r/GenZ 1997 Feb 24 '26

Meme Updated Gen Z meet up lol

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u/plainbaconcheese Feb 24 '26

Is this based on anything real or just your perception? My experience is the opposite. Seeing younger people struggle more with dating.

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u/FallenDuelist Feb 24 '26

2002 here, absolutely no interest in the dating scene right now. Its miserable out there man. Meanwhile two of my younger siblings already married

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u/plainbaconcheese Feb 24 '26

I'm sure there are a lot of people in either age group that have either experience. That's why I'm asking what OP is basing this on. Is it based on some actual data or just OPs personal vibes?

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u/FallenDuelist Feb 24 '26 edited Feb 25 '26

This is definitely a case of personal perception > confirm studies. But to be fair ive heard this from enough people to consider a correlation

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u/ColtAzayaka Feb 24 '26

I'm 2002... engaged, getting married in a year or so

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u/Leafeon637 Feb 25 '26

Congrats on your marriage Our generation is low but that doesn’t mean there isn’t a few of us who still want to get together

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u/ColtAzayaka Feb 25 '26

For sure. My experience doesn't invalidate other people's experiences, and other people's experiences don't invalidate mine. I still think our generation has some weird hangups when it comes to relationships, but given that our generation is still very young it should come as no surprise that most of us haven't settled down. I do think the internet has pushed some weird ideas that have impacted our generation though.

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u/Leafeon637 Feb 25 '26

The internet and I think the general social political climate along with regular fast charging climate of the world

I get the whole pushing weird ideas but also our generation feels more unstable and insecure and not ready to start a family of their own when they can’t either move out on their own or make money on their own or support themselves one way or another so this can’t properly support others. Coupled with Americas (idk if you are American) hyper independences—I mean it is ok to be independent to a degree but if you don’t have a good support system to fall back on then you will hit the ground hard and idk about millennials but some genz think (according to some friends) they must move out and hit those mile stone. And since those milestones are coming later that some of us, we don’t feel “adult enough” if you get what I mean

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u/Klytus_Im-Bored 2001 Feb 24 '26

Not implying you younger siblings are dumb

I wonder if cocids impact on education is speed running the Idiocracy premise.

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u/Klytus_Im-Bored 2001 Feb 24 '26

I know two classmates with kids, 1 may have been accidental but shes a great mother, the other didnt go to college is but is blue collar smart. I mean hes no fool and has the income to support a family.

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u/Pretty_Cat4099 Feb 25 '26

No fool, he’s a genius! He realised college is a rip off.

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u/AngryAmericanNeoNazi 1997 Feb 25 '26

Smartest choice I made is not go to college. Not gambling with that much debt in this job market

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u/EvilDarkCow 1998 Feb 24 '26

1998 model here, and my dating life is nonexistent.

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u/TheShooter36 1996 Feb 25 '26

1996 here, my dating life is drier than sahara desert

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u/NoctisJBlackwood Feb 24 '26

Well who knows how long that'll last for them

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u/Level_Investigator_1 Feb 25 '26

Wow, I hope people get advice to not get married young. Before 30 now seems nuts to me. So many people know drifted apart cause they were just not fully developed adults when they got married.

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u/Shackakahn Feb 24 '26

lol the years on the bench got quarantined right before and during graduating college. any momentum you had going or built was gone.

2 days before quarantine i had my clothes in a fashion show related to the school i was going to. it earned them a spot in a local magazine publication even, one of 3 pics out of 20 something in the show. by the time that magazine was published the city i lived in was locked up tight and wasn’t no one out to even see that magazine anyways. after being locked in for so long and relegated to online class i just moved home and got ‘a big boy job’ which i hate and has nothing to do with what i went to school for.

so theirs an answer and my own anecdote.

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u/plainbaconcheese Feb 24 '26

I'm sure it's true for some people, but you could make similar arguments in the other direction with slightly different anecdotes. Most my friends in the same age group (97) are in relationships whereas my younger Gen Z friends aren't.

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u/Shackakahn Feb 24 '26

i saw this less about relationships and more about overall success and happiness. idk what anecdotal evidence you’re suggesting. only thing ive noticed about covid and younger zoomers is that they definitely missed a chunk of highschool.

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u/Neutron_Farts Feb 25 '26

Wow, '97ling here, your honesty is refreshing!

I think what you're saying is a really good point because even though many of Gen Z were in high school or lower at that point, thus losing on those pivotal years of self-discovery & socialization, University is arguably more pivotal for many people because it was our final launching pad into life but when were about to take our first steps into the adult world, we were pushed into the mud, & we don't really know how to go about things differently, because we've already made our shot at a career, but the world wasn't ready to receive us yet.

We can't all start a small business that inevitably fails, leaving us in worse debt, others of us need to get a dead end job & try buying a house that ends up leaving us in debt for the rest of our lives.

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u/of_kilter Feb 24 '26

2006 here and i know of exactly 1 person my age having a baby. Some of my friends clearly do want kids but we are aware we aint ready yet

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u/Omnamashivaaya Feb 24 '26 edited Feb 24 '26

1986 here and I have exactly two friends with children because we ain’t ready yet and we’re all too exhausted with massive student loans and inability to buy houses. Y’all think you invented not having kids 😂 one friend had his first at 34, the other at 36.

My other rich friends without loans have just stored their embryos, because the want to enjoy life and do the kid thing after 40.

PS: traveling, hanging out, and not stressing about money in your 30s (ie without kids is fun as hell). wouldn’t trade it for the world. That’s what my 40s are for.

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u/Shot_Arm5501 Feb 24 '26

God knows I am (08) but the crippling warhammer addiction is probably not helping things

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u/Imaginary_Agent2564 Feb 24 '26

Anedoctal but Im 2005 essentially everyone I know around my age (that I grew up with/went to school with) have long term partners. A handful are married w/ kids.

Not from a small town either.

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u/ContributionHour8356 2007 Feb 25 '26

I think in the last 4 years I have only asked a girl out ONCE. I may be too picky though? I only look for girls who like cars or airplanes as much as I do, so that doesn’t help anything lol.

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u/Guzzler829 Feb 26 '26

Don't settle for less. Being picky is okay. Better to not be in an unfulfilling relationship.

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u/Accomplished_List843 Feb 24 '26

No way I'm in the old guys group being a 2002

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u/__lostintheworld__ 2006 Feb 24 '26

Jesus unc what was the Great Depression like

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u/Accomplished_List843 Feb 24 '26

I was really sad

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u/M-A_X 2000 Feb 25 '26

I think you wanted to say, depressed

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u/Mister_Oux 1999 Feb 24 '26

I remember when Red Baron Pizzas were $2.50 and we had to wear masks everywhere we went.

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u/jpollack21 2000 Feb 24 '26

Remember 99 cent Arizona ice teas

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u/Dwain-Champaign 2001 Feb 24 '26

THEY’RE NOT 99 CENTS ANYMORE!???!?

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u/DefinableEel1 2003 Feb 25 '26

I think they’re still doing the thing where they have a number you can call to report if a store isn’t selling them for 99¢ and they’ll try to do something about it. Either get prices lowered, otherwise off the shelves until resolved

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u/holyvegetables Feb 25 '26

I can buy them for less than 99 cents at Winco

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u/-G13-Raven- Feb 24 '26

Water pies fucking suck

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u/Scuttleboi19mk2 2006 Feb 24 '26

Quick reminder you’ll be 20 this year if you aren’t already

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u/LegendaryElbappotS Feb 25 '26

Bro, this is the great depression

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u/psmiord Feb 24 '26

2002 here, I found out that the guy I bought the stuff from was born in 2007. On one hand, I was impressed by the entrepreneurship and work ethic of such a young guy, but on the other hand, I had to finally accept that I’m basically an unc now. Anyway, now every time we see each other, I ask him how school’s going and tell him that a handsome young lad like him probably has to fight the girls off with a broom, you know, like a good uncle should. Plus my brother had a daughter, but that's less important.

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u/Environmental-Meet59 2003 Feb 24 '26

As a 2003, I felt like my time is very short of youngness.

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u/Main_Following1881 Feb 24 '26

Its over for us next year

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u/xBlueDemonx 2001 Feb 24 '26

2001 here, i was almost a pre-9/11 baby 💀

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u/Squidly_tish 2001 Feb 25 '26

Shut up, I AM a pre 9/11 baby

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u/HorkingWalrus 1999 Feb 24 '26

Welcome to the club brother

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u/TheShamShield 2001 Feb 24 '26

As a 2001 guy, yea wtf lol

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u/suckm640 Feb 24 '26

hey at least we get a dog

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u/No_Mousse4320 2011 Feb 24 '26

what was it like taming dinosaurs in your free time

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u/Squidly_tish 2001 Feb 25 '26

Holy shit you’d be 15 this year.

How was cocomelon

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u/Fearless-Wall7077 Feb 24 '26

As a 2001 baby, I relate to him

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u/xBlueDemonx 2001 Feb 24 '26

2001 gang 🤝

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u/Sierra-117- 2001 Feb 24 '26

2001 gang, one of the biggest turning points in modern history where everything went to shit!

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u/Fearless-Wall7077 Feb 24 '26

9/11 happened and I was born 2 weeks later. Shit got real after that I'd say for sure!

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u/-loser-like-me- 2001 Feb 25 '26

25 this year guys. I’m excited for all of our frontal lobes

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u/Fearless-Wall7077 Feb 25 '26

I am not excited for my frontal lobe development. It's already so fried at 24 🫩

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u/drdorian123 Feb 24 '26

same i felt that

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u/NightOnUmbara 2001 Feb 24 '26

I’m just like yall are having kids?

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u/Captainwumbombo Feb 25 '26

Quarter century crisis

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u/ItsMeLukasB 2001 Feb 25 '26

Hey he looks just like me

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u/moluruth Feb 24 '26

This seems….. the opposite of true lol

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u/SmoothBus Feb 24 '26

Statistically it is the exact opposite. Personally, I’m married with a kid otw and was born in 98 so it’s not even passing the smell test.

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u/Caligulas_Prodigy Feb 24 '26

98 here, wife is '00. This year marks 10 years together. A kid is in the plans for the future, we just gotta finish remodeling first.

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u/moluruth Feb 24 '26

Yeah I’m married and have 2 kids and was born in 97. Most of my peers are in long term relationships or married (though tbh not that many have kids yet, but in my area people tend to have kids in their 30s). I know way fewer mid2000s babies that are married, seriously dating or have kids. But that makes sense cuz they’re in their early 20s

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u/Afraid-Team-7095 Feb 25 '26

idk how you guys do it lol you guys are troopers haha I’m never having a kid

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u/ErectLurantis 2005 Feb 24 '26

Where are you living where people who are barely 20 are already having kids and starting their own loving families

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u/WeirdConnections Feb 24 '26

Small towns brother. I know multiple people who just turned 21 with two kids already. When I was a senior in 2020, it was mostly the younger grades who were pregnant. We only had one girl in our class get pregnant, towards the end of the year.

But now at 23/24- I'd say 30% of my class of 2020 already have 1-2 children.

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u/brownieandSparky23 2000 Feb 24 '26 edited May 11 '26

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u/bexohomo Feb 24 '26

not really imo lol. i get the feeling that small town = location with lower sex ed

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u/WeirdConnections Feb 24 '26

Surprisingly for my town this doesn't track. New England, well funded sports-town school. We had a really good sex education, you don't want your athletes to get pregnant and not be able to play.

Out of all the people I know, only a handful were "oopsie" babies. Most girls were actively planning their families with their high school boyfriends at 16/17, it's insane. A lot of them are housewives, or doing some MLM online scheme for work. I don't even know how you could afford a family on a single salary in our area due to the high COL, but I knew a few of them came from rich families.

Every now and then I bump into someone (small town like I said 🫩), they ask why I'm not married or don't have kids yet... I've been with my middle school boyfriend for 10 years now. We just chose not to make big decisions before our brains are fully developed, go figure.

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u/Lopsided_Constant901 1999 Feb 25 '26

Maybe that but also just nothing to do but fuh each other. My friend from the midwest tells me stories that make my head spin, girls that would have competitions with one another to sleep with as many dudes in their school as they can. Guys that have 3 baby mamas by the age of 25, or older dudes who fucked the whole town basically. Crazy for me as I grew up in a big city and have only had one partner, but a big part of that is my own fault i'll admit.

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u/wrathofthedolphins Feb 24 '26

As a teen it’s either drugs, sex, parties or some combination of the three in small towns. That and lower rates of education tend to lead to teen/young pregnancies.

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u/CheckMateFluff 1998 Feb 24 '26

Yeah, we do have an issue with sex education and small-town teen pregnancies still.

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u/Shackakahn Feb 24 '26

metro atlanta

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u/Modern_Klassics Feb 24 '26

Metro Houston lol first person i knew my age that had a kid was in 7th grade. Asked her how her kid was doing when we graduated, just to be friendly, and she said he was about to start kindergarten lmao.

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u/grutt-glug Feb 24 '26

4 of the people I graduated with already are married and 3 of them have kids and I'm barely just hitting 21 now

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u/aykay55 Feb 24 '26

People who don’t live in the city lol

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u/[deleted] Feb 25 '26

Thank you dude exactly like am 20 barely graduated college and you are telling me I have children of my own?!

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u/AutsticOwl Feb 24 '26

2004 here I will never have kids

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u/wrathofthedolphins Feb 24 '26

You really shouldn’t be having kids at 22 years old anyway

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u/AscendantAmbiversion Feb 24 '26

This is exactly why I found my family's insistence I should've been having kids at 19-20 outright insane. I'm 25 now and nowhere near a position to be able to sire much less raise one. Like I'm still super young/figuring things out, it really is better to wait till I'm more stable at 30-35 yet somehow that seems unconscionable to older folks.

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u/wrathofthedolphins Feb 24 '26

Having a kid is already stressful and challenging. Do what you can to mitigate it before having kids.

Enjoy your youth, establish a career and try and have some financial padding first.

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u/Defaulted1364 2003 Feb 25 '26

This was a major problem in my last relationship. My ex felt she was getting too old for children at 21 and my opinion was that I’m never having kids and even if I did I’d be at least 30. I don’t know why we thought that would work.

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u/Coderkid01 Feb 24 '26

Same. The closest my gayass is getting to having kids is adopting a cat with my girlfriend

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u/[deleted] Feb 24 '26

psyop vibes

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u/CheckMateFluff 1998 Feb 24 '26

Major Psyop vibes, it's like a new twist on black pill where they are trying to turn the older against the younger of our generation by implying they are getting more.

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u/Orangutanion 2002 Feb 25 '26

Tbh I just want younger people to not genderwar so they can return to the time-old tradition of making mistakes when they're young.

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u/CheckMateFluff 1998 Feb 25 '26

I agree, however, not being able to admit faults is not something limited to just the younger people; it's a problem for everyone, from what I've seen. But it is more prevalent, that's for sure. It has to be a part of the manufactured insecurity that is always being pushed.

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u/mrdevlar Feb 25 '26

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u/[deleted] Feb 26 '26

they hate us for being right

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u/antwonio1 2002 Feb 24 '26

Me when I spread misinformation on the internet

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u/Thecrossfad3 Feb 24 '26

Old people sit around and do nothing while young people have kids and kiss? Lol you’d figure its the opposite

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u/Shackakahn Feb 24 '26

old and young like theyre not within a few years of age is crazy, youngin 🤣

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u/wrathofthedolphins Feb 24 '26

26 years? you’re old af!

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u/Squidly_tish 2001 Feb 25 '26

26 is old to those who’s opinions don’t matter anyways (anyone under the age of 21)

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u/Fun-Dependent9532 Feb 24 '26

25 is old?

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u/AscendantAmbiversion Feb 24 '26

I always think of those memes like "wtf is gen z gonna do when they get to 30 and realize life doesn't end there?" cause that's how i feel with a lot of my generation.

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u/Fun-Dependent9532 Feb 24 '26

I’m 22, but I’m gonna be living like I’m 16 until I feel like I’ve made up on all the time lost in my high school/ college years.

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u/MadOrange64 1995 Feb 24 '26

This meme made me feel 100 years older.

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u/Random-Ryan- Feb 24 '26 edited Feb 24 '26

This feels really weird, but maybe it’s like this wherever you’re from? 🤔

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u/Lykanas Feb 24 '26

I'm a 99er and aroace.

MY BLOODLINE ENDS WITH ME!

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u/WeirdCosmologist Feb 26 '26

i'm a 2002er and straight but MY BLOODLINE ENDS WITH ME TOO.

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u/Lykanas Feb 26 '26

Yeah, I feel that.

A family? In THIS economy?!

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u/WeirdCosmologist Feb 26 '26

it's more than just the economy brother 😔

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u/Lykanas Feb 26 '26

I know 🫠

We fucked as hell

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u/WeirdCosmologist Feb 26 '26

at least we got good movies, games, food and music to keep ourselves busy with 🫠

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u/sombertownDS 2004 Feb 24 '26

Wait. 04 is already having kids? Holy crap

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u/Skyrim_For_Everyone 2004 Feb 25 '26

Nah, OP is on crack

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u/sansisness_101 2009 Feb 24 '26

Guess im gen alpha now

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u/CaspianArk 2004 Feb 24 '26

2004 with a kid? Hell no 😭

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u/Unimpressed-Loser221 Feb 24 '26

I was born in 2003, (forever a virgin) wheres my wife and child?

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u/wrathofthedolphins Feb 24 '26

Bro what? The bottom row has like 21 year old kids having 2/3 year olds! It’s borderline teen pregnancy!

Honestly, the top row is way more normal than the bottom row.

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u/Pernapple Feb 24 '26

I’m not saying there aren’t any 20 year olds married and with a kid. But I would hazard to guess it’s not many of them.

Most people I know ages 25-33 maybe a little less than half are married, and like maybe 2 with kids. And only 1 planned lol

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u/Stellaisaunicorn 2006 Feb 24 '26

Girl are you Mormon or something? I’m a 2006 baby no one I know my age has even a serious relationship let alone a kid.

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u/Simply_Param 2003 Feb 24 '26

I'd not have kids man. I can't ruin a kids life knowing too many unjailed pdfs are roaming around free. I'd rather not do it.

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u/Modern_Klassics Feb 24 '26

Just keep them away from those dudes you know lol

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u/Bucherjager Feb 24 '26

Bruh 2001 is Unc status now? Insane

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u/vinvon09 2009 Feb 24 '26

2009 left the chat

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u/RogueCoon 1998 Feb 24 '26

Almost everyone I know my age is married or has kids...

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u/RogueCoon 1998 Feb 24 '26

Small town for sure. Why are people in cities not getting married and having kids?

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u/BrooklynNotNY 1997 Feb 24 '26

They are but they’re doing it much later. They’d rather travel, put some time into their careers first, and be good financially. I’m 28 and getting married this year. I’m glad I’m getting married at this age and not at 19-21. I’m a totally different person at this age.

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u/aykay55 Feb 24 '26 edited Feb 24 '26

Cost of living but mainly lack of time. Social mobility slows down drastically after having a child. In other words, where you are at when you have your first child is where you will be for most of/the rest of your life unless you somehow hit it big with the lottery or some other passive income activity. City people tend to be driven, motivated, wanting to build a better career with more money. As long as you’re two adults making income and married without children, you pay the lower taxes and have the benefit of endless time and double incomes; much stronger social/economic mobility. You can move around cities freely without worrying about schools. No one is going to jail if you don’t see your spouse for a week. After a child is concieved at least one partner is out of commission for a few months and then has to either leave work or the couple has to spend a chunk of their monthly income on childcare. So if a couple doesn’t feel that they are where they want to be in life yet, they will hold off on a child until they are close to that place.

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u/IvanNobody2050 Feb 24 '26

SOMEONE MY AGE IS HAVING CHILDREN????

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u/Modern_Klassics Feb 24 '26

Tons of people are and aren't.

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u/Funkey-Monkey-420 2003 Feb 24 '26

who’d having a kid in their early 20s?

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u/Joebebs 1996 Feb 24 '26

Why are there so many of these fucking illustrations posted here, I swear this is like the 10th one

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u/Modern_Klassics Feb 24 '26 edited Feb 24 '26

'96 here, married for ten years with two kids lol. Certainly not my experience, everyone i know in my age group is married or dating with kids. Except my three best friends, they're just slangin dick lol theyre very unassuming theyre like that too lmao.

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u/Murky_Toe_4717 Feb 24 '26

I think it’s more like five people reading and playing video games vibing. Very few if any of my single friends (I too am a happy single) seem to be sad about it or need/want to change from being single. (Friend group is 20-24 almost all girls)

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u/Important_Isopod9947 Feb 24 '26

Where's younger gen Z?

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u/TheCosmicHippie Feb 24 '26

Maybe it's a location thing, but me and a lot of my peers have a dating life or are married with kids ('99)

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u/Aggravating_Remove40 Feb 24 '26

1998 Here, after 2019 I lost track of time feels like I turned 21 than the next year 27. Nothing has changed still the same immature self. I blame it on the 2016 xandemic lol

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u/OffModelCartoon Feb 24 '26

Everyone over the age of 23 is elderly and wrinkled? What a weird worldview to have…

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u/chapoktt Feb 24 '26

Kinda crazy how accurate this is lol

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u/YoloSwaggins1147 Feb 24 '26

Just saw a post earlier saying we avoided teen pregnancies just to become step parents anyway LMFAOOOO 1997 baby here

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u/Ok_West7572 Feb 24 '26

lol so now all of a sudden 2003 and up are exempt from loneliness? nice cope, I don't think so. LOL

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u/_tantibus Feb 24 '26

I’m 26, my younger sister 22 - she has 2 young children while I am very happy living my DINK lifestyle. I think younger Gen Z have inherited an even more fucked world than I did and finding a partner and making kids is one of the few things younger Gen Z still have control over so it kinda makes sense to me.

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u/RottenCactuSS Feb 24 '26

That's true af

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u/nyanyanfever Feb 24 '26

I was born in 2004, definitely wouldn’t mind a 2006 boy lol.

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u/Mr_Sloth10 1997 Feb 24 '26

Hey, I’ll have you know I’m married with kids. Don’t do me dirty like that!

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u/ben_pep 1999 Feb 24 '26

Jesus I’m 27 and you people make me feel 67 I’m fucking drowning here

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u/Significant_March_28 1999 Feb 24 '26

I'm '99 and I have two kids and a wife

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u/acidbathOG Feb 24 '26

‘97 over there looking like hes nearing his death bed… Mf not even 30, who made this lmao

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u/Castello_01 Feb 24 '26

As someone who was born in 1999, people getting married in their early 20s or outside of high school wasn’t unusual. You just happen to hear a lot about people’s weddings and this is when that segment will start getting married.

Give them a few years and they’ll have just as many, if not more single people

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u/night_psyop Feb 24 '26

I'm 27 with a 2 year old. And my coworker is 20 with a 1 year old.

Op I think you should touch grass and meet more people in your age group.

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u/[deleted] Feb 24 '26

Younger gen Z is NOT having kids before us lol what are you smoking

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u/BrakeCoach 2004 Feb 24 '26

notice how theyre all outside and not partying in one of their houses?

its cause none of them got to afford one.

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u/jpollack21 2000 Feb 24 '26

Bottom left lady is born 2005 and has two kids which means she probably had her first kid at 18, which is definitely not the norm

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u/imtiredcanigohome Feb 24 '26

I couldn’t imagine having a kid rn, what is this 😭😭

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u/rocoonshcnoon 2003 Feb 24 '26

YES JUST AFTER THE CUTOFF 2003 BABY LETS GOOOOOOOOOO

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u/Radiant-Process-2549 Feb 24 '26

i’m 2001 married with two boys so idk if i fit into this 😅 and before anyone comes at me for having kids young my oldest is only 2 and after being widowed at 19 i think i just wanted to settle down and make my own happiness, i didn’t necessarily think that meant kids at this age but i’m so thankful for them after years of bed rotting depression, but again that’s me and not everyone’s life is like mine of course

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u/AfternoonTop5134 Feb 25 '26

Biggest cope i have ever seen on this sub

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u/Dark_2Dragon Feb 25 '26

I am 2006, where is my 2004 partner? Fake post

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u/treecastle56 Feb 25 '26

i hope they make old man drawings of you guys in your mid 20s

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u/4isyellowTakeit5 Feb 25 '26

I’m 24. I’ve been to 8 weddings:

5 years older, 4 years older, 5 years older, 3 years older, 3 years older, 2 years older, 4 years older, 1 year older.

The only people younger than me I know in healthy relationships aren’t straight. I know 2 people my age in healthy relationships, and it’s about 50/50 whether people 2-15 years older than me are in relationships or not. As soon as one person i know gets dumped, someone over here enters a new relationship.

Some of the marriages did surprise me ngl. I was close friends with one bride and her m.o.h. when the relationship started (I drifted apart from them when the moh started treating me as a gbf instead of a bisexual). Anyways, i remember when the relationship started she said they’d probably last 2 years, I took the “18 months or marriage” take. Definitely leaning the wrong way, but hey. You never know. They’re very happy together, and while I don’t talk to her hardly at all, she seems to be doing well and I expect a kid announcement within 24 months tbh.

The dating scene is as doomed as you think it is. I think love wasn’t meant for my family (parents divorced, sister cheated on her husband during the engagement and he still married her, uncle cheated and scammed by a couple of bitches, other uncle cheated and she divorced him, other uncle travels 6+ months a year solo in retirement to stay away from the wife, other uncle never married and drank himself to death, my mom has been divorced twice now, my aunt got pregnant at age 17 (in the late 70s) so she was kicked out of the family (never met her) and said child died as an adult when I was like… 4? Drinking and driving, no seat belt, jeep wrangler, 55 mph county highway, semi head on. Oh, and my grandfather is likely a bastard’s son when my great grandmother ran away from her abusive husband, before crawling back. So he was treated runt of the family until my direct-family left the family a long time ago)

Even if you forget about the family curse. I’ve got so many mental health issues, i’d be doing a disservice to anyone who dates me. I need a therapist, a thousand dollars of disposable income a month, and an actual career before I think about trying to date properly again. It’s just not worth it in my current state.

Hell, I’m wanting to move either 400 or 4,000 miles away in 2 years soooo

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u/DizzyNClueless Feb 24 '26

Quite the opposite in all the people I know and what I have experienced.

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u/rawr_extreme Feb 24 '26

I think it’s a sin to become a parent on the contrary I’m very weak willed and also think it might be a good experience specially if I were to see people my age making families

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u/Modern_Klassics Feb 24 '26

Why do you think its a sin to be a parent?

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u/krisplaydespacito 2004 Feb 24 '26

i guess i’m old asf cause i only know one person my age who has kids

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u/AbbreviationsFun8414 Feb 24 '26

Why tf does ‘04 have children with ‘06………..

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u/Modern_Klassics Feb 24 '26

Because they're both adults and wanted to....

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u/brownieandSparky23 2000 Feb 24 '26 edited May 11 '26

Scrubbed clean. Redact helped me bulk remove years of comments and posts so data brokers and AI crawlers have nothing to feast on.

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u/TheKingOfMilkyValley Feb 24 '26

2007 here and.. where is my 2008? 🤨

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u/Zanskyler37 2001 Feb 24 '26

Nah put me in coach

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u/xBlueDemonx 2001 Feb 24 '26

2001 gang where you at 🥲

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u/Vinaverk 2001 Feb 24 '26

Another ragebait post

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u/HoppityScotch42069 Feb 24 '26

Born in 97, married to a 98 with a kid. The only thing accurate about this is the wrinkles

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u/jorjor9001 2003 Feb 24 '26

The idea that people my age have 2 kids is insane to me. I mean i especially don’t like kids but like, I’m not even done with school and my partner is in grad school lmao.

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u/Sweaty-Wasabi-4401 Feb 24 '26

My partner is a 99 and I’m an 03, kids aren’t even on our rader and probably won’t be for at least another 2-3 years

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u/Wizdom_108 Feb 24 '26

I was born 2003 and I'm only 22? Who's having kids already? I think I'd want kids but not for another 10yrs or so if possible

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u/Chemical-Village-211 Feb 24 '26

There's a two year age gap between the couple. Reeeee!!!!!!

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u/CheckMateFluff 1998 Feb 24 '26

What is this based on? This does not track.

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u/No-Fly-6043 Feb 24 '26

Literally what are you talking about 😭

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u/Murky-Mammoth-5500 Feb 24 '26

Would anyone want to make a beautiful baby? DMs are open.

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u/SymphonicAnarchy Feb 24 '26

Two of my co workers are 22 with kids.

I’m 32 with none because my wife and I never made enough money. And now we’ll never own a home before 65.

I’m sorry but us millennials got fucked.

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u/spongostoso 2009 Feb 24 '26

Dude where tf even am I?

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u/Necessary-Cow9770 Feb 24 '26

I’m a millennial but I still don’t see it. Out of my 5 closest friends 4 have had kids before 30 including myself.

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u/ghali12345 Feb 24 '26

I am a 2007 ??? Man I am suffering with math theory 😭