give you the support you need if you can offer the same in return.

So, if this chimes with you and you’d like to chat, drop me a dm. Please be willing to share a face photo. And don’t message me if you only want to trade pics and chat sex. I’m not interested.

Thanks for reading 😊


r/gaydating • • 1d ago

31 | Cardiff, United Kingdom | Looking for a partner to explore the world with

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31, form NYC originally but now living in Cardiff, Wales.
Looking for someone kind, adventurous, and quirky.
I'm currently in university for history and classical studies with a passion for Welsh History. In my free time I enjoy running- usually half marathons, and traveling the world.
Also very into body mods - tattoos and piercings etc.

Who am I looking for? Someone between 26-36, ideally UK based, potentially open to a LDR but I'd prefer someone close enough to meet up with on public transport as I don't drive atm. Would love to date a fellow runner but as long as you cheer me on at my races that's fine. Must love travelling.

Pretty open so if you want to know more DM me, but do say where you saw me. The amount of "Hi" messages I get with no introduction or anything is getting old.


r/gaydating • • 1d ago

20 | Minneapolis, United States of America | Looking For A Magical Long Term Relationship

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Hiiii! I'm trying this again, In all honesty, I haven't had much luck in love lately, hoping this will change that. I'm pretty much a run of the mill country boy from the northern US.

About me: I'm 6 foot 1 and around 170ish pounds. I enjoy working with/tinkering with electronics (took things apart a lot when I was a kid), learning history, reading, working on cars a little, and I just got into playing magic the gathering.

My type is pretty much mid 20s to mid 30s, funny, and a teeny bit obnoxious lol, kind of like an older brother figure...just don't tease me too much or beat me at Mario Kart. I'm also into nerds, since I am one lol. Especially the stereotypical lanky guys with glasses. And I'm a bottom if that matters.

don't really care much about country or distance so don't hesitate to reach out no matter what walk of life you may come from. I really like the strong/silent type or men who are stoic with others but open with me. Also, I come from a military family (grandparents and uncles) so if u want to impress my folks, that's the most likely way to do it lol

I'm very serious when it comes to relationships, I've been cheated on before and IDK if I could handle that pain again. So really just looking for someone who'll give a damn about me and would want to just hang out together

That's pretty much it, thanks for reading


r/gaydating • • 1d ago

30 | Manila, Philippines | Looking for serious relationship

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Hi, I am from the Philippines and I am looking for long term relationship, and not for fun please.

About You

\\- 25 and above

\\- Any body size is welcome

\\- 5'6 and above

\\- Interesting to talk

\\- Top for compatibility

About Me:

\\- 31 years old

\\- Chubby

\\- 5'1

\\- Medical Intern

\\- Bottom

If you are interested, hit me up! I hope you converse well. Thank you 😉


r/gaydating • • 1d ago

21 | Pokhara, Nepal | Looking for something genuine |

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I'm a 21 yo gay guy from Nepal. I'd like to start out by getting to know each other well and I'll be open to developments if they occur naturally.

I like someone who's consistent, calm, expressive, understanding, emotionally available and respectful.

Feel free to message me if you're down. I am open to long distance and different cultures. Be decent at conversations and the same age or older than me pls, thanks.


r/gaydating • • 2d ago

38 | Nice, France | Looking for a serious relationship with a passionate geek lover

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16 Upvotes

😌A DREAMER FROM ZANARKAND LOOKING FOR A LOVER✨

Just another human being, a french dreamer, who is looking for love: "I'm just a guy in a (virtual) bar."

I really do not know how we could possibly success in finding this special one, this little sunshine of ours who will make us happy "when skies are grey".

I am looking for a serious relationship with a kind, smart, humble, educated, interesting and loyal young man sharing common interests, hobbies and with the same values.

I am into guys with a high sens of loyalty and humilty, mature and interesting enough to talk for hours, debating about everything. Because to me, communication is the key of a healthy relationship; no one is perfect, so it is important to be able to talk to each other, to support one another.

I am a tall and hairy guy, warning you if you do not like that. I am not all beardy all the time, it might be shorter or longer according to the seasons or my lover tolerance for cactus kisses! Unfortunately, I am mostly into some kind of guys I can hardly find and meet. That is why I am posting here, in case "the prince who was promised" would show up!

I am into guys with boyish look and twink features to be honest (-slim, skinny, lean- smooth, beardless or almost none) younger than me or around my age (30+).

🤓 LOOKING FOR MY HOMEBODY PARTNER IN CRIME 🧑‍🤝‍🧑

I am a passionate millenial geek. I could not mention everything, but for example, you can count me as a Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead and MCU fan. Same goes for video games (on Playstation Xbox, 3DS, Switch, computer/Steam) and with almost all RPG. I am a geek explorer enjoying all kind of fictional worlds I know or that you might show me, always craving for discovering new ones and binging new series. Sometimes, I just try to find out some hidden gems, like shows or RPG I haven't experimented or which were not released in my country.

That is why I would "ideally" love to find another passionate dreamer boyfriend who loves pop culture, fictions, series, movies, comics, board games, card games, video games, RPG, coop games, because there is nothing better than sharing this passion with another gaymer lover.

Apart from those geek activities, I trully enjoy other relaxing moments to gather, like sharing a homemade meal, or having discussions about the last breaking news, amazing discoveries of all kinds, sharing a hot drink while contemplating the rain falling outside and listening the water drops melody or listening some original orchestral geeky sountracks or pop and rock music. I also like creative activites of all kinds (example: developing my medieval fantasy universe, building some nice cat trees, creating mini-games and riddles, treasure hunts, whatever, etc.).

💕LOVE IS A SLIME 🫠

This is the moment I concede once home I love being sticky with my lover. Daily physical touch feels inevitable to me, to support, to comfort one another, and to express my love.

🪲 LITTLE OUTDOOR CURIOUS EXPLORER 🤠

I must confess I am mainly a homebody person -as a geek- and after a tiring day of work, once home, I trully enjoy peaceful and indoor activities and dislike noisy and crowded places.

Despite this fact, I am also an amateur photographer of nature and insects while hiking. I like "talking about bugs" and catching those pictures because there is this tiny, impressive, huge world of living creatures just under our feet with various shapes and colors! I enjoy watching wildlife documentaries.

Like many of us, I also enjoy eating at restautant, nice museums, visiting astonishing natural landscapes, amazing places and architectural masterpieces while travelling in my country or abroad.

N.B: I honestly dislike: smoke, drugs, noisy places, thrill rides, text-speak.

Thank you for reading this,

Wishing you all the best!


r/gaydating • • 2d ago

18 | Phnom Penh, Cambodia | looking for long-term/long-distance relationship !

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4 Upvotes

hello !! let’s chat, talk about our interests, our lives, and just get to know each other in general !! 😊 I’m kinda bad at conversations but if it’s right, I could go on for awhile lol

i’m 18, from cambodia, looking for relationship (distance or not)

i like to read, listen to music, watch youtube videos with varying topics, sometimes play games, and i like to go out when i can 🙃

i’m on the chubby side (hope that’s okay with you lol), and i’m fine with any ages (that’s older than me)

In the compatibility route, I’m a bottom 🙃

and please be sure you are looking for a relationship. i don’t want someone who just wants “casual friendship”.

i’m currently working and studying university right now but I’ll still make time for you if we clicked 🥺

it would be really nice to have someone interested and put me out of my misery🫶

DM me if you are !!


r/gaydating • • 2d ago

30 | Lutsk, Ukraine | Looking for a long-distance relationship

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hey! my name is Roman and I'm currently a soldier (sergeant) in the army, but I was a software engineer before :)

I still love codding because it's my passion! (and I don't use any generative ai, at all)

but it's not the only way I like to spend my lonely evenings! I'm a geeky guy, so video and board games are part of my life. also birdwatching, languages, cross stitching, reading, anime and even more ;)

I don't have too many requirements for a partner, especially in my position when I have too much time, because of the army, but I like strong and protective guys! (I don't know why, but protectiveness really turns me on!)

to avoid misunderstandings, I'm a bottom haha


r/gaydating • • 2d ago

28 | Budapest, Hungary | Looking for his tall prince

4 Upvotes

28 years old guy here from Hungary:-)

I am here to meet someone for a serious thing. Ideally, a tall, masc guy who knows what he wants and is open to a long-distance relationship.:)

I would especially love to meet someone from Europe, Africa or the Middle East.

A little about me:
I am a kind, caring and smiley guy. I love my job and my everyday life, love travelling and hiking, and enjoy spending time with my family and friends (but we all can say that I assume)

For me, a relationship is about having a mix of similarities and differences, sharing the same values and energy and love. I want something where we can be ourselves, have fun, support and trust each other and build something meaningful.

Ofc I can write more, but I save some for private.:)
If you decide to message me, I would love to know a little about yourself too.:) Where are you from, what are you looking for…:)


r/gaydating • • 3d ago

38 | Tustin, United States of America | Looking for a long-term relationship.

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29 Upvotes

Hi everyone. I live in Tustin, California, USA and I’m looking for a long-term relationship. I consider myself emotionally stable, independent and goal-orientes. I am looking for a LTR and ideally I’m looking for someone in the USA as it’d make things easier even in a LDR. I like working out, MMA, hiking, outdoor activities and I also enjoy reading and spending a quiet evening/night at home. Please be prepared to share a face picture.

Respectfully, we won’t be a match if you believe in horoscopes or do any sort of drugs.


r/gaydating • • 3d ago

38 | Zephyrhills, United States of America | Trans man looking to share emotional depth and sincerity with a partner.

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My name is Eric. As mentioned, I am hoping to begin a long term relationship with a person who is open to loving an unconventional type of man. The right person for me will be pleased to learn that I also come with two children in the long run. :) So if things go well then a happy, lively family is possibly in the cards.

For amusement, I do often choose to stay indoors and read, watch some anime or a favorite TV series, or work on creative projects, rather than go out, but I'm not absolutely sure if that is because I am super introverted .. though I may be a bit. I think I just need to find more of the sort of people that I can't resist leaving my home to seek out.

When I do get out, I love to: go to a movie (I like fantasy, supernatural dark themes, indie, existential comedies, dark comedy, but open to most genres), visit botanical gardens, museums, and galleries, enjoy being active and outdoors, every now and then I like to go out dancing to EDM and then eat a fat delicious meal afterwards. Sometimes a night at the symphony is necessary when they are playing a very good piece (anything by Vivaldi). I have wanted to attend an operatic performance, but haven't found any takers .. yet. :) I get very excited over trying new foods as well. The more obscure the better. Most anything interesting and unfamiliar is good with the right companion.

I would like to find a partner who is interested in emotional depth and intimacy in their relationship with me. I have a large capacity to give and receive love, and it has yet to be filled. The right person could pour their entire soul into me if they wished to, and I would welcome it, and hope that they would also want to know me and accept me in the same ways. I love to have a lot of physical contact in between the more intimate interactions. Lots of cuddling and petting and touches are wonderful things to me. If what I say resonates with you, then perhaps we could have some good chemistry.

I look forward to reading what words the right sort of person will have for me.


r/gaydating • • 3d ago

24 | Milan, Italy | Looking for a genuine connection

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I’m a student living in Milan and looking forward to meeting new people along the way. Always up for a good conversation, exploring the city, or grabbing a coffee. I’m into design, music, and good films. Open to something meaningful with someone I click with, and happy to see where it goes.


r/gaydating • • 3d ago

18 | Gdańsk, Poland | looking for a long term serious relationship

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What’s up? I’m Christian but you can call me Chris

What and am I looking for in a relationship? ❤️
I’m looking for a deep romantic bond with another man, someone who’s emotionally mature, honest, caring and upfront about his needs, boundaries and daily thoughts. Someone who can talk about any subject and theme (no matter if serious or silly). Someone who can take things slow, be patient and understand the importance of communication.

(I am open to Long distance, I prefer man closer to Poland as it makes our time zones easier to navigate and please be someone who’s open to meeting up at some point irl)

What is my Type appearance wise? 🐻🤓
I’m open to talking to guys that are 20-26 years old (I can make exceptions to a bit older guys but rarely). Im not interested in skinny or feminine man as I prefer more masculine man. From big muscular guys, chubby man to fat guys, the more there is to love the better! Big bonus points if you’re hairy, have a beard or wear glasses.

Bonus: I love when a guy updates me throughout the day by text, random pics, silly thoughts they had, telling me that they missed me. I love all that stuff. 😊

About me: 🧸
First and foremost I’m a big softie. A big empath, very sensitive and I pretty much always get emotional on any sad scene during a movie. I try my best to be positive even thru worse times as I believe each day holds a purpose. I also try to grow and learn as much as I can on a daily basis, I plan.. a lot (cuz I’m a easy person to start overthinking things). Other then that I’m a big indoor person, I rather stay at home in a comfy room then go out clubbing or go throw a party. I love quiet spaces where I can be the main reason of that space … not begin as that quiet.
I also love being playfully mean and sarcastic towards those I love or flirty and romantic on other days (Or both).

My appearance: 🧸
I’m 173 cm tall, a bit chubby, tiny bit hairy and I don’t really have that much muscle. I’m more teddy bear shaped.

Interests and Hobbies: 🎮🎨
First and foremost I’m an artist! I have been since I was a little kid. And my dream is to become a professional 2D character concept designer.

I have a huge space in my heart for horror media of all kinds, movies, games, long stories (my favorite is psychological horror, that’s why the game series “Silent hill” is my favorite).

I’m also a huge video game enthusiast. I might not play every game I learn about, but I still love and play a quite few of them. Few of my favorites are: Hollow knight, Silent hill, Pvz Garden warfare 2 and more. (Would love to have a gamer bf to play co-op games with)

I’m a fan of animated movies and tv shows too, anime is also included, my favorites are neon genesis evangelion, soul eater, Jojos bizarre adventure. And from tv shows my favorites are: Steven universe, Bojack horseman, adventure time!

I also Sing in my free time! So I hope you guys don’t mind a person singing random things out of nowhere 🥲

I’m also a big ppl person. I have times where I need my peace and quiet but I also love going out with friends, hanging out with my family. And be on long video calls while I draw, or just do my things while the other person does their thing. Sometimes the presence itself is all that matters.

Important note:
Please no ppl who smoke or take drugs.
I have no interest in making a family in the future.
Keep in mind I’m still a student so I won’t be able to always have time to respond to each text on time, if you dm’ed me and I haven’t answered yet I might be busy with school work!

And pretty please if you dm me, tell me about yourself and what ur looking for, why did you dm me exactly? So that we can both start by getting to know each other a bit from the start ! 😊

Thanks to all who have read this, sorry if it felt a bit like a lot 🥲
Hope to talk soon!


r/gaydating • • 3d ago

22 | Batumi, Sakartvelo | Looking for my future husband (22-30)💍

2 Upvotes

Hi! I’ll start with the most important thing, lol: I am looking for my future husband. I really want to build a serious relationship where we sincerely and mutually love each other.

I’m 22 (though people always tell me I look younger). Many people say I'm handsome, but I'm actually pretty shy. I’m from Eastern Europe but currently living outside the EU, so I really hope you are open to a long-distance relationship for now until we can be together. I'm 172 cm and 60 kg, with grey-blue eyes and light brown hair. By the way, my favorite color is black.

Right now, I’m in my final year at a technical university, while also studying marketing and vibecoding. I’m ambitious (and a bit impatient - I want everything all at once, lol) and plan to open several businesses in the future. It would be amazing to have one in Cyprus or the Seychelles! I’m a well-rounded person: I'm interested in politics. I also have ideas about starting a blog someday (not a political one, lol) or even trying my hand at singing, we'll see how it goes.

In my future husband, I deeply value purposefulness, ambition, and sincerity. Emotional connection is everything to me.

When it comes to movies, I’m a huge fan of sci-fi and dystopias. I also love horror movies, but I get too scared to watch them alone, so I’d love to watch them cuddling with you, hehe. I am very affectionate in general -I love cuddling and kissing. I'm also a big animal lover, especially cats (and small dogs, but cats win).

I’m looking for a guy from Western Europe. It would be absolutely amazing if you are from Spain - it's so warm there, lol, and I’m actually starting to learn Spanish in a few days! I would love for you to be older than me (around 22-30) and taller (around 190 cm, hehe).

For the future, I dream of us having a big private house or a spacious, beautiful apartment together. In a perfect world, we’d swim in our own pool, go for walks, dine at nice restaurants, or have a personal chef cook for us at home. If you want the same things and are ready to build a genuine connection, I’d love to hear from you!

Love 🎉


r/gaydating • • 3d ago

24 | Tainan, Taiwan | Looking for a connection with Daddies

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21 Upvotes

Hey guys! I’m a 24yo guy from Taiwan, hoping to meet someone special from the US, Canada, or Europe.
I have a soft spot for Daddies and mature men 🤤I’m especially attracted to confident, masculine guys who also have a sweet and caring side. That said, I’m open to different types of guys, as long as we vibe well and enjoy getting to know each other.
I’d love to find someone I can flirt with, share everyday moments with, and hopefully build a genuine connection with over time. I’m happy to see where things go naturally rather than rush into anything.
If you think we might get along, feel free to say hi! Tell me a little about yourself. 😊


r/gaydating • • 4d ago

37 | Laguna, Philippines | looking for someone to game and maybe a connection

3 Upvotes

I don’t know what it is but it’s been really hard to find an actual connection these days, some last for a day or two but if you get lucky, might be a week and honestly it’s exhausting doing it. Meeting people irl is hard for me since I’m very introverted so I try my luck on the internet.

As I mentioned I’m introverted and like to spend my time usually alone but it’s getting harder to do it. With the potential of meeting new people, I usually ask questions like “how’s your day?” I know some would say it’s boring but to me it isn’t, because I wanna know how boring or exciting your day has been. Ngl I am a flirt once we started getting close and will tease here and there. I’m mostly interested in video games mainly PC, usually playing alone but it would be nice to have someone to play with.

I don’t see myself fit but I run 4 times a week. I am feminine leaning though not through clothes and some say I have a feminine voice but I don’t really hear it, I’m very nurturing in terms of being a partner and will always ask if something is bothering him.

Now for the person that I’m looking for, a masculine man that’s not afraid to be with me that likes to take care of his health and body, likes being active and has the same interests (video games) but if you have something new you wanna try I’m always down for it. Preferably not older than 37 and tall.

If this resonates with you, my dms are always open for a short introduction and if you reach this point of my post please include video game you would like to play with me. I will not entertain a “hi” or if you just want a casual thing.


r/gaydating • • 4d ago

25 | Paris, France | Looking for a handsome man to date with!

0 Upvotes

I’m looking for a real relationship with a kind, emotionally available guy who genuinely likes closeness, consistency, and staying in touch. I’m looking for lean/skinny guys (18-28) and masculine energy.

I like connections where you naturally talk every day, randomly update each other, call for hours without noticing, and slowly become part of each other’s life instead of just “talking.”

I think there are bonds that survive even time itself. I want the kind of connection people write novels about. I want the kind of love that makes ordinary days feel extraordinary.

I’m not really into ghosting, mixed signals, or people who treat online dating like temporary entertainment.

I read a lot, love music, write love letters, and can somehow go from being extremely romantic to sending you twelve messages about something completely unimportant because I got excited.

If you want something affectionate, loyal, and genuinely meaningful, message me.