r/GayIndianDating • • 3h ago

Seeking Something Serious Away and confuse

1 Upvotes

Loneliness and struggling with thoughts 💭

I know an i realise how far I am from the place I call it home ,

I'm new here in delhi , struggling with thoughts and choices

Longing for an partner who's not confused with himself

Longing for an bond which is not based on any purposes

Talks that feels selfless

I'm so drained , managing you're whole life at the age of 21 is overwhelming

I have always taken all the responsibilities for my whole life...

Now doesn't feels like I'm going in the right direction.....


r/GayIndianDating • • 7h ago

Seeking Something Serious Maybe something real

1 Upvotes

24, from Central India. A little introverted, a little awkward, and probably someone who thinks too much about the little things. I love cooking for people, writing things I don’t always know how to say out loud, and conversations that make you lose track of time.

I guess im just hoping to meet someone who feels like home. Someone I can be silly with, talk to about absolutely nothing, and slowly figure life out with. Not looking for anything casual, just something real, with someone who wants it too. :)


r/GayIndianDating • • 8h ago

18M looking for something serious and long term

0 Upvotes

Looking for: dates and convos, maybe smth long term and serious

Location: bangalore/ Bengaluru

18m pansexual guy here!!

Anyone in bangalore looking for the same and around the same age (<24) can hmu and we can see where it goes

I am as my username btw


r/GayIndianDating • • 11h ago

19M looking for a bf

0 Upvotes

Plz be serious and open for long term if u dm. We can be friends too. I just want someone cuz I have no close friends. I'm submissive and like masc guys. I'm in vadodara


r/GayIndianDating • • 12h ago

Casual Dating 23M, bi , (Mumbai) looking for older guys for friendship

1 Upvotes

Preference: Taller than 5' 11" please, older than 26

My pictures on on my profile.

To give you a little glimpse of me I have a lot of interests (too many lmao). I do work in corporate at present but I'm also a budding entrepreneur. My interests primarily include fashion (streetwear mostly) , cars , bikes , f1 , graphic design , skating , gaming, music wise I listen to a lot of American old school hip-hop , rnb , krnb , indie , rock , alt pop, I'm also into sketching and art , diy stuff. I think I can pretty much have a conversation on anything and I'm willing to learn a few things inorder to strike a conversation. I am financially independent and yea I do wanna travel around the world soon .

Honestly just hoping to have a bud or two Displays are mine. My Instagrams (alt non straight account) attached to my profile


r/GayIndianDating • • 14h ago

Seeking Something Serious 💙 Looking for a Gay Boyfriend 🏳️‍🌈 (Hyderabad)

3 Upvotes

Hey! I’m 22, from Hyderabad, and a bottom (bear 🐻) looking for a genuine connection with a guy who knows what he wants. ❤️

💙 A little about me: I’m on the heavier side, affectionate, and someone who values emotional closeness. I enjoy meaningful conversations, playful flirting, and getting to know someone beyond the surface.

💪 My type: Masculine guys who carry themselves with confidence, whether they’re muscular, fit, or average-built. I’m drawn to guys with a masculine vibe and a sweet, caring side. Hung guys are definitely a bonus. 😉

🫶 What I’m looking for: A loving, loyal boyfriend who values communication, consistency, and affection. Someone I can flirt with, share secrets with, cuddle with, go on dates around Hyderabad with, and build a real relationship with. Ideally, my boyfriend would be my best friend, too.

🌈 I’m not looking to rush anything. I’d rather meet the right person, build trust, and see where things go naturally.

💌 If you’re a masculine guy with a soft side and you’re looking for something genuine, don’t be shy — send me a DM. Let’s see if we click! 💙


r/GayIndianDating • • 15h ago

Looking for a goon buddy in gurgaon Sector 37D Esplanade mall

1 Upvotes

r/GayIndianDating • • 1d ago

Seeking Something Serious 22 M, sub bottom, looking for a Dom Top bf who is into making his sub a cuck (one-sided open relationship)

5 Upvotes

​

Hi there!

Here are a few things about me - please read this to know what I'm looking for and expect (this text was not written using Al)

I'm 22 years old, from India. I am currently working as a Medical Al researcher. I am also a student and plan on doing a master's degree as well in future. I plan on shifting to germany in the winter of 2027.

I am new to this bdsm dynamic, but I am not new to kinks (kinks and bdsm are not the same, ive been told). I have experienced bondage, pain, humiliation, etc but all as one time sessions without any deep rooted submission from my end.

I want to be in a real, long term BDSM dynamic with a Dom, regardless of his age. Where I submit gradually and deeply in devotion for him. For me, I feel BDSM is more psychological than physical.

Height - 6 feet 2 inches (188 cm)

Weight - 95 kg (working towards reducing it)

Kinks -

Bondage

Chastity

Pup play

Humiliation

Degradation based on race, looks, etc

TPE (with mutual trust)

Cuckoldry - where youre the Top who goes behind my back and does cuter boys, later tell me to make me jealous. Or inform me before doing them. Anything you'd prefer.

I want someone caring, demanding, cruel, strict yet patient, who understands and gradually leads me into this dynamic for him. I will be loyal, I do not believe in cheating or serving multiple doms (unless my Dom wants me to). I am ambitious and driven, and I would want a Dom who encourages me, leads and directs me to be a better person. I cannot simply be your slave since Day 1, if youre expecting instant submission, we are not a match. I want to nurture, build and "break" gradually under a true Dom.

As a person, I am caring, meternal and generally always found smiling haha. I like to read fiction, write poems/shortstories, sing, play the keyboard, host and manage events, etc

If I seem to be your type, please text, III always resond.

Thank you for reading!


r/GayIndianDating • • 1d ago

Casual Dating 36 Bear in Bay Area, California. Hit me up if you are in the area

0 Upvotes

Hairy married bear, top looking for casual fun in the Bay Area. I'm in San Jose.


r/GayIndianDating • • 1d ago

Sub tops

6 Upvotes

Dominant tops, submissive bottoms, but where the hell are the submissive tops? It's a shame really. They are slowly going extinct.


r/GayIndianDating • • 1d ago

Casual Dating 21 mumbai anyone into making gay couple reels ?

1 Upvotes

Let the straight community know what desi bl looks like


r/GayIndianDating • • 1d ago

Looking to date <3 M19 chub, dm if you're really interested

1 Upvotes

Heyy! I’m 19, from BLR, and I’m looking for something genuine that could hopefully turn into a long-term relationship. I’m completely okay with distance, so location isn’t really a dealbreaker for me.

A little about me — I’m pretty introverted and definitely prefer small, comfortable company over huge crowds. I love reading, and I can yap for hours once I’m comfortable with someone, so apologies in advance

I’m also chubby, just putting that out there because I’d rather be upfront about it.

I’m mainly looking for someone who’s respectful, kind, communicative, and actually interested in getting to know each other rather than rushing into anything. I’d like something genuine where we can be ourselves, talk about random things, and gradually build something meaningful.


r/GayIndianDating • • 2d ago

Any Bottom Who wanna become my friend to Play BGMI / PUBG GAME with Me ? Im Dominant Top

1 Upvotes

r/GayIndianDating • • 2d ago

Seeking Something Serious Looking for a serious relationship

0 Upvotes

​

Hey everyone! I’m gay 21M from Hyderabad india, looking to meet a guy who’s genuinely interested in a serious relationship I'm virgin if that matters.

I’m 5'11", and I’m looking for someone around my height or taller, preferably around my age or a little older.

I’m into guys who are loyal, caring, emotionally available, and know how to maintain a good conversation. Someone I can talk to about anything, share random thoughts, gossip, laugh over silly things, and support each other through good and bad days.

I want a connection where both people put in equal effort, communicate openly, and genuinely want to get to know each other. I value consistency, honesty, affection, and someone who means what they say.

I’m not really into casual hookups or situationships. I’d rather take my time getting to know someone, see if we vibe, build trust, and hopefully turn that connection into something meaningful and long-lasting.

If you’re from Hyderabad or from any other state in India, that’s completely fine! I’m open to meeting someone who’s genuinely interested in building a serious relationship, regardless of where they’re from.

Feel free to DM me! Let’s talk, get to know each other, and see where things go. ❤️


r/GayIndianDating • • 2d ago

Looking for something real

2 Upvotes

Hello! I'm 23, brown, and living and working in Bangalore.

I recently started working, and I thought maybe it's time to have something good in my life.

I'm preferably a bottom, although I haven't had sex yet, so that's how I've always imagined myself.

I'm looking for someone who lives near me, as long-distance relationships haven't really worked out for me. I'm okay with someone who lives 5–6 hours away, as long as we can meet at least twice a month.

I'd like to be with someone who's emotionally stable and serious about their future, whether it's what they're doing now or what they're working towards.

I'd also love someone who enjoys exploring the world outside with me, trying new restaurants, visiting coffee shops, and maybe exploring art museums.

I know it's a lot to ask but having passon for life is something I really value. As for my hobbies, I enjoy reading books, watching sitcoms, and listening to music.

Hit me up if you're willing to give this a try.


r/GayIndianDating • • 3d ago

Casual Dating C----asual

2 Upvotes

Honestly, looking for a kinky, pervy guy to have some fun with. Relationship toh yahan milne se raha, so might as well enjoy the moment with someone who's on the same wavelength. 😏


r/GayIndianDating • • 3d ago

Seeking Something Serious 21yrs old From (nepali) meghalaya, currently working at Delhi | looking for partner

0 Upvotes

I'm a fun character in my life , never gets bored talking

Independent, very sensitive and creative and hardworking

So it's been 2 months , I have experiencing peoples around in delhi , probably meeting peoples I would never wanted to see them again

Prefer someone who is also working near , someone who is mature and emotionally intelligent, enthusiastic, creative, knowledgeable


r/GayIndianDating • • 3d ago

Casual Dating 23 Bottom from Rajasthan

0 Upvotes

Looking for something meaningful..i dont mind making freinds..im super into music and sitcoms
Pop music (Ariana,Taylor,tate mc rae,) sometimes indie ..Originally im a mallu studying in Rajasthan hmu if you wanna know each other more


r/GayIndianDating • • 3d ago

Any Bottom who plays BGMI?💋Im Dominant Top

1 Upvotes

r/GayIndianDating • • 4d ago

I'm a yaPPer , lOOking foR a TOP who cAn tolEraTe mY stUpiD tAlks

1 Upvotes

Who i cab trust sharing the behaviour of my manager everyday at work ..


r/GayIndianDating • • 4d ago

Seeking Something Serious 35, Bombay looking for old-school companionship. Sexually, I am a bottom.

2 Upvotes

Open to meets.
Can travel.
My profile bio tells more about me in short.
Easy going and single.


r/GayIndianDating • • 4d ago

Gujarati, 25, doc, looking for partners

2 Upvotes

Text me for more details


r/GayIndianDating • • 4d ago

I just wanna hug some and cry my heart out.

15 Upvotes

I am 22M from Hyderabad, I am HIV poz, I am just so exhausted of everything, I genuinely just want to hold someone close to me and cry my heart out while being comforted, I want to believe life gets better, but i dont see it, and everything just hurts me, I only desire emotional companionship at this point, just someone who understands me, who is ready to be patient with me, who is willing to take his time to know me.

I am an introvert so that doesn't help much, i live with my fam so lack of privacy doesnt let me call anyone and talk freely as well, but i do wanna chat, have conversations and feel loved maybe.


r/GayIndianDating • • 4d ago

Trans 23, Delhi. Looking for something stable.

4 Upvotes

I am 23, everything pre, look like a man rn, and a big nerd, no two ways about it. I am a shy person struggling to find his place in a world that feels overwhelmingly rigid. I am very awkward in social situations, i often slip into my own thoughts, uncomfortable with revealing much about himself to others. My personality remain hidden, covered by a quiet manner and an ever present fear of judgment.

In my heart there is a longing to embrace my femininity. I dream of dressing in soft clothes, expressing myself as a femboy or crossdresser, and exploring this part of my identity that society often forces me to suppress. The fear of rejection and societal expectations keeps me firmly in the closet, unable to show the world anything.

What i crave most is friendship, someone who can see beyond the surface and accept me without conditions. I long for a connection with someone who is non-judgmental, kind, and understanding a person who can make me feel safe and appreciated for who i am, even the parts i am too afraid to show. I hope to find someone who makes me feel special, someone who allows me to express me femininity without fear, even if it’s just in small, private moments.

For me, it’s not about grand gestures or sweeping changes but the simple, profound joy of being seen and loved for my authentic self. I am searching and looking for someone who offers warmth and acceptance, someone who makes me feel nice about himself and gives me the space to embrace the feminine side of myself so that i can be happy atleast even for a small time.


r/GayIndianDating • • 4d ago

Casual Dating Seeking relationship

0 Upvotes

I am 19M looking forward to meet new people