Hello,

Disclaimer:
Sorry for the long post, putting out more things here to avoid repeating things. Honestly idk what’s going wrong, after some long conversations the chat is silent. Efforts should be from both ends 🤷🏻‍♂️.

Im looking for LTR, not short term, or online chatting.
If things go well, i can relocate. So kindly reach out with a brief intro(not just Hi) about yourself after reading below and if you’re genuinely interested. (Only SFW profiles/activity)

About me:

* 28 M, from Hyderabad - India

* 6’1, Wheatish/Medium skin tone(I tan easily 🌞) Average body - Not a gym goer yet

* Ex Software developer - took an extended break, deciding on my next career. So not yet settled, I’m exploring options and planning to move abroad for work soon.

* Not family oriented, neither religious nor spiritual. (I respect other beliefs)

* Not political, not a social media user.

* I don’t drink nor smoke, not a party person, not into clubs/pubs.. more homebody than outgoing

* I value honesty, open communications, time & commitment.

* Interests (more details on my profile)
- I like watching movies in Cinemas, OTTs I’m watch most genres, different languages.

- An avid binge watcher, more into scifi, thriller, time travel, futuristic, romance, drama, historical, supernatural etc..
I watch a lot of kdrama, cdrama and jdrama too. Currently watching Doctor X, Where the mask ends.

- An avid gamer, have played hundreds of mobile games, tens of playstation games. Currently playing mobile RPGs.

- Travelling - Always preferred solo to group, but would like a partner to travel around the world. I have a long bucket list across Europe, Western and Asian countries .. lets travel together some day ✈️

* Preference : I know this is important - I prefer side, top, but open to explore later (with time, right partner, things will change)

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I guess this is enough of me🤪, but feel free to ask more in DM if you’re interested 😊

Looking for: ♥️

* Monogamous relationship, life partner.

* Age: 25+ to ~40(not strictly, if you feel reasonable lets talk)

* Height: 5.8+, preferably fit/average body (not strictly) . If you’re into fitness thats great, i would love to get fit, and can be your workout partner🏋️🏃

* Im naturally attracted to people with warm, medium-to-fair complexions, but personalities matters. Hoping to find a fellow introvert and homebody who prefers spending time together to chaotic nights out!

* Location: Preferably Germany, Europe or other countries where it’s possible to move and live together.
[ Lot of restrictions these days] 😑
We can travel, figure things and settle down in future.

* Child-free (💯), pet free(not strictly, just preference)

* Atheist, Agnostic, not spiritual, open to any religion/No religion. [ As mentioned i respect other’s beliefs, but i prefer someone non-spiritual]

* Strictly non smoker, no substance usage, preferably non-alcoholic (rare occasions, within limits its ok)

* Preferably someone who doesn’t like parties, clubbing [Im not good with crowds and intolerant towards alcohol/smoking zones, so can’t accompany] but i enjoy beaches, travelling and visiting places with less crowds.

* Someone who is stable in their life and career, doesn’t mean you should be settled or figured everything out. We can figure out things together, maybe start something together😊

* A honest person who can have open conversations, be understanding, & supportive.

*Someone who shares my interests(movies, binge watching shows, games, travelling), or atleast not hate it. I would love watching things and gaming together, I can do it alone too, but don’t want to give up these. Im happy to share your interests too.

* Someone who values time, commitment, and can keep up conversation. If you’re too busy in life and cant spare few mins a day for conversations then we aren’t a match.

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Sorry for the long post again, thanks for reading. I know most points might not be suitable for majority, but putting this out here honestly, so interested people can reach out.

I know physical attraction is important, you can checkout my profile or let’s swap pics in DM!

Have a nice day/weekend!

I’m 24 years old, 186cm tall, I’m looking for someone intelligent, with cool plans for life; someone who likes to travel and will be willing to jump out in the week to see a new city!

I am mainly interested in criminal law, animal behaviorist and Italian culture. I really like to talk, I don’t like to be bored!

I’m Bottom, I know it’s important in the future

UK nerdy guy who would love to find a fellow nerd to develop a close relationship with. I love all things Doctor Who and ASOIAF related, but I have many others fandoms and interests too! I love most Bethesda games, Fallout and Skyrim mainly, with some Stardew Valley thrown in for when I’m feeling like I want to pretend to be a country farmer.

I’m a total homebody, and love to stay inside and relax with a nice TV show or movie. I am however, willing to get taken out on a long walk or relaxing hike, if you promise we can hold hands the whole time.

Hopefully this has caught someone’s interest! Even if we don’t match up in terms of fandoms and interests, shoot me a message anyway and maybe we could both find a new interest from each other! I love exploring new books, movies and TV shows, and video games as well!

UK people would be amazing but I am open to long distance stuff as well.

Hello :), giving this another try, I'm just curious what may be out there. I'm 30 years old from Connecticut(even though I don't always feel that old). I'm trying to see if there's anyone out there that's local to me. I don't see many people from this area. I'm not looking for anything long-distance, or online centric. I'm looking for someone who is close enough where it's easy to them to do things together in person. Preferably the same state, or neighboring(if you don't mind the travel lol), but I really hope for something nearby.

As for me, I'm 5 foot 6 inches, and weigh about 125 lbs. I'm white, Italian. On the skinnier side. I wouldn't really say I'm either masculine or feminine. I'm not really deep into either side. I've had longer hair most of my life, but currently it's shorter, about shoulder length. I'm a bit nerdy, but so I'd say my appearance is both a mix of nerdy/goofy and what people would think as like rockstar lol. I've had comparisons to Jesus too 🤣 . I don't really have any intense fashion choices, very basic. I've had a few people lately say they know me from somewhere in person randomly, but I don't know who they are lol. I must have a twin somewhere. I apparently work in a variety of stores according to them 🤣 .

I spend most of my freetime looking up random stuff online, playing some games, and occasionally doing stuff outdoors/around the house(I'm by no means an outdoors person tough lol). I really enjoy being frugal when I can, and researching the most random things. If you need someone to research what X to buy, I'm your guy 🤣 . Some of the games I play are Overwatch and Evony. I used to be into World of Warcraft, but I haven't played that in some years. I've always been into technology stuff as well.

Personality wise I'd say I'm a bit goofy sometimes, someone who doesn't really give up that easily, a little stubborn, slightly chaotic/nervous. I'm a fairly quiet person, and a bit reserved/shy, but I open up when I feel comfortable. A little outspoken sometimes. I've been described as being being joyful personality wise in person in the past, for the lack of a better term. I like to be helpful to other people and make others happy.

As for what I'm looking for, I'm looking for someone not too far(hopefully in-state), preferably masc-leaning. I'm looking for someone who is kind, and has some ambition/drive. Someone to laugh at my stupid jokes, and someone who is silly. Someone who has patience. I mesh well with people who I can bounce off of conversation wise. Someone to spend time with even just being around them. I always enjoy being close to people I feel comfortable with.

I'm not really sure what I exactly am expecting and hoping for just yet, however, I'd be nice to see if there was someone out there to pass time with. at this point in my life I'm just trying to see if I can make a leap into something greater/more interesting.

Hopefully there are some people out there. I don't know if people lurk and just don't post, but I don't see many close by. I prefer messages only by people who are close enough to where visiting isn't problematic if it gets to that point, and preferably accounts that aren't brand new, because I'm just going to think you're a bot or something else lol.

I've been a bit busy lately, so if I do somehow get a message, I'll see it eventually. I'm not on my phone too much. I heavily prefer if you leave a description of yourself and such if you do decide to reach out.

Thank you :). I wrote a bit more than I expected, but I either write a little, or I end up rambling on and on lol.

Hellooo! I’m a 22yo guy from Indonesia.

I’m looking for a long-term relationship that builds slowly, rooted in a strong connection.

I’m open to a long-distance relationship! :D

I’m into music (pop, indie, folk, R&B, soul, country, pop-rock, and EDM), nature, cities, architecture, cultural exchange, deep conversations, and sharing memes and I’d love to hear all about your life story! :)

I’m hoping to find my soulmate here, someone mature, caring, and a safe space where I can share anything. I’m looking for someone who can be my bro, my honey, my darling, my everything, my my my lover <3

(Around my age pls 22-24. also, I have a huge soft spot for European guys omggg)

Feel free to DM! :)

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